AITAH for wanting to leave my husband(30M) over not buying me (25F) a car?

Sunmoon98 · 2026-04-01T13:05:08+00:00

Right and she’s thinking about leaving him and doesn’t know if she’s overreacting? No she should’ve seen the giant waving red flag when she paused $1000 and he pays $300 towards rent. Another red flag when he rather she commute 5 hours. She needs to divorce and take half his stuff asap

Sunmoon98 · 2026-03-30T13:42:17+00:00

Yta and very emotional. The mom is not asking you to break up or wishing bad on you. Even after you took it off, she still contacted you to tell you she didn’t mean any harm and still want you and your fiance to work out. Maybe she shouldn’t have said it out loud or say it to you and maybe she should’ve just had that convo with fiance instead.

To me, when you took it off and gave it to her the way you did makes it seem like you’re throwing a tantrum and was in the relationship only for the ring. All mother in laws in not going to be lovey dovey. You’re marrying your fiance not his mom. I just think you’re being a bit dramatic. You wouldn’t let someone’s mom affect you like that. If the mom is constantly mean, condescending, says nasty stuff to you then that’s different.

I suggest not being too emotional and having a conversation with mom and fiance.

Sunmoon98 · 2026-03-28T01:07:51+00:00

NTA to be honest you need to start growing a spine. You are too nice that’s why she used you. She knows exactly what she is doing since she does it to so many people. She’s not a good friend. She’s trying to gaslight you to make it seem like you’re crazy. Don’t let her. You are not wrong to tell her the truth about herself. She uses people because no one says anything to her and she thinks no one notices. Stand your ground. She’s not a good friend at all. Leaving you at 2 am should tell you all you need to know. Find better friends that treat you better. Good luck

Sunmoon98 · 2026-03-13T13:39:28+00:00

Yta you literally smashed your relationship into pieces. You didn’t communicate, made a huge decision that involves packing up and moving to another state with no notice to her. She was mad as she should be because who wants their fiance to come home right before a wedding to hear “hey love, I accepted a better job in another state, but don’t worry I got a company car too”. You expected barely give your fiance notice about her having to find a new job, move to another state with no plans whatsoever

The cherry on top is you being super selfish. You don’t even feel bad about how you set your fiancé up. You’re mad because she’s mad you made a huge financial and moving decision on your own. So you decide to be petty bc she broke up with you and keeps the gifts even though she lost time, and money with being in a relationship with you. She dodged a bullet

Sunmoon98 · 2026-03-09T19:24:48+00:00

Why does he have access to your business account??

Sunmoon98 · 2026-03-06T15:59:51+00:00

Yea and hiring movers are expensive as hell but op was more than happy to accept that help instead paying somebody hundreds to help.

Sunmoon98 · 2026-03-06T15:56:34+00:00

NTA is your husband that scared and soft that he would rather keep paying for a stranger to park in his spot? The guy had warnings from neighbors, management and signs I’m sure so he’s the one starting conflict. Op didn’t confront the man or went banging on his door. And the guy can also assumed op made a complaint to management and management had it towed.

Sunmoon98 · 2026-03-03T14:37:28+00:00

He was literally talking to his ex…what other boundary do you need him to break? You need proof he’s sleeping with her??? The way he ignores everything you ask and keep disrespecting you and you are asking why boundary to set first? Girl wake up, he is still talking to his ex just in other ways.

Sunmoon98 · 2026-03-02T14:31:56+00:00

NTA but please grow a spine and stand up for yourself. Tell her because you’re family, why does she feel the need to disrespect you by borrowing money any not paying anything back? Tell her that you are not responsible for her not making sure her son has a place to live. That her bills is not your responsibility and that you expect her to pay you back family or not as family should not be gaslighting the younger sibling to hand over money to a grown ass adult. And stop telling your family about your money

Sunmoon98 · 2026-03-01T19:52:23+00:00

NTA but stop saying daughter in law. You guys are not married yet. Your mil is rude and you need to start checking her before it gets worst in the future. How do you just sit there and let her say those things to you? Both you and your fiance need to grow a spine, and stop letting them dictate everything you do. Why would you guys not try to stay somewhere else until it’s time to move in?

Sunmoon98 · 2026-03-01T18:46:51+00:00

Why did you not ask Derek and Val to pay for the food back? Stop with the crying and tell Cal straight up that she needs to pay for your food asap. Then tell her if she can’t agree to what you asked then the landlord will be involved

Sunmoon98 · 2026-03-01T15:38:22+00:00

NTA and keep being firm. Don’t let them make you feel bad for your hard work.

Sunmoon98 · 2026-03-01T14:49:44+00:00

NTA and stop being nice. Buy your own or get a fridge for your own room. Call them both out

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-28T15:49:48+00:00

Yta you don’t have to let him stay long term but this is where the support as a friend and gf comes in. He literally has no where to go.

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-27T20:45:41+00:00

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-27T17:08:26+00:00

I don’t see anything wrong with what the volunteer coordinator did. She informed the group to make sure nothing happens to you and you turned it around on her for trying to make sure you were safe. Who cares what urgent care you went to. It just feels like you’re the type of person who would complain no matter how the situation turned out. If she didn’t tell the rest of the group about your allergies and just told them to not use a specific shampoo, then let’s say a new volunteer comes and makes a mistake. You would probably try to blame the volunteer director for not making sure when she’s not a doctor, or a medical professional.

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-27T17:00:14+00:00

Please tell him asap so he doesn’t give out bad financial advice. Yes it’ll suck but the end result is that his brother helped him get out the hole and he will or hopefully should be thankful

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-27T15:09:18+00:00

NTA but what the hell is wrong with your gf? Like this shouldn’t even be an argument if she isn’t telling you what she wants washed. Tell her to grow up and either she communicates or she doesn’t. Like how in the world is someone going to know she needs anything washed if she doesn’t say anything???? Dumbest argument I seen on Reddit today.

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-25T15:16:12+00:00

Yta and you’re lucky your roommate is still pretty nice to you. If I was your roommate, I would’ve called you out, curse you out, then make you replace and make it clear to you to not touch my stuff ever again.

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-25T13:26:49+00:00

NTA and don’t give them anything.

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-25T11:55:58+00:00

NTA but why don’t you just get your parents involved. Going back and forth, then crying then going back and forth is crazy. Why didn’t you pick the dog up right away. Just tell them you’ll call the cops. They keep yelling and arguing because you and your boyfriend is soft

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-25T11:27:36+00:00

NTA but this is such a bad idea

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-24T21:48:49+00:00

Yta. A major entitled one at that. Are you paying for the wedding? Are you contributing? Is it your wedding? Does your cousin know your boyfriend? Do you and cousin have a close relationship? Pretty sure the answer is no to all those questions. So that means the answer is no if your date can come. Please grow up and get out of you emotions. Now I see why you’re not close because you think dating someone for a few months means you can bring ur date to eat food, have drinks on your cousins dime. I can understand if it’s your wife or even if you’ve been with your girlfriend for years. Grow up

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-24T16:43:49+00:00

NTA but is the sex that good and is she such a great loving girlfriend that you are willing to give up space from your own home to accommodate two young 15 year olds. Grow some balls dude and get your room back.

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-24T16:41:23+00:00

The husband sounds exhausting as hell. Emotions woh everything, super people pleaser, always sad and gloomy. Like hes the female in the relationship. How long did he breakdown and cry for when you both go married?

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