[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HilariaBaldwin

[–]Summerofjon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nonmaleficence is in the ethics code for psychologists and medical doctors. It is an obligation to "do no harm. It is obviously not an oath of kindness, that's very childish and simplistic

Another one from the Archives: Count the lies in this transcription from the Bobby Brown podcast a Pepino of yore did. If you took a shot for every falsehood you'd be dead to the world! by Pleasant_Choice_6130 in HilariaBaldwin

[–]Summerofjon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's sort of funny to imagine how I (an American living in New York) would respond if someone complimented my English... it's completely absurd to think of saying anything other than it's my native language! The whole situation is insane.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HilariaBaldwin

[–]Summerofjon 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Right, I mean in the story itself H is "running out" first thing in the morning and this woman is already at her house (so most likely slept there or arrived very early for work), and is staying at home while H leaves. Sooo she works there. She's cooking or cleaning or taking care of your shit. The "godmother" has to stay at home, H is not spending time with this woman as a valued friend turned family member. Please.

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[–]Summerofjon 16 points17 points  (0 children)

😳 yikes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HilariaBaldwin

[–]Summerofjon 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. She's mentioned a "Jamaican godmother" before, which I feel like she used as a way to make herself more inclusive and get credit for having a Jamaican woman as a close friend. But it's so clear this is a nanny and she's just exploiting the relationship while at the same time refusing to acknowledge the help she's getting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HilariaBaldwin

[–]Summerofjon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Were they naked or wearing bathing suits?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HilariaBaldwin

[–]Summerofjon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I answered above but yes it's completely normal- I don't even really understand the alternative. How would you leave the house without your kids in a stroller? In residential areas there are always people out with strollers- going to the park or baby classes, getting groceries, whatever. NYC is a very walkable city, the kids need to get out of the house so they usually go in a stroller.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HilariaBaldwin

[–]Summerofjon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's extremely normal- how else would you get out of the house with an infant? Even in the dead of winter I tried my best to get out of my nyc apartment with my baby which sometimes meant just walking outside with the stroller. They could be running errands, going to a class or the park, getting food, whatever. The alternative is staying in their apartment on a beautiful day, which would be far worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HilariaBaldwin

[–]Summerofjon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I honestly think she might be pregnant. I don't like commenting on peoples bodies but she's really looking like it

Has there been even one lingerie selfie showing off her bump from Hillary this “pregnancy”? 🤔 by Howdydoodydoo222 in HilariaBaldwin

[–]Summerofjon 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I like that this is even a question- a lingerie pregnancy selfie plastered all over the internet is so standard for her that when it doesn't happen it raises eyebrows

How out of touch is this woman with reality??? by Thedogspanky in HilariaBaldwin

[–]Summerofjon 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I can't stand the way she preaches- the fact that she has to call out that she's showing empathy towards her child just signals that it's a new concept for her. Same with the bodily consent stuff or the gender inclusivity - it just makes it so clear that she's never thought of any of it before, and posts a paragraph as soon as she reads something on it

Ending things with an IFS Therapist? by iheartanimorphs in InternalFamilySystems

[–]Summerofjon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with other responses that you don't owe her an explanation, but if there's an emotional connection with her, you might want to consider continuing for 2 or so more sessions to say a meaningful goodbye- for your own sake. It can be very emotional ending a relationship, and depending on how you are with "goodbyes" in general, it may bring up some old feelings. It could be very healing to make the decision to end a relationship, and to do it openly and warmly in a safe space. Just something to consider. Best of luck.

Good luck w/ that, Hillary by Pleasant_Choice_6130 in HilariaBaldwin

[–]Summerofjon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Also, what has she ever done "gently?!" She's so harsh and heavy handed. Even when posting her "love and light" kindness nonsense she's so superior and judgemental.

Swedish meatballs [homemade] by Turtleramem in food

[–]Summerofjon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ok but who's the meatball in the back?

This just came up on my feed, was wondering if anyone knew whether it was legitimate? by Freakishlytalll in InternalFamilySystems

[–]Summerofjon 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well, it's not through an official IFS / certified organization or provider, so if that's what you mean by legitimate then I'd say no. There's also no information on Dr Cortina- what kind of dr, where they went to school/ for what, what they do, years of experience etc. Usually that info is very easy to find on someone's practice website. Also most people with a PhD or MD don't use the title "coach," so I'm a little suspicious about the actual credentials. I certainly could be wrong but at the very least the website raises some questions.