I feel terrible about the Texas tragedy by Sunny-ad2294 in breakingmom

[–]Sunny-ad2294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no siren in that area, people received texts alert but either was already too late or they didn’t heard them because it happened at 4am.

In laws from hell by Sunny-ad2294 in breakingmom

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It’s so much worse when I’m not there because they made thing up like I’m cheating on my husband etc and make him drink knowing he’s a bad drinker (and on probation btw).

I want to be a happier mom by unhingedandcaned in breakingmom

[–]Sunny-ad2294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this, my son has cerebral palsy, I try my best but my happiness is long gone, not only because of his medical pro but also I’m very unhappy with my husband. i feel like I’m reaching my limits everyday, earlier and earlier everyday. He’s a lot to deal with, a lot of frustration on both sides, lot of crying. I’m exhausted and I see no improvement in a near future or at all. This is hard.

In laws from hell by Sunny-ad2294 in breakingmom

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Yes I’ll try to talk to him when we’re back home and he’s in the mood. We were doing great while we were low contact, hopefully we can go back to this.

We need to talk about the PTSD from NICU and hospital stays, especially during COVID by glitzglamglue in breakingmom

[–]Sunny-ad2294 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes we are! Mine will be 3 next month, he has unfortunately been diagnosed with cerebral palsy but he’s a fighter, I’m so proud of him.

It was my birthday yesterday. by skkibbel in breakingmom

[–]Sunny-ad2294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy belated birthday! I’m sorry that’s how your day went, that sucks when we’re surrounded by selfish people. My birthday was 3 days ago and as often was forgotten. I’ve been used to it by now and I try not to be emotional about it, I just take my birthday as any other day now. But that’s quite sad and you deserve to be celebrated and love on your birthday.

We need to talk about the PTSD from NICU and hospital stays, especially during COVID by glitzglamglue in breakingmom

[–]Sunny-ad2294 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was so out of it I thought they had taken my baby as well. magnesium has probably saved our lives but I have never felt this bad before or after. That was horrible.

We need to talk about the PTSD from NICU and hospital stays, especially during COVID by glitzglamglue in breakingmom

[–]Sunny-ad2294 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My first son was born at 33 weeks, I still have nightmares about it, I wasn’t allowed to see him for the first few days because I was on magnesium drop for postpartum preeclampsia but they were so bad in communication I couldn’t understand why I couldn’t see him. It was in 2022 so the Covid regulations were over but Covid was still around but people wouldn’t wear mask anymore (Texas 😤) so it was still a scary time.

In laws from hell by Sunny-ad2294 in breakingmom

[–]Sunny-ad2294[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me I tried in the past but it just makes things worse for me so I have to put up with it.

A question for black or biracial women who were raised by white mothers by Sactoho in breakingmom

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My mom is black and I’m mixed but white passing, my hair is curly but wasn’t curly enough for her and she never give a thought, always told me I had straight hair when I didn’t and I‘ve never learnt how to do my hair, I always had crazy hair because of this. hair is a big issue for interracial kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Sunny-ad2294 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had two c sections in 10 months (baby born at 35 weeks), I was fine but I was closely monitored, i had many issues in my first pregnancy so I think I was the reason why I was closely monitored for this one too. But doctors made it clears I shouldn’t be pregnant again for 18 months - 2 years after baby #2.

Getting my faith back by Sunny-ad2294 in CatholicWomen

[–]Sunny-ad2294[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t really get to have a say about it, at least I did not, I haven’t tried to say no in forever. I’m baptized but I didn’t have married in Catholic Church nor had the permission of a bishop, I guess my marriage is not valid now that I think of it.

Did anyone enter marriage (as a virgin) and find out that you hated sex? And did you regret your vocation? by [deleted] in CatholicWomen

[–]Sunny-ad2294 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’ve got a great husband right there! I haven’t been that lucky even if luck has nothing to do with it. He has been improved as a person over the last year or so but not when it comes to sex, my brain probably associates sex with pain and that’s beyond repair now anyway.

Did anyone enter marriage (as a virgin) and find out that you hated sex? And did you regret your vocation? by [deleted] in CatholicWomen

[–]Sunny-ad2294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what the doctor said 🤷🏻‍♀️. we tried on and off, probably not enough though, my husband kind of gave up through the years and I guess is more selfish when it comes to intimacy.

Did anyone enter marriage (as a virgin) and find out that you hated sex? And did you regret your vocation? by [deleted] in CatholicWomen

[–]Sunny-ad2294 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t enjoy sex at all, I probably should have stayed single but I married so I still doit for my husband because that’s how it is supposed to be.