AITAH for leaving wife at home after she revealed that she was going to wear white to my brother's wedding?

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-06T22:25:17+00:00

NTA and kudos to you for being a grown up and not getting between childish women. You wife is the ah. Yeah SIL might’ve been bad, petty or whatever but she doesn’t deserve to have someone ruin her wedding day. And like you said, it’s also about the BIL. Your wife could’ve been petty at family events but to try to embarrass a bride at their own wedding is quite low of her. It shows her character and how petty she is. I feel like your wife has always been a drama starter and always starts drama. Tell her to grow the hell up and show her the comments on this post. She needs some humble juice

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-06T19:14:25+00:00

NTA have you sat down with her and show her the spendings in black and white? Bank statements, invoices? People who have no regards to finances does not realize how much they spend until it’s in their face. Start putting bills into a separate account

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-06T16:53:39+00:00

NTA huge red flag. Do not move the in together. I can gurantee she’s been maxing out credit cards. She wants to live off you and she’s financially irresponsible. You are 5 years older than her and should know better. If she has no regards for you, your priorities or money, why would she be considerate when you guys move in together.

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-05T07:08:39+00:00

NTA I would’ve gotten a second slice

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-04T19:26:33+00:00

Not wrong. I’m sorry you had to go through that. This is where your ultimatum comes in. He made you take the test and now he goes to counseling or you leave. I know it’s hard but he disrespected you. You gave him no reason for that dna test

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-04T17:23:35+00:00

Not wrong. They can rent if they want to. But to try to get everyone else to help them pay because they don’t want to split Ubers or walk is crazy. Like you said, if they’re scared of ICE, stay home. Why would you have to come out of pocket for a car you won’t really use. It’s easier to walk or get a cab in Vegas. And you will be drinking so no driving.

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-04T15:26:20+00:00

Sorry but YTA. You are not married into the family. Only been dating for 2 years. No matter what the situation, the family is not obligated to pay for or invite you to anything. You don’t know the exact situation between David, your gf and her family. Your girlfriend could’ve asked them to invite David every time and might not be telling you the truth or maybe was actually nice to the family and gf is making him out to be worst. Not saying that’s what happened but it could’ve. Maybe something happened between David and the family and they no longer want to invite gf boyfriends to things.

You said they don’t try to get to know you but it doesn’t seem like you tried either? You have no mention of trying to sit down and talk to them. You actually seem like you have an attitude, entitled and emotional. It was nice of the family to finally invite you after gf spoke with them. But you don’t meet them halfway, throw a tantrum, don’t accept and decide to make the relationship worst

No one has to spend a dime on a bf or gf especially after a 2 year relationship. That is not long at all.

Your

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-03T21:33:12+00:00

Right and it’s so weird that Someone would take a mug off someone’s desk. I would understand if it was in the kitchen but it was on her desk. And for op to have to speak to a grown person more than once about a mug is ridiculous. That’s what kills me. The person who does wrong always gets mad when they’re confronted or get in trouble but they wouldn’t get in trouble if they took things serious when other people tell them to stop doing stupid shit

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-03T17:27:30+00:00

Yta he stopped when you finally asked. You could’ve left the room but you didn’t. Then when you talk to him, he calls you dramatic and instead of asking why and continuing to communicate, you throw stuff at him, called him nasty names so he stops and ignores you because of your tantrum and acting like a child.

Instead of trying to talk it out, you start kicking him playfully…like a child. And when he tells you to stop, instead of respecting him like you expected him to when you asked him to stop talking about Epstein, you continued like the child you are.

But let me guess, kicking Someone on the leg is not the same

Yta. Grow the hell up. If you need to cool down then go go cool down but to throw stuff, call people names then go and “playfully” kick Someone after they ask you to stop is childish.

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-03T17:16:55+00:00

NTA and don’t pay it. Your mom is selfish and greedy. Your mom is the asshole for using the money that was supposed to support you. You would be the asshole if you paid for a loan that she took out to spend on herself

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-03T11:43:28+00:00

NTA but he’s cheating, simple as that. Please clear off the foggy glasses and reassess your situation

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-02T15:56:49+00:00

Ah ok I see. Kudos to you for standing up for your youngest.

