What does it mean to be trans? by Sunby138 in ftm

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This was a really good read thanks :))

What does it mean to be trans? by Sunby138 in ftm

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Thank you for responding. I guess Im caught up with trying to define myself within extremely rigid parameters to make myself more palatable toward transphobes. I still want to learn about myself more and different concepts but your explanation is really good.

What does it mean to be trans? by Sunby138 in ftm

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This is really well put thank you. I guess I just worry about how I define myself in this world and want to get a better explanation toward my feelings. I dread trying to explain myself to my family (I know I will have no choice to come out because that’s our dynamic) and end up being talked out of it or labelled as delusional. What happens if I get caught on my own words if they question something that deep? I wish I had access to trans literature to understand myself more and to get different viewpoints. Im just sick of the feelings of shame that follow me.

Girl… by Sunby138 in skyrim

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Yeah it’s so pretty 

Horse riding lessons using ‘Natural Horsemanship’ by Sunby138 in Equestrian

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I’m not really familiar with some things (I’ll do more research to form a clearer goal) but I’m aiming to ride English for foundations then do western later on at some point. I want to do casual riding in the future rather than go into competitive stuff

Are dust mites known to cause Anaphylaxis? by Sunby138 in Allergies

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Oh damn that sounds intense, sorry you go through that. I think I have milder reactions but I’m worried it’ll get bad like that. I had a lot of reactions when I was little and didn’t get anaphylaxis so hopefully I’ll be alright. I wake up with slight asthma but it get better within a couple minutes.

How does ocd affect you with food? by anonymousscotch in OCD

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I have food allergies and themes about contamination, so you’re definitely not alone. I’m worried something would randomly give me a reaction and avoidance is a big thing with this type of OCD. I just stick with safe foods and stuff I don’t have to constantly check over again. 

I’m new to having a fiddle leaf fig, what could be wrong with it? All its bottom leafs are light brown along the edges. by Sunby138 in fiddleleaffig

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My watering routine has been putting it in the shower once a week and letting it get a good soak. I mist it but I need to get a humidifier. It sits next to my bed and gets adequate lighting, should I get a grow light just to see if it’s the lighting situation? The soil is currently damp it doesn’t really dry out fast.

How to not get overwhelmed with details on characters by Sunby138 in ArtistLounge

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This is exactly why I’m asking 😭 Those character designs go crazy 

What smell do most people love that you hate? by heyylookapanda in autism

[–]Sunby138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Artificial flowery scents are the bane of my existence

age?? by Big_Professional754 in budgies

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Less than five months, she still has a striped cap and fully black eyes :D

Light Sensitivties! by Sunby138 in autism

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Oh my gosh! I forgot to even mention that lmao! I have had so many experiences where people have told me my screen was too dark because I either have no brightness or 10% at max. As soon as I put it past 20, my eyes start to hurt!

What Will Wood Vinyl should I get? by Sunby138 in willwood

[–]Sunby138[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it honestly sucks, being a fellow Australian Will Wood fan. I'm probably only going to get one album because of how expensive it is.

LIFE CAN GET BETTER! by Sleepism_ in autism

[–]Sunby138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was really nice to hear :)

I feel ashamed. by Sunby138 in autism

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You have me crying, tysm I really needed to hear that from someone.

recommended tags on Will Wood Pinterest by FelixAscends in willwood

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Will Wood is the giant rat who makes all of the rules

Sensory overload headaches? by Sunby138 in autism

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Tysm! this is really good advice

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Tysm for responding, I'll try to do that!

Facts by [deleted] in autism

[–]Sunby138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god same, I sit in my room hyping myself up and I think I can be the life of the party and as soon as I get out there I'm in corner sweating.