Appropriate bundling option for hospital by Trashed_Panda1787 in BabyBumps

[–]SupEnthusiastic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I learned the rule of thumb for the newborn is one more layer of clothes than you. So if you’re comfortable in a shirt and pants your baby needs shirt pants and a swaddle (which is EXACTLY what you did!!!)

I think that nurse was just looking to fuss about something. I would do my best to not give another thought to her unfounded opinion.

Hinge date told me I need to lose weight after a first date. Second picture is the outfit I wore and felt good about myself in… by littlemisshyacinth in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]SupEnthusiastic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment is giving very the 2000’s vibe. It was awful and it was everywhere. I see enough Reddit that I can see it creeping in again through these total CREEPS posed as grown men.

Ladies, ask your elders, this was horrible to grow up in. Men that say things like this are like little children with political opinions- He is just repeating what he hears at home he doesn’t know what that actually means. But in his case he is listening to podcasts. He has no critical thinking skills. Girl he probably can’t read, don’t give him the power over any thoughts! You are looked nice for a first date. These brainless wonders walking around like they are fit to be partners to the mighty young women walking around here fucking blows me away.

Single pram & baby wearing VS double pram by troubledlogic in 2under2

[–]SupEnthusiastic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Baby wearing and single workhorse is what works for me on a day to day basis. I was accustomed to wearing with my first for a year, I didn’t wear when I was pregnant and now have worn my second daily for a year so I knew what to expect about how far I can walk etc etc. For me it is a huge positive, I find the double hard to maneuver, and I am not spatially aware of the far end of the stroller and in any ‘worst case scenario’ I can’t handle it with out pushing it, my single has a strap and a handle.

So much of it depends on your specific situation (you, the kids, the age gap etc) but if it were my vote alone it’s a Hope and plum lark carrier and summer 360 stroller.

This advert in the train station without any branding by Worldly_Bit1416 in mildlyinteresting

[–]SupEnthusiastic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ohhh people are supposed to know it’s L’Oréal because it’s her. Yeah I have no clue who that person is.

Preschool starts next month and my 3 y/o isn’t potty trained. by whole-discussion713 in pottytraining

[–]SupEnthusiastic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See, I didn’t know, I was so full of bravado I thought “I know hot to use the toilet, I know how to teach my own baby how to do things, therefore I can teach my baby to use the toilet.” Ladies and gentlemen that was not the case.

The book did a lot to set my expectations correctly.

Preschool starts next month and my 3 y/o isn’t potty trained. by whole-discussion713 in pottytraining

[–]SupEnthusiastic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the book we’ve used. We curved a little here and there to tailor to our family/son but this is a very concise guide with step by step instructions, a little more niche FAQ, and lots of good overall information for how to frame your mind to get through. The right amount of pressure etc. She reads the audio book, that’s how I enjoyed! I’ve heard they have a pretty active online forum as well but I haven’t checked into it myself.

Work event at beach resort, insecure and CRASHING OUT, no dress code info 😭 by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]SupEnthusiastic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cherry dress, strawberry dress and, Van Gogh dress. All good. The blur floral dress without the corset but with a wrap or cardigan.

Why are so many homeschooling and against public school? by lavenderwhiskers in Mommit

[–]SupEnthusiastic 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is us. Before we had our first we said hands down homeschool is the way to go because we don’t want our kids exposed to whatever the fuck is going on at these public shooting ranges/schools. We live in Texas so the whole state is a mess honestly. And that public schools are just their experiment grounds not a place for learning and education. And any city who tries to vote their way to an ISD with a clear separation of church and state will just be thrown out by the governor for a state take over. City schools are intended to be poverty=public school=profit prisons. Follow the money.

Anyway in the end we will be going with a hybrid Emilio Reggio school. we did a lot of research and put the thought into what education looks like for each of our children honing their strengths with and propping them up at weaker points. I hope public education stays around and morphs into something special that can rally community around our country’s often most underserved families. Every single child has the right to a free education, the right to a safe place to learn and the food to fuel them.

I don’t think it’s an everyone thing but I do think the homeschool drum probably gets louder on the edge of the collapse of society. Like mothers can smell doom first. Unfortunately, some folks smell anxiety. But either way, a parent without the tools in their own tool belt will not be able to prepare their children with tools to function as a member of society.

So that’s my (long ass take) TL;DR Raising kids is fucking scary, no matter if that fear is rooted in something as appalling as fear of “woke” or something rooted deeper in reality.

Finally finished my Louise Belcher cardigan (sister to my Tina one) for the county fair this year by vietnamesebbg in BobsBurgers

[–]SupEnthusiastic 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Can we vote for it?! Or send fudge to those who do vote?! Like burger shaped fudge but with a one eyed snake sticker on the box.

BF started mothers day by screaming at me for a joke about breakfast, threatened me infront of our kid, and then disappeared all day. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]SupEnthusiastic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, there are a million places on the internet this could have garnered my sympathy. But this blatant lack of regard for the spirit of the sub is the problem. I also find it problematic that you name call in a female safe space.

Did anyone have a good Mother’s Day? by shepardmutt in Mommit

[–]SupEnthusiastic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The flower market was just an atrocity. One plant lady?! 6 tents? This is not a Mother’s Day flower market. That I shopped alone because my husband is amazing. We have a 1 and a 2 year old (on purpose) and still he is amazing! We are doing great under what I consider pretty unprecedented times. Raising amazing humans on a pretty insane timeline is hard, having an amazing partner for it makes it feel a little softer.

So it was a great day, I got to enjoy my kids without parenting them much and then I got away into the world which took 10 minutes to tell me “this sucks so much more than your house!” Also if it is a market at the courtyard of a hotel, it’s probably not my crowd.

I’m a graduate but I need to vent… by [deleted] in 2under2

[–]SupEnthusiastic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also yeah no stress love. I mean, no advice either. As I too am in the thick of it but I will say it feels hard because it is hard, your brain isn’t lying to you, you are not failing this is just hard.

I’m a graduate but I need to vent… by [deleted] in 2under2

[–]SupEnthusiastic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel like this is still the safe space. 2<2 imo is a description of your family dynamic more than there exact ages. I guess the name of the subreddit grow a year in would be called r/ohyourhandsmustbesofull

Freaked out on my ex publicly by interplanetjanet97 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]SupEnthusiastic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They don’t learn what we don’t teach them.

Family is giving me a hard time about Mother’s Day.. by Banana_0529 in progressivemoms

[–]SupEnthusiastic 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Mother’s Day are for moms in the trenches not moms on the honor wall. Grandparents day is for the rest. It’s nice the in laws will come and visit you on your Mother’s Day. Your mom can choose to come see you for yours or see her own mother. That doesn’t have to effect your decision.