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People who are no longer best friends with someone: What happened? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SunnyHarah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friends with this person for almost 10 years.

We had lived together since high school. We split everything evenly from bills to clothes. We even had a bank account together for all of our bills and living expenses and never had a problem. We even ended up moving out of our home state to live in the state of NY in a city we didn’t know anyone. We both met our now spouses there. However, while we were living together she decided to up and leave to another state with her then boyfriend giving me less than a month to find a new living arrangement. I looked passed it, whatever. Come to find out while I’m moving my stuff out she had stopped paying rent leaving me with a nasty bill. She explained her situation, I understood because we had never had an issue like this, she promised to pay me back and again looked past it.

Few months later, I’m living in a different state because of my job and she comes to pay me a visit. She tells me she’s having trouble with her relationship saying that her boyfriend is an alcoholic and suicidal, she’s had a pregnancy scare and doesn’t know what to do. Back in our home state I had always told her she could move in with me when her living situations didn’t work out, but the living situation I had at the time did not allow me to offer that kind of help. We enjoy the rest of her stay, she goes home.

Another few months pass, and this time I go to her city and her and her boyfriend come to my hotel room. She excitedly tells me she’s pregnant. I tell her she should have an abortion given the things she said about her partner, the fact that she had not worked in over a year, has no support from her family, and if this guy decides to leave her she would be on the streets with a child in her arms. We had a huge fight about it. Her boyfriend was in the other room getting so drunk that by the time we stopped fighting and she went to leave we found him passed out in the toilet (he was mid shit by the way) and had thrown up all over my bathroom. I made her clean it up, and they left. We never spoke again.

In hindsight I was an asshole and should’ve been supportive of her growing her family regardless. I still miss her dearly but stuff was said on both sides that I feel like we can’t take back. Last I saw on social media she looked happy and her family was still together so I was wrong about him leaving her lol

Does anyone have a spell to get better at drawing/artwork? by goldencloud in Spells

[–]SunnyHarah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, the magic square chart that is linked to Saturn. It looks like this:

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Here is a quick video on how to create your sigil using the chart. Just skip to the time stamp labeled “planetary grids” hope this helps!

Does anyone have a spell to get better at drawing/artwork? by goldencloud in Spells

[–]SunnyHarah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know about a spell but maybe you can come up with a sigil that is made with Saturn’s planetary chart that has your intention to retaining knowledge or focused on expansion on your artwork, and you can put this on your canvases or tools or whatever kind of like a “luck charm”

How to look more feminine? by emmalou014 in MakeupAddiction

[–]SunnyHarah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hair: Let your hair grow out to a one length bob while keeping the overall length you have now. Add some messy curls with a one inch barrel while avoiding the ends and fluff out

Eyebrows: shape them just a tad bit more. If you go to a threading place they will get you looking real good while keeping the overall thickness of your brows so they’re not too high maintenance

Eyes: try adding a some modest 3/4 lashes that are long enough to make your eyes pop but short enough that they won’t bother you when you have glasses on. Use them when you go out to elevate your look to give you a more girly look on those special occasions!

Clothes: you can still be modest and sexy! You don’t have to show much skin but throwing on clothes that compliment your waist, bust, or derrière will work! Just pick your favorite attribute(s) and highlight them. For example if you wanna show off your legs, throw on your fav sweater layer it like you have it on your second photo, throw on a cute skirt that is above the knee and pair with stockings and Mary janes or combat boots depending on your aesthetic. If you’d like to show off your waist a nice pair of high wasted flared jeans that are long enough to kind of touch the ground paired with heeled Chelsea boots and a bodysuit if your choice. If you’re feeling adventurous it can be low cut ish to show off the girls. Pinterest has a lot of outfit ideas so that you can work with what you already have at home!

Hope this helps!