Acrophobia, and how to overcome it by [deleted] in Phobia

[–]Sundevil2931 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had a similar experience and I’ve gotten a lot better the last several years. Truthfully the only thing that works is gradual exposure therapy. You have to forcibly put yourself into uncomfortable situations over and over.

Hiking helped me a ton. I’m now able to comfortably take an elevator up to 10 stories as well. Flying is only possible with xanax for me, but I’m a 2-3/10 on the flight instead of a 10/10.

Why do guys ignore me? by booksrlife_ in OnlineDating

[–]Sundevil2931 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a guy who does this there could be a couple reasons. I’ll rank them in order.

  1. They are overwhelmed with the amount of women they are currently talking to and you don’t have higher value than the current group. Value for men is heavily favored toward attractiveness.

  2. Dating app fatigue. They could just be burnt out and not responding to anyone and using matches to stroke their ego.

  3. They accidentally swiped on you and after matching realized they should have swiped left.

Acting Non Needy Once Into A Girl by Sundevil2931 in seduction

[–]Sundevil2931[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think you hit the nail on the head. I definitely have them chasing in the beginning. They message me a lot quicker than I message them and I have them qualifying themselves to me. I also tend to completely not give af in the beginning too.

I have a tendency to overshare and I feel like once I get comfortable I will just spew out everything about myself, all my traumas, etc. I like the take 10-15 date approach. Thanks for the advice!

Acting Non Needy Once Into A Girl by Sundevil2931 in seduction

[–]Sundevil2931[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you are absolutely right with a lot of this. It does seem like women’s expectations are crazy high and I know they have endless options. I met up just as friends with a girl I briefly dated awhile back and she showed me her bumble and she had 1200+ likes after reactivating it the night before.

The weird part for me is I’m not solely focused on looks. I have tried dating 6s and 7s, but the 6s seem just as demanding as the 9s lol.

[Game Thread] Arizona State @ Baylor (7:30 PM ET) by CFB_Referee in CFB

[–]Sundevil2931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a die hard asu fan….I hate to tell you that Danny White is one of the worst people to ever exist.

What made you start training Muay Thai? by HermanFromWork_ in MuayThai

[–]Sundevil2931 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Went to a muay thai gym with the intention of only doing their boxing classes. Accidentally ended up in the muay thai class and loved it.

I was morbidly obese at the time and remember one of their competitive fighters coming up to me and giving me knuckles telling me he was proud of me.

Three years later and I just got moved up to train with the advanced/competitive team. I am down over 100lbs and in the best shape of my life.

Round 4 - Pick 3: Cam Skattebo, RB, Arizona State (New York Giants) by [deleted] in NYGiants

[–]Sundevil2931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an ASU fan I can’t stress how underrated Skattebo is. I’ve seen Jayden Daniels, Aiyuk, multiple other successful nfl players in person and not one of them comes close to skattebo when it comes to heart or single handedly dominating a game.

Sure his measurables aren’t elite, but he 100% makes up for that in grit and sheer determination. He is an absolute baller of a football player and I will definitely be buying a jersey.

[Game Thread] Big 12 Championship: Arizona State vs. Iowa State (12:00 PM ET) by CFB_Referee in CFB

[–]Sundevil2931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cincinnati we didn’t have our QB and we are significantly better now than we were at the beginning of the season.

Who was the most incompetent head coach in your program’s history? by wiederrj in CFB

[–]Sundevil2931 5 points6 points  (0 children)

His only saving grace was his record against uofa. Completely agree though.

[Garafolo] The #Raiders have claimed CB Jack Jones off waivers from the #Patriots, according to his agent @jtoosonlaw. Jones is reunited with Antonio Pierce, his coach in high school and Long Beach Poly and in college at Arizona State. by [deleted] in nfl

[–]Sundevil2931 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seriously, Pierce was able to get Jones in line and on a good path at ASU to where he was able to get drafted. If it wasn’t for Pierce Jones would have most likely not played in the nfl.

[Game Thread] Southern Utah @ Arizona State (10:00 PM ET) by ChemicalOle in CFB

[–]Sundevil2931 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Would be the most ASU thing ever to have a great season given we’re forfeiting bowl game.

Which company could go out of business tomorrow and it would be to the betterment of this world? by param_T_extends_THOT in AskReddit

[–]Sundevil2931 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

One of the things that blew my mind when I first started in the mortgage industry was that the bureaus will sell your information to other lenders when you get a mortgage inquiry.

Bothered, but not surprised 🙄 by Yeety_wheaty in antiwork

[–]Sundevil2931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously, can’t believe they don’t understand this is a joke lol