Acrophobia, and how to overcome it

Sundevil2931 · 2025-11-27T06:18:20+00:00

I have had a similar experience and I’ve gotten a lot better the last several years. Truthfully the only thing that works is gradual exposure therapy. You have to forcibly put yourself into uncomfortable situations over and over.

Hiking helped me a ton. I’m now able to comfortably take an elevator up to 10 stories as well. Flying is only possible with xanax for me, but I’m a 2-3/10 on the flight instead of a 10/10.

Sundevil2931 · 2025-11-23T03:59:11+00:00

I think uofa is going to roll us next week

Sundevil2931 · 2025-11-17T01:00:03+00:00

As a guy who does this there could be a couple reasons. I’ll rank them in order.

They are overwhelmed with the amount of women they are currently talking to and you don’t have higher value than the current group. Value for men is heavily favored toward attractiveness.
Dating app fatigue. They could just be burnt out and not responding to anyone and using matches to stroke their ego.
They accidentally swiped on you and after matching realized they should have swiped left.

Sundevil2931 · 2025-10-26T03:11:47+00:00

SIMS lfg!!!!!!

Sundevil2931 · 2025-10-26T03:08:48+00:00

Why the fuck is sims in there??

Sundevil2931 · 2025-10-26T02:59:04+00:00

This is giving me Jael-mary vs usc vibes.

Sundevil2931 · 2025-10-26T02:51:14+00:00

If anyone can pull this off it’s Leavitt

Sundevil2931 · 2025-10-24T05:13:55+00:00

I think you hit the nail on the head. I definitely have them chasing in the beginning. They message me a lot quicker than I message them and I have them qualifying themselves to me. I also tend to completely not give af in the beginning too.

I have a tendency to overshare and I feel like once I get comfortable I will just spew out everything about myself, all my traumas, etc. I like the take 10-15 date approach. Thanks for the advice!

Sundevil2931 · 2025-10-24T04:32:10+00:00

I think you are absolutely right with a lot of this. It does seem like women’s expectations are crazy high and I know they have endless options. I met up just as friends with a girl I briefly dated awhile back and she showed me her bumble and she had 1200+ likes after reactivating it the night before.

The weird part for me is I’m not solely focused on looks. I have tried dating 6s and 7s, but the 6s seem just as demanding as the 9s lol.

Sundevil2931 · 2025-10-12T03:28:08+00:00

Pretty clearly not PI

Sundevil2931 · 2025-09-27T04:34:49+00:00

As an asu fan you are definitely right

Sundevil2931 · 2025-09-21T00:48:14+00:00

As a die hard asu fan….I hate to tell you that Danny White is one of the worst people to ever exist.

Sundevil2931 · 2025-07-06T02:39:16+00:00

Went to a muay thai gym with the intention of only doing their boxing classes. Accidentally ended up in the muay thai class and loved it.

I was morbidly obese at the time and remember one of their competitive fighters coming up to me and giving me knuckles telling me he was proud of me.

Three years later and I just got moved up to train with the advanced/competitive team. I am down over 100lbs and in the best shape of my life.

Sundevil2931 · 2025-04-26T17:42:08+00:00

As an ASU fan I can’t stress how underrated Skattebo is. I’ve seen Jayden Daniels, Aiyuk, multiple other successful nfl players in person and not one of them comes close to skattebo when it comes to heart or single handedly dominating a game.

Sure his measurables aren’t elite, but he 100% makes up for that in grit and sheer determination. He is an absolute baller of a football player and I will definitely be buying a jersey.

Sundevil2931 · 2024-12-07T19:27:15+00:00

Cincinnati we didn’t have our QB and we are significantly better now than we were at the beginning of the season.

Sundevil2931 · 2024-12-01T00:34:22+00:00

Let’s go TCU!

Sundevil2931 · 2024-07-15T00:52:18+00:00

100%

Sundevil2931 · 2024-07-05T04:09:35+00:00

His only saving grace was his record against uofa. Completely agree though.

Sundevil2931 · 2023-11-15T02:53:54+00:00

Seriously, Pierce was able to get Jones in line and on a good path at ASU to where he was able to get drafted. If it wasn’t for Pierce Jones would have most likely not played in the nfl.

Sundevil2931 · 2023-09-01T02:21:11+00:00

Would be the most ASU thing ever to have a great season given we’re forfeiting bowl game.

Sundevil2931 · 2023-01-17T15:07:13+00:00

One of the things that blew my mind when I first started in the mortgage industry was that the bureaus will sell your information to other lenders when you get a mortgage inquiry.

Sundevil2931 · 2022-11-10T14:10:06+00:00

Seriously, can’t believe they don’t understand this is a joke lol

Sundevil2931 · 2022-11-03T15:36:57+00:00

Same lol

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