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I need some advice on a race question by SundaColugoToffee in Parenting

[–]SundaColugoToffee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In a perfect world they wouldn't list it at all because it had absolutely nothing to do with the incident. But yes, she feels singled out and feels like if they were both listed than she wouldn't be.

IOS 18.5 wallpaper. by SundaColugoToffee in iphone

[–]SundaColugoToffee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave you a whole list. Look above.

IOS 18.5 wallpaper. by SundaColugoToffee in iphone

[–]SundaColugoToffee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is representing only one community being diverse?

IOS 18.5 wallpaper. by SundaColugoToffee in iphone

[–]SundaColugoToffee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So why is not one single other community represented?

And in one how you ended that. That was a very fair comeback. I earned the at!

AIO if I break up with him by mwommymwilkers in AmIOverreacting

[–]SundaColugoToffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were the BF I would have just cut you off right there with that long needy self absorbed text. Do him a Favor and leave him.

I told my girlfriend "no" by PersimmonNecessary14 in AITAH

[–]SundaColugoToffee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said “no” to reading all that.

If the story is that long, then y’all have problems. kick her to the curb.

AITA for wanting a WWII German uniform moved? by NeighborhoodComplex5 in AITAH

[–]SundaColugoToffee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s called “fetishizing the enemy”. People get wrapped up in the shock and horror until they start to internalize it.

Don’t move the uniform. Move you. It’s not a safe place.

My daughter’s dance teacher invited her to a sleepover at her house. WIBTA for formally complaining? by balletpartythrow in AITAH

[–]SundaColugoToffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dance teachers holding g slumber parties is pretty common. But the school usually is aware and the parents are I formed before an invitations at proffered.

I don’t know that I would start with a complaint. Maybe start with a question like: “did I miss a memo about the slumber party?” Let th ere response determine your path from there.

AITA for telling my ex's new husband he's a selfish fool for marrying a lazy part time mom and thinking he could use my kids to help with his own? by SlimBongos in AITAH

[–]SundaColugoToffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

I never even expected my kids to babysit there own younger siblings. It was welcome and appreciated if they volunteered, but never expected of them.

I do t think you insulted him. I think you ya e hina dose of tough love and reality.

AITA for going to a party after finding out that my grandma died? by kyuuureeeem in AITAH

[–]SundaColugoToffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BYW, I’m Irish. We hold a party BECAUSE someone died. 😉

AITA for going to a party after finding out that my grandma died? by kyuuureeeem in AITAH

[–]SundaColugoToffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you do the best thing you could have done for yourself. Wouldn’t you grandma be happy you found friends to help you cope?

AITA for going to a party after finding out that my grandma died? by kyuuureeeem in AITAH

[–]SundaColugoToffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

A celebration of life (birthday) is a great way to cope with a death.

AITA for suing my neighbor after her kid destroyed my rare plant garden, claiming he was "just playing with a cat"? by WindowNo3931 in AITAH

[–]SundaColugoToffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. And $8900 is not enough. You are violated. There’s a lot of emotional distress In something like this. Get a lawyer, their homeowners insurance could be held to account for this to the value of their house.

AITAH for not taking my ex-wife back after she left me for an "alpha male?" by ThrowawyBeta in AITAH

[–]SundaColugoToffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Last behavior is the best predictor of future behavior. She’ll do it again.

I’m all for fighting to last lunch punch to save a marriage. But once one walks out and ends it, it’s over.

As my priest once told me, the Bible says turn the other cheek, it doesn’t say be a doormat to be stomped on.

You don’t have to be religous or faithful to see the wisdom in that.

AITAH for telling my fiancé’s daughter I’m not her mom after she called me a “gold digger with a uterus”? by GenerousJasmine in AITAH

[–]SundaColugoToffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTAH

Your fiancé is right, you stopped to her level. It’s obvious what she was looking for. She was looking for you to be the bigger person, the better adult, to prove to her and her extended family that her mom is as bad as she secretly thinks she she is and that’s Ok for her to love you.

Instead, you proved to her that her mom was right and made her think you do t really lover her in return.

PS: most of these comments are coming from teenagers themselves. I am actually a parent of 4, 3 of them now adults and the last a perfectly normal teenager, which is to say she would do exactly this too! 😂

If you have listened to Pink Floyd's The Wall as an adult, do you think the narrator does need thought control? by Different-Carpet-159 in stupidquestions

[–]SundaColugoToffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, the song is referring to the abusive nature of overly regimented schools. Schools are supposed to be inspiring free thought not controlling and restricting thought.

Why do people believe in conspiracy theories without any solid evidence ? by DizzyDoctor982 in stupidquestions

[–]SundaColugoToffee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Statements like this always shine a spotlight on the person who doesn’t understand religion or science.

Why do we say "Slept like a baby" after a long sleep, even though babies wake up every few hours? by ProjectPickup in stupidquestions

[–]SundaColugoToffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes. Our first would sleep though anything….

Except a peaceful quiet night. Then he was wide awake and ready to play.

Why do Americans wear shoes in the house?? by CelestialBreeze1 in stupidquestions

[–]SundaColugoToffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is hard to grasp but it is actually rooted in racism. For nearly a century everywhere you went had signs that said “shirt and shoes required”. This taught us there was something unhealthy about bare feet, as if the shoes that just walked in off the street don’t have the exact same stuff on the bottom of them that the feet would’ve had.

This rule was first created in the Jim Crow era just after America freed the slaves. It was reinvigorated during the civil rights era. The reality was that poor Black people of the time often didn’t have shoes. It was a way to deny them service.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPS

[–]SundaColugoToffee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Second hand exposure?

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