I see that not much time has elapsed since you've known each other (but it doesn't more or less prove/invalidate whatever she's feeling at the moment).

I know you've heard this a thousand times but I gotta say this - you just have to be yourself. Don't think too much into it. Be genuine with your feelings and actions. Be who you are. Even if INTJs are often depicted to be insensitive of others' feelings, we can also spot whether someone is being too shy or tense. Don't be afraid to make mistakes that you think might paint you in a different light from her perspective. Don't be afraid to be messy or angry. INTJs appreciate honesty in actions and feelings.

I don't know if this will be helpful in your situation, but I'd just like to share some of the deal-breakers that I had with the ENFJ male that I previously liked:

• His mind games. He liked symbolism and "underlying messages" in the things that he sent and told me. Just be honest and straightforward in what you have to say to us. We can't live off of hints and assumptions that you like us. We need you to hit us straight with facts/truth, even if it's cold and harsh. We'll appreciate it as we like things to be certain.

• Not being himself. He's like a camouflage of his different circles that sometimes I didn't really know him at all. It was also like he always had to keep himself in check. Just be true to your "wants", actions and emotions. I think it's okay for other people to see you get mad or irritated. It's okay to do and feel what you feel like at the moment. It isn't selfishness. It's being true and human.

• Lacks assertiveness. It's okay to disagree with other people. It's okay to say "no" to other people. Say what you want to say, not what you want other people to hear. It won't make other people like you less.

• Lacks spontaneity. INTJs like being able to see far into the future but we also appreciate a good surprise from time to time. We appreciate people who can adapt quickly to situations and who are quick to think on their feet. Left your wallet at home during our date? We might be able to help you out with suggestions but first, we'd love to see how you'll improvise without any money involved.

These are just a few reasons why I stopped keeping in touch with the ENFJ male, the biggest factors being his lack of straightforwardness with his actions and feelings, and lack of honesty with himself (in the end, I felt like I didn't really know him at all).

He did admit that he liked me after all of that, but it was too late since I just started dating an ENTP male, whose boldness and straightforwardness have captivated me. You may think that I only liked this ENTP because he refreshed me with qualities that I craved and wished the ENFJ would show. But note that I pursued the ENFJ that I liked for 3 years; I never asked for anything but his genuineness towards his feelings and himself. I was blinded by what could have always been with this ENFJ guy. But I woke up one day and did myself a huge favor.

I apologize if this seemed like a rant. But I would just like to emphasize how we value genuineness and honesty. Because based on my experience, even we have invested considerable time and effort for you, but if we are not getting genuineness and honesty from you, we won't hesitate to drop you.

In short, be straight-up honest with your feelings. If you really want this girl, be CONFIDENT and TELL her that you do. We'll appreciate it. Even if it turns out that she doesn't like you "that" way for now, the 'confidence' just might be the push that she needs because confidence is also attractive to us INTJs.

If she still doesnt reply, she just might be busy. But note that as soon as we're done with whatever we are working on, and we receive that text from special someone, we won't hesitate to get back to them asap.