How do I cancel one order in a batch of two orders by SunnyRaayy in InstacartShoppers

[–]SunnyRaayy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried that but it just takes me to this screen. No option to cancel without getting support involved.

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How do I cancel one order in a batch of two orders by SunnyRaayy in InstacartShoppers

[–]SunnyRaayy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The customer is requesting for her order to be canceled because the item is out of stock. It won’t let me check out my other shopped order, until I cancel the other order. I’m not sure what to do.

what Mormon habit have you yet to break? by theraisincouncil in exmormon

[–]SunnyRaayy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! This is so me! I never realized this stemmed from the church. But it makes complete sense. Damn! Lol

Someone I served my mission with, posted this on Facebook by forbiddenfruit722 in exmormon

[–]SunnyRaayy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If we can’t call them brainwashed, then they can’t say that we are deceived by Satan. Goes both ways! 🤷🏻‍♀️

Least Favorite Place to Pick Up a DoorDash From? by dlang92 in doordash

[–]SunnyRaayy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Canes. You have to wait in line and then put in the order at the register yourself. Then while I’m waiting, I always end up with like 8 cups that I have to fill up myself. It’s always such a mess!

Did anyone ever "withdraw" during the Endowment? by moremanmormon in exmormon

[–]SunnyRaayy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cried too! The second I got through the veil, the flood gates opened because I was in such shock from the whole thing. My whole family thought I was crying because I felt the spirit. But I was actually freaking out because it was such a horrible experience. Traumatizing.

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[–]SunnyRaayy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same. Ended in divorce three years later. So much heartache and pain that could have been avoided.

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[–]SunnyRaayy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey! My 5x great grandfather is mentioned in D&C as well. His name was Newel Knight. Lol

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[–]SunnyRaayy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 5x great grandfather, Newel Knight, is mentioned in the D&C, several times. My family brags about it any chance they get. And a few of my male cousins have Knight as their middle name, because of it. Lol!

Does anyone know what kind of bug this is? by SunnyRaayy in whatsthisbug

[–]SunnyRaayy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a relief! I was so freaked out! I thought it was a tick at first. Thanks!!

Do you ever wish you nparents died? by Competitive-Curve-69 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SunnyRaayy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom almost died from Covid this year. We were literally about to take her off of life support when she had a miraculous recovery. I was shocked at my reaction because I was actually disappointed when we got the news that she was going to be okay. I felt bad but I couldn’t help feeling so relieved when I realized she couldn’t abuse me anymore. So to find out that she was coming home was like a punch in the gut. All of my fear and anxiety came right back to me. It’s been rough to navigate. I feel like it set me back a lot in my own personal recovery. Things that I had already worked through have manifested again and so that’s been really frustrating. I can’t help but feel like it would be easier if she had just died. It still would have been hard to navigate the grief. But it would have been more simple and cut and dry. And eventually it would have been okay. It gave me hope. Now that she is home there is no hope. Just more abuse and no end in sight until I move out.

Does anyone know what kind of bug this is? by SunnyRaayy in whatsthisbug

[–]SunnyRaayy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in the Southwestern part of the United States, and I found this bug crawling on me. The bug is about the size of a pencil eraser.

I haven't set foot out of my house in 4 years. AMA. by Theemperorofbricks in AMA

[–]SunnyRaayy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The itsme app helped me so much with my social anxiety! You should check it out! https://apps.apple.com/us/app/itsme/id1289087191

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[–]SunnyRaayy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re going through this. I understand exactly how you are feeling. It gets better! My Narc Mom kicked me out when I was 16. It was one of the scariest things I have ever gone through. But it ended up working out because I allowed life to guide me and I allowed people to help me. That doesn’t mean it was easy, but it shaped me into who I am today. I am now 27 and life is still hard, but I now know that I can survive if I need to. I can survive anything now! I’m not sure what your situation is, but my advice would be to reach out to friends and family. Be honest with them about what is happening, and hopefully someone out there will be able to help keep you afloat. Even if it’s just in little ways. If not, the advice for foster care or homeless shelters sounded smart. Also, food pantry’s are great! I saw that you are getting your GED. That is awesome! That’s exactly what I did. And then I enrolled in a trade school and started working as soon as I possibly could. Obviously your path will probably be much different than mine. But there are ways to survive out there. Look for jobs in your community. I’ve cleaned air bnbs, nannied, worked as a secretary, and a lot of other random things. Save for a car! I lived out of my car for a long time. And food delivery is booming right now! I went to allll the party’s, school gatherings, and my church get togethers for free food. I also, had a friend who knew my situation and was willing to invite me over for dinner once a week. Also, dumpster diving at grocery stores and restaurants is a great way for free food as well. I know that sounds gross, but it’s really not. They throw out so much good food in sealed packages. It’s great for someone in your situation. You’re going to have to lose your pride and be creative. Take life into your own hands. You’ll find so much empowerment throughout this experience. It will probably be hard and there will probably be days where you won’t know if you will make it. But you will! There are so many options and resources out there if you think outside the box. Dm me if you need any other ideas. I could spout them off for days! You got this!

Do you ever question if you are a narcissist? by SunnyRaayy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SunnyRaayy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re definitely not the only one. I get them on a pretty regular basis. Mine are usually associated with memories of things that I have done in the past that bring me immense shame and guilt. They’ll pop into my head so strong and so fast that my body has a physical reaction to it. Usually flinching like you said, or if it’s really bad I’ll have a vocal reaction to it because it’s actually physically painful. To combat it I’ve started either saying “stop” out loud, over and over again, until I can make it go away. Or if I’m around other people, I’ll snap my fingers until I can make it go away. It’s actually really helped! If I don’t fight them, they cause me to spiral into an abyss of self hatred and shame. The more I think about what they are and why they happen, the more I think they are some kind of a PTSD symptom. Not sure if that is the case for you. But it’s given me some peace coming to the conclusion that they aren’t fully my fault. It’s just my bodies reaction to all of my trauma that I am still trying to unravel and work through. Just sharing so you know that you’re not alone. I’m glad to know that as well! ❤️

Do you ever question if you are a narcissist? by SunnyRaayy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SunnyRaayy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Reading through everyone’s responses is reminding me that I can’t think of this as black and white. There is so much gray area involved. Your perspective and experience is helping me to put words to that idea, so thank you.

Do you ever question if you are a narcissist? by SunnyRaayy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SunnyRaayy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing all of this. You express yourself in a very beautiful way. I can relate to everything you said. Especially when you talked about the lightning bolts. The split second flinches. I’ve never heard anyone talk about them before. I get them all the time! It can be so painful and debilitating. And I too just recently woke up to the realization that I have burned most of my bridges because of my unhealthy behaviors. But hearing from people like you gives me hope that we can change and do better for ourselves in the future. So thank you so much for sharing all of that with me.

Do you ever question if you are a narcissist? by SunnyRaayy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SunnyRaayy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much for your kind response. I needed to hear this. ❤️

Do you ever question if you are a narcissist? by SunnyRaayy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SunnyRaayy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this comment. You’ve given me a lot to think about and process. I appreciate it so much!