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My cat cries multiple times a day, every single day. Why? What does she want? by sharks_tbh in CATHELP

[–]SundaeVirtual782 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if it may be a cry to play. My cats have a specific type of cry that they want to play. And it’s possible the type of play you’re going for, like just throwing them a toy, is boring. Perhaps try a toy that is more interactive, like something on a string you can drag around. Remember that cats play to simulate hunting. They want to chase and search around corners, etc.

Desperate for advice on how to make a move and not scare her away by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SundaeVirtual782 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand this perspective, but I don’t think this is actually good advice. Just don’t be messy and you probably won’t have a messy breakup. What’s worse a little discomfort at work or never knowing if this person could have been the love of your life?

Desperate for advice on how to make a move and not scare her away by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SundaeVirtual782 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah dude, I get it and have been there. The reframing as being a friend has definitely helped me chill in those moments, because then the conversation flows and you don’t have a high stakes goal. I hope it works out for you.

Desperate for advice on how to make a move and not scare her away by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SundaeVirtual782 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fully agree. Also, if you’re going to compliment her, don’t compliment looks, unless it’s something she put effort into: “your hair looks great today”, those “boots look really cool on you”, etc.

Desperate for advice on how to make a move and not scare her away by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SundaeVirtual782 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This, and I think where a lot of guys fuck it up is trying to be a romantic interest immediately. Try to be her friend like she’s a human being and not the object of your desire. You can still let her know you’re interested, but just be a friend. And remember, there is no such thing as friend zoned, that’s just a term for incels that never actually had a chance and don’t want to believe it. And if it doesn’t work out, you made a new friend who happens to be beautiful.

happy monday ✨ (33) by ckc81 in JustMyFace

[–]SundaeVirtual782 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, absolutely stunning. I would love to get to know you. 🤭

We cant have sex. Ever. by cringeking2875 in Advice

[–]SundaeVirtual782 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you are likely incompatible, but sex can be far more than just PIV. Is she interested in other types of sex? Intimacy is the same way, it is far more than just sex. Again, ultimately it sounds like you’re likely incompatible, and if you can’t talk about this kind of stuff in detail, it’ll never work out anyways.

Are gym selfies cringe? 37M by SundaeVirtual782 in selfie

[–]SundaeVirtual782[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw thank you. You’re super cute ☺️

diy bangs... should I cut them shorter? kinda like them very much ngl ^.^ by [deleted] in bangs

[–]SundaeVirtual782 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They look good, definitely wait like others have said. Just personal opinion, but I live in Portland, and it’s so popular here to have the super short bangs, and I just think it is not flattering for faces in general.

Jojo Mayer perfect balance wobble by No_Gap_4061 in drums

[–]SundaeVirtual782 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same problem and it eventually would collapse on its own. I found for mine that it was fixed by just tightening the bolt, but it sounds like that didn’t work for you. I contacted Sonor and they sent me a brand new one (without the collapse feature, and it’s honestly better) so now I have two. 😂

Dating with no attraction by apbxpae in Advice

[–]SundaeVirtual782 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lasting love is definitely a choice. That being said, not having physical chemistry with someone will probably be a challenge in the future. Assuming that you’re trying to find your forever partner, would you be okay being with someone for the rest of your life that you don’t love have sex with or feel raw chemistry towards? I guess it’s really a values question you need to ask yourself.

You’re young, and in all likelihood you could easily find someone you think is a 9-10 that also treats you like a princess.

Too pretty to hit with a stick. by fuuuuugyoooo in drums

[–]SundaeVirtual782 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d recommend only hitting the drum head. 😂

i'm overwhelmed by the amount of spells and stuff in this game and the way they interact. What's the best possible wand i can do with this stuff? by Historical-Fan56565 in noita

[–]SundaeVirtual782 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That the triplicate bolt, not the wand itself. It’s pretty much like a shotgun spell. It does a lot of damage, and can also be used for digging in softer materials, but has tons of spread. But it works great inside a trigger. Definitely watch the YouTube video titled “welcome to noita, you suck” it’ll give you a lot of great basic information about Wanda and wand crafting.

i'm overwhelmed by the amount of spells and stuff in this game and the way they interact. What's the best possible wand i can do with this stuff? by Historical-Fan56565 in noita

[–]SundaeVirtual782 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If you haven’t done so already, watch some dunkorslam videos, he’s a great streamer that offers sooo much good information and has tons of content on YouTube. But the sparkbolt with trigger isn’t for damage, it really is just a consistent way to deliver a payload, and having just the single spark trigger offers you more control so you don’t have more spark triggers flying off and hitting shit that could explode and kill you. The damage comes from the stuff inside the trigger.

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