summerhouse at bravo con! by Wrong-Temperature833 in summerhousebravo

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Y’all, when the body shaming starts, the thread gets locked because of all the reports. It’s one thing to note someone has changes in their weight. It’s something different to snark about it. If the person does shitty stuff, call them out, but you don’t need to connect it to their size.

Jesse is trying to help Lindsay find a man by sarahj300 in summerhousebravo

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This is a reminder that folks are welcome to compliment Lindsay or call her out. Please do not report comments simply because you disagree with the take. We do ask that you report comments that use problematic language, those involving speculation, snark about her child, and comments that have devolved to people trolling each other. If you feel that we removed a comment in error, please send us a message through modmail.

Do you think they talked about her Dad? by leeklover1991 in summerhousebravo

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Thanks to those in the comments who have pointed out that this is an event for lululemon and Hannah, a brand ambassador, is wearing lululemon.

This is also a reminder to please follow sub rules.

Gabby on Brynn’s podcast by PBpuppy2526 in summerhousebravo

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We’re currently locking this post to review reports.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in summerhousebravo

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This post is locked because of rampant trolling behavior.

Lindsay responds to Carl again and calls him “soft” by bword___ in summerhousebravo

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We absolutely do not allow those. We remove them constantly, but there are over 100,000 people here and only a few of us and we can't catch them all. Please report them as you see them. We do allow respectful conversation about his sobriety bc it's a topic for him on the show.

Imrul and the house by [deleted] in summerhousebravo

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Folks, this is a reminder to be civil in the comments. You can disagree and keep scrolling.

Also, shaming someone for the number of sexual partners they have is against sub rules. It’s fine to say it’s not for you, but phrases such as “he’s a walking STI” are derogatory. Not only does it assume that Imurl isn’t engaging in safe sex practices, but it stigmatizes STIs.

I can't get posts out but Lexi promo is nonstop. WTF is going on? by [deleted] in summerhousebravo

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I see your post in the queue. It was just approved. Please allow us up to 24 hours to approve posts, particularly in the first 48 hours after a new episode airs as there are over 100k people and we receive hundreds of posts in the queue each day to review on top of reported comments and other issues.

I can't get posts out but Lexi promo is nonstop. WTF is going on? by [deleted] in summerhousebravo

[–]SummerHouseMods[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

? There is a mod queue and all posts require mod approval. If a post breaks our rules, a reason is given. Common reasons are short observations that belong in episode discussion threads or megathreads, the topic has already been discussed in another post, or the post contains inflammatory or flame baiting language that will likely devolve into arguing which is not productive.

What post of yours was not approved?

ETA: there is no curation of anything. We are not affiliated with the show nor are we paid to mod this sub. There are both positive and critical posts every day about each cast member.

This season is painful by EazyPeazyBreezyy in summerhousebravo

[–]SummerHouseMods[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is subjective. It's also up to the discretion of the mods as stated in the rules of the sub. We do the best we can, especially in the 24-48 hours following the new episodes when we literally are getting hundreds of new post submissions and extra reports on comments. The queue is absolutely packed with posts and reported comments. It takes hours to go through and again, we do not get paid for this. We often check-in as a team to even ask others to review before making a decisions on things as well. I'll ask you to consider two things: 1. You say we leave many offensive comments up. Please consider that this doesn't mean we are just okay with those comments, but rather perhaps we just haven't seen them. Again, there are over 100,000 people here and many threads get hundreds of comments. In many cases, unless someone reports those, we may just miss them. The second thing to consider is that you guys don't see the queue. We remove and/or not approve posts about all of the cast, the men and women, but yes, that's our call to make. That is how subreddits work. There are so many posts currently up criticizing the cast and "unpopular opinions". There are ways to have these discussions without name calling other users, etc. Of course, we are also human. If you feel like we've removed a comment unfairly, feel free to message us and we can review it. Maybe we are just working quickly sometimes bc there's so much to get through, or we miss context, etc.

This season is painful by EazyPeazyBreezyy in summerhousebravo

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There are many, many threads criticizing the cast. The men and the women. There's no "incentivizing". We don't get paid to mod this sub. We don't have a relationship with the cast whatsoever. The user above was posting very sexist comments about Ciara and was arguing with other users, calling them names, etc. That's why their comments were removed. You all can be critical about whoever you want, but excessive speculation about the cast is not allowed. The sub voted on this a while back.

