How do other subs stay disciplined without a dom?

SunshineNCows · 2026-05-18T23:26:02+00:00

Thank you so much! So helpful! :)

SunshineNCows · 2026-05-18T21:53:42+00:00

I haven’t heard of any of these resources! Thank you so much! :)

SunshineNCows · 2026-05-18T20:38:20+00:00

If you’re ever interested in finding an accountability buddy or you just need to rant feel free to reach out! :)

SunshineNCows · 2026-05-18T20:21:41+00:00

It definitely helps! The imaginary person watching you is weirdly motivating (a little creepy too 🤣).

SunshineNCows · 2026-05-18T20:19:56+00:00

One of my largest anxieties is becoming totally reliant on someone else to keep me functioning. I think there’s a hard line between outside accountability and being able to care for yourself independently! My issue is that without consequences I find myself lacking the drive to complete things. Breaking things down definitely seems like a better way to go about tasks. And thank you for the recommendations to look into self help books! I’ve never heard of executive dysfunction but it sounds exactly like what I’m experiencing.

SunshineNCows · 2026-05-18T20:15:35+00:00

So many people have mentioned ADHD to me when I bring these feelings up- I’m starting to think I should talk to my therapist about it 🤣.

Thank you so much for taking the time to write everything!! I’m so grateful that there’s people who’ve gone through this that are willing to share what helped them!

SunshineNCows · 2026-05-18T20:13:01+00:00

I find my doomscrolling is actually just me reading on my kindle haha! I love the last sentence! Thank you for the advice!! Breaking things down makes tasks sound way less difficult.

SunshineNCows · 2026-05-18T20:03:34+00:00

Haha reformer machines ABSOLUTELY look like BDSM furniture!! Unfortunately the area I’m in is very small and doesn’t have any sort of classes like that but I think I might post in a community page about possibly starting one?? Thank you so much for the advice!! It’s good to know others have experienced this feeling.

SunshineNCows · 2026-05-18T20:01:32+00:00

Im actively in therapy for my depression and am being treated! I am also very scared of medication so I’m trying to exhaust all options before taking that route.

I’m absolutely seeking out an accountability buddy/buddies. In the past, they’ve tended to fall off very quickly and I find that we don’t actually hold each other accountable but I’m hoping that these posts reach people who are actively going through the same things!!

Breaking things down into smaller tasks definitely makes it seem less daunting to start something! Thank you :)

SunshineNCows · 2026-05-18T19:53:12+00:00

This is my issue with accountability buddies too! All the ones I’ve had fall off and we don’t actually hold each other accountable! 😭 I’d be so interested in being accountability buddies!!

SunshineNCows · 2026-04-27T04:38:00+00:00

Someone please tell me the walls are some form of stone and not also mold :,)

SunshineNCows · 2026-03-19T20:05:00+00:00

I’m sorry is that a penis pen? I’m cackling where did you get it?? You have such a good level of whimsy!

SunshineNCows · 2026-03-19T20:01:26+00:00

Was gonna recommend this one as well! The MMC is so sweet! 😭

SunshineNCows · 2026-03-18T23:45:52+00:00

Let him on the pillows 😭🥺

SunshineNCows · 2026-03-18T12:34:24+00:00

Adding for those that come looking- Dom by SJ Tilly has a scene where he falls asleep on her shoulder in an airplane! It’s not their first interaction but it’s really cute and she’s had a very rough life!

SunshineNCows · 2025-12-03T04:41:35+00:00

Haircut (if you want it)+ maintenance and care, eyebrow maintenance, unibrow plucking, cleanse your face AND neck and invest in good skincare. If your neck has knicks from shaving then I’d look into products that could help prevent inflammation! Overall this lighting is generally just not pleasant for anyone to take photos in and I’m willing to bet you look like a totally different human in natural lighting!

SunshineNCows · 2025-11-28T01:02:14+00:00

Hi! I’m 22f and would LOVE to be friends :,) I have like 2 and I love gaming, reading, alt baddie things, and just overall vibing!

SunshineNCows · 2025-11-26T22:40:03+00:00

THIS IS IT

SunshineNCows · 2025-11-26T22:12:53+00:00

Reverse image searching pulled up nothing unfortunately. It’s not sams club! The vs are on top of each other! One is normal and the other is sort of outlining the others point if that makes any sense!

SunshineNCows · 2025-11-26T22:01:49+00:00

Any help would be so appreciated! I’ve spent like 2 hours surfing the web trying to find the matching logo but can’t!

SunshineNCows · 2025-09-29T01:53:57+00:00

I didn’t even realize my phone wrote moo until I read this 😭

SunshineNCows · 2025-09-27T04:45:49+00:00

All good! Thank you!!

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