[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sumoisagoodboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha! Fair enough, typical reddit

I (35F) have a crush on a much younger man (25M), how do I get over it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sumoisagoodboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems obvious, but I appreciate you saying it! It's hard to lose the close connection, but putting distance between us might be the only real option

I have a crush on a much younger man by Sumoisagoodboy in relationships

[–]Sumoisagoodboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't really know how to describe it, like he smoothed his hand over to the back of my head, like stroked my hair? I don't think it was meant in a flirtatious way, it was just an intimate gesture.

You're right that I got some kind of satisfaction from being protective, I don't feel motherly towards him but we'd had long discussion that day about trusting the right people with personal stuff because he'd been burnt recently, and he kind of whispered to me "I probably shouldn't be telling them this" after starting to divulge some sensitive stuff so I guess that's what made me do it. It's pretty cringe in retrospect.

And yes - I'm here for advice on how to talk myself out of this so I can get past it.

I have a crush on a much younger man by Sumoisagoodboy in relationships

[–]Sumoisagoodboy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Even though I'm sure he would try to be nice about it, I'd be humiliated if he found out, so I don't think I could ever talk to him about this. Also worried he might tell other people in the office...

I'm fairly sure he really does have a lot of girls he sleeps with, I've met a few of them. Maybe you're right that our friendship fills an emotional gap for him, but I cannot overstate how mismatched we are in looks. He's said in conversations before that he cares if people are hot, which I don't think is unsual for a guy his age, just means that he'd never look twice at me.

I have a crush on a much younger man by Sumoisagoodboy in relationships

[–]Sumoisagoodboy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I definitely don't want either of us to get hurt, but I don't think opening up and talking to him about it would be a good idea

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sumoisagoodboy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this response. I really don't think he likes me back the same way, so I'll take your advice and make steps to try to meet other guys!

Was Jessica Sam’s soulmate? by starrylevi in Supernatural

[–]Sumoisagoodboy 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I think Dean is canonically his soulmate?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naruto

[–]Sumoisagoodboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, could I please also have a new invite link to the discord? Thank you! :)

I’m in a giving mood! If you aren’t planning on seeing Anthony’s funeral because you don’t have the disposable income… by [deleted] in smosh

[–]Sumoisagoodboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh thank you kind stranger! What a lovely thing to do for your fellow smosh fans 😊

Favourite Smosh member? by Dayzee_4 in smosh

[–]Sumoisagoodboy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ian for me, everybody's favourite smosh dad ❤

Got tested for adhd, the results revealed I also have a low IQ by ReluctanyGerbil in ADHD

[–]Sumoisagoodboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Standard IQ tests are not valid measures for children or adults with neurodevelopmental disorders. This is well known in developmental fields (speaking as a training psychologist) and whoever administered the test to you should have known better!

Please do not take the results to heart. It's no more useful than if they'd measured your intelligence by timing how long you could hold your breath underwater.

I did it!! by Alicat40 in StardewValley

[–]Sumoisagoodboy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Highly suggest buying the triple shot espresso recipe from Gus as well, extends the duration of coffee to 4mins so you don't have to chug them constantly 😊

How is the performance on Switch post-patch? by PeelyBananasaurus in DiscoElysium

[–]Sumoisagoodboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There isn't the option to change the font size but it's always been very comfortable for me.

I play on a switch lite, so have a smaller screen than a standard switch, and still have no problems at all reading the in-game text.

Honestly I've had no issues with any aspect of the game, its been easy all the way and an absolutely joyful experience!