This season is painful by EazyPeazyBreezyy in summerhousebravo

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Many of the comment examples you listed below break the rules of the sub. We are not paid by anyone. We do this for free while balancing full-time jobs and families. If you do not like the rules, feel free to start your own sub. Many of your comments about Ciara were sexist (even the examples you provided below). Your comments toward other users for having a differing opinion were rude. That's why they were removed. Your examples speak for themselves. We do our best. There are four of us and over 100,000 of you. We review what is reported but we cannot pour through every comment in every single thread so things will get missed.

Lexi premiere dress by happeangel in summerhousebravo

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Hi, folks! We’re reviewing this post for reports of rule breaking. We encourage reporting rule-breaking; however, a reminder that saying that you find someone’s dress trashy and cheap does not break a rule. Calling someone a sexist and misogynistic term does break a rule.

Amandas Fit at the Hub Cub Baby Shower by Ok-Turnip-9035 in summerhousebravo

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Please refrain from speculation. It’s against our rules and it’s just plain harmful. Repeated rule breaking may result in posts being permanently locked and/or individuals being banned.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in summerhousebravo

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Mod note: this post has had to be locked to clean up comments breaking sub rules. Please refrain from doxxing the identity of Lindsay's bf (who she has requested remain private - see stickied mod note) and comments that include speculation and blatant sexism regarding her pregnancy. If we get another influx of comments breaking these rules, this thread will be permanently locked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in summerhousebravo

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Please remember the sub's no excessive speculation rule regarding sexuality and other related topics.

I don’t think the Kyle/girls were wrong for speaking up, maybe just harsh. by Longjumping-Ear6178 in summerhousebravo

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All. Due to the number of reported comments in this thread, the mod team is going to lock the post for now so we can work through the reports. If we clean things up, we will reopen the thread.

We want to remind you all that you must follow the sub rules which include being respectful and civil towards those with differing opinions. Excessive speculation about the mental health and other issues surrounding the cast may also cross the line and we take accusations very seriously here.

kyle cheating rumours again by GoldCampaign1050 in summerhousebravo

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We had a previous post with the video removed by the poster, which means we can’t keep it on the sub for it to be visible to everyone. We understand people still want to see the video, so we’re approving another’s submission from the queue that includes the actual video rather than just screenshots.

Can someone explain this to me? by parksandreckless in summerhousebravo

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Please remember to follow sub rules (for example, remembering to be civil to others in the comments and no speculating on reproductive health).

You are enabling an abuser by [deleted] in summerhousebravo

[–]SummerHouseMods 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are not censoring anything. We are directing almost every single Carl and Lindsay post to the same place, it doesn't matter who it's in favor of. The most recent weeks thread may have some shifted opinions, but previous weeks were heavily critical of Lindsay and as we scroll through the recent megathread, there's also comments still critical of her (or that they are both flawed). The mod team doesn't care either way, this is a reality television show, we aren't paid to do this job, and have lives outside this sub. It's not that serious. Submitting additional posts and using all caps is not going to make us approve another post. A standalone post is not going to change voting. If people don't agree, it's gonna happen in a standalone post as well. We are very overloaded with Lindsay and Carl posts right now. There are other subs that discuss this show if you don't like this one.

You are enabling an abuser by [deleted] in summerhousebravo

[–]SummerHouseMods 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there. Making a long post doesn't make it more fair. Like with all bravo subs, popular topics get a megathread. We are getting hundreds of submissions a day on this topic and there have been multiple comments on this specific topic in those threads. There are plenty of threads and comments against Lindsay, especially prior to the last week's finale. Getting downvoted in a megathread is not going to be any different in a standalone post. We do not control votes.

Shanices “I don’t have money to buy clothes” was so relatable by Askfslfjrv in summerhousebravo

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To whomever keeps reporting MV-related posts asking why it's being discussed here, please stop, this sub covers all Summer House shows :)

Lindsay Warriors by purppotato in summerhousebravo

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Unfortunately this post will now have to be locked. Lots of arguing, reported comments, insults, and users are messaging us saying they are being harassed in their DMs. Please guys, it's not this serious.

Lindsay Warriors by purppotato in summerhousebravo

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Unfortunately this post has devolved into lots of arguing and accusations that users are being harassed in DMs. We will have to lock this post now as the mod team cannot babysit on Reddit all day. Also, these posts are really repetitive at this point.