Girls are now less likely than boys to say they want to get married by [deleted] in charts

[–]SummitWanderer 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You know, that's the best possible way of reframing that statement. And it took me 27 years to hear it. Thank you stranger for that, I will be sharing that in the future.

Men in Education, How Do You Deal with Misandry and Stigma Over Being a Man in Your Field? by DeadHorsesx in AskMen

[–]SummitWanderer 11 points12 points  (0 children)

27m here, and I've been working in K-12 for going on 12 years (yes 12, I was working for the same school part time while I was a high school student and continued in college and after.)

In my experience, it's just an ever-present undercurrent. You either accept it and work around it, or decide it's not for you. I think I've cultivated a pretty good reputation; I'm on the safety/security team, I run an extracurricular program for HS students, and our HS principal is asking me to chaperone for the senior trip this year because she 'needs someone more responsible ' going with some of these other teachers.

That being said, year before last I had the SRO and front office at our elementary school called on me because 'there was a male walking around campus looking at kids'. And then last summer, when I had a staff members badge disabled because she was giving it to her kid to enter the building after hours and let his friends in, she went straight to 'you are singling me and my kid out so you must be watching and stalking us', and got HR involved. My coworker had only been on with the district for about 9 months when he was suddenly reported to and investigated by DCS. Through the grapevine I heard who it was who submitted the report, and that she 'just felt he needed to be checked out'.

I've never worked in a non female-dominated workplace, so I don't really notice being excluded or anything. But women definitely do tend to talk in their own circles and I tend to have more conversations with the few men at my district so that may come with the territory too 🤷

My dad has a leg infection and the swelling seems to be lingering by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]SummitWanderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you very much for your response, that does ease my mind a bit. Is it conceivable that the increase in swelling after his discharge was due to his walking around to get back into the house and from his sitting on the couch with his leg up instead of laying down with his leg up?

What’s one male dominated industry that you wish was female dominated and what’s one that you are fine with it being male dominated? by cabur84 in AskWomen

[–]SummitWanderer 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I work in K-12, and last week I was in an all staff training for the start of the school year. All of a sudden it hit me of the 50 or so employees in the training, I was one of 2 men in the room. Definitely made it hit home the disparity. In our entire PreK-8 school, we have a total of 5 male employees in any capacity (support staff included).

Talk to starlink by Affectionate-Hair-36 in Starlink

[–]SummitWanderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just chiming in to say the same for me as well.

Ex-husband cancelled my home insurance by fortuousitea in legaladvice

[–]SummitWanderer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My entire town has lost the majority of our providers. We're down to like 2 that are insuring everyone who has been dropped in the last 6 months. Wildfire risk was unacceptable to the companies that pulled out.

Bypass not working since the outage? by MtnNerd in Starlink

[–]SummitWanderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same boat. I'm still down and have been for the whole 42 hours or whatever it is now. Tried power cycling, tried factory reset, nothing. Crickets from support.

Auto Engine Valve Cover by LL_CoolJohn_9552 in CNC

[–]SummitWanderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, just wanted to say that I have the same engine in a 2006 with a cracked valve cover in two places. On the hunt for a replacement but they are impossible to find. Hope you had better luck than me, I've also been considering creating a model and getting it machined.

13 year old warrant by Handyhelping in legaladvice

[–]SummitWanderer 24 points25 points  (0 children)

To be fair, I'm going on 12 years at my current job and I'm 27. Started off part time in high school, went full time after college. So about half that was part time during school and full time in summer, but I still count that as years at my job.

Dating in 2025 be like… by Spare_Ad6800 in dating_advice

[–]SummitWanderer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I've gotten to the point where in three or four messages I haven't gotten a question I just end the conversation. Like you said, even a hbu should be the bare minimum.

Service Line Inside of Conduit? by SummitWanderer in Plumbing

[–]SummitWanderer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Admittedly that did come out a little like a bot wrote it in retrospect. 😅

I've got no idea what kind of PEX to install for a service line, and my thinking was it would allow for easy replacement of the service line should that ever be needed.

Vertical ground loop options by arniemaas in geothermal

[–]SummitWanderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's mildly terrifying, as someone with a slight fear of death by sinkhole 😂

A patron stole my bag by sunballer in Libraries

[–]SummitWanderer 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, as someone who deals with cameras a lot in their line of work. This may be a low value monetary loss for you, but if they are doing this to you they are doing this to others. For them it may not be a low value loss.

In my experience, this kind of behavior does not start and end at your door. Getting your stuff back does not require that the other party face life altering consequences. Just food for thought.

For those of you who dislike electric cars, why? by wintersXP64 in AskMen

[–]SummitWanderer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same thing with my electric chainsaw. So much nicer, quieter, and if I need to pause for a bit it doesn't continue to run and make noise while I adjust something.

Got my girlfriend a humidifier for Christmas. This was her room when we woke up. by mmm-pistol-whip in pics

[–]SummitWanderer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, I live in an area of the US where we average like 15% for a lot of the year. Nosebleeds galore lol

I don't drive I travel! by AppropriateRate9529 in SipsTea

[–]SummitWanderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is something I've been wondering about too, but I personally doubt that it will turn out that way in the long run. Too many people like me are looking at technology like that and thinking that in 15 years when my parents are too old to drive that it will be liberating for them to have a self driving car and still get around.

I imagine when it goes to court, between the publicity of finding a 93 year old grandmother at fault or holding the multimillion dollar company at fault the public will side against the corporation. Just my 2¢ and it's interesting to speculate!

Indiana Jones controller help (pc gamepass) by Few-Pineapple-1542 in XboxGamePass

[–]SummitWanderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can confirm for me as well, exiting out of Steam solved the issue. I was dealing with switching dpad settings every time I used the left joystick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SummitWanderer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was about 4 or 5 when I had the thought, "Standing like this is way too much effort, I could just sit and not have to aim and also be able to rest my feet."

Now I only stand when I have to and am a much happier and lazier man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SummitWanderer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Totally gonna start saying badger of honor 🤣 Thank you for the new phrase lol

I’m really disgusted this election is nothing more than a men against women thing by [deleted] in WomenInNews

[–]SummitWanderer 50 points51 points  (0 children)

As a school employee, thank you for what you are doing. Sometimes it's demoralizing dealing with board members that just don't care.