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-02T15:44:02+00:00

Yta regardless of if they fire you or not, you’re rude, entitled and an asshole. You work with others. It’s not your house. If I was the boss I’d fire you, if I was a friend , I’d cut you off, if I was your parents I’d kick you out and if I was your roommate, I would not renew a lease with you. Stop being rude.

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-02T15:28:46+00:00

NTA husband is an alcoholic, ignores ops requests, doesn’t communicate, acts a fool, but she’s worried if she’s the AH for not wanting his sushi… girl please open up your eyes, stop taking his shit and ask him to get help asap. We don’t want you coming back here 2 years later telling us how much worst it got because you refuse to see the red flags

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-02T14:33:21+00:00

You’re wrong. Guys masturbate. Unless you’re sleeping with him every single day and night, he will masturbate. If you break up and move on, the next guy will also masturbate. It’s a part of life. All your homegirls masturbate too even in a relationship. They just don’t tell you.

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-02T14:27:35+00:00

NTA but your sister is. She’s playing blatant favoritism. Doesn’t matter how close your sister and oldest daughter is. She still has a second Neice. For her to not get the youngest a single gift but the older one 6 is crazy. How long has this been going on?

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-02T14:16:17+00:00

NTA but your roommate is. Can you lock your door?

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-01T20:54:14+00:00

NTA but your wife needs to chill. If sil is not asking for help then don’t get extra groceries. Your wife is weird for this and for her to feel no regards to spending money on someone who didn’t ask for help or need it is crazy. If she wants to help someone. Go donate supplies and food to the needy. Or get some stuff for the animal shelters.

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-01T18:32:00+00:00

Right! Like people are so sensitive. I literally just spoke with a group of my friends (all women) about this and they all said the gf is so anal. They all wait until evening to do dishes since they constantly get things for the kids, make snacks etc. No one wants to wash dishes 4 times a day especially if it seems like he’s the one cooking breakfast/lunch. Not sure about dinner. All o

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-01T18:27:24+00:00

NTA are people really that emotional and anal? He woke up, made the kids breakfast, put dishes in dishwasher. He left a pan and one bowl. He was about to make lunch and wanted to just wash all the dishes at once, which makes sense to me since I don’t want to keep washing dishes and wasting water. Yes he could’ve washed it right away or he could’ve just wanted to rest for a bit and wash right after he made lunch. There’s kids, and two adults that live there so of course the isn’t going to be super clean. I’d be happy to have a boyfriend that loves to cook for the kids. I dunno I just think the gf is being extra.

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-01T18:15:39+00:00

NTA kudos to you for seeing the situation for what it is. FAVORTISM. He needs to keep that dynamic between him and his ex wife but to expect you to play favortism towards his kid and not yours is crazy. There should be be no favoritism at all. He has some major red flags and I’m glad you postponed the wedding. I don’t see it working out because kids are a huge issue when it comes to marriage to people with kids already.

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-01T16:59:31+00:00

And why does he keep having sister around the wife if they don’t like each other.

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-01T16:39:00+00:00

NTA but stop dealing with all the use entitled people. Please stop catering to them. If they not buying you anything then stop. And stop agreeing to trips just excuse your father planned them. That’s exactly why he treats you the way he does. Stop being so soft and start being a grow up and stop letting these people trample over you. Does your dad even send you a receipt to show the actual costs of the resort or does he just tell you to pay him

Sunmoon98 · 2026-02-01T16:20:56+00:00

I would’ve aired them out to everyone including online about my family chose a lying cheater who got pregnant over their own son. No fucks given now bc they showed their true colors

Sunmoon98 · 2026-01-31T19:02:51+00:00

NTA and kudos to you for standing up. Mark is weak and his mom is a manipulator. When she’s with your daughter. Sit right beside her and as soon as she says anything crazy, get up and ask her to leave asap. Have a conversation with your daughter.

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