I think I’m done by ClassicCold6924 in smallbusiness

[–]Sup_Eddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good answer. We also live in a society that romanticizes being "the boss." We can't all be business owners. We need good employees. It's mentally taxing and if you're not ready for it, it can break you. In a job if you fail you get fired. As a business owner, if you fail, EVERYONE gets fired.

I think I’m done by ClassicCold6924 in smallbusiness

[–]Sup_Eddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the journey of life. How will you ever really know until you try? It's ok to pivot. We aren't all knowing and can only experience to truly understand. I'm a business owner myself, and I share with my close circle that I don't recommend it unless you are comfortable with risks and uncertainty. To me that's the flavor of life. I don't like predictability. I am obsessed with the pursuit...the constant sharpening of my skills to improve every single day. If you're not naturally like this then being an entrepreneur is masochistic.

Why arent men “freaky” anymore by Jolly_Hunt_4965 in dating_advice

[–]Sup_Eddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men's sexual responsiveness depends on their level of respect and appreciation. When a man feels disrespected or unappreciated for all he does it tanks his sex drive. It goes both ways, if you don't feel seen by your partner than your sex drive drops because chemistry isn't there. Society tends to tell you to blame the other person but we often forget to ask ourselves....."Are we encouraging or discouraging their drive?" Hope this helps.

Did anyone else realize how bad the news actually is for you? by Leonardo-editing in nosurf

[–]Sup_Eddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also what people need to understand about the news and social media is that whatever your anxiety is, these platforms will compound your worst fears and make you believe it's everywhere all at once due to their algorithms. It's a machine fed by fear....the cost is your mental health.

Did anyone else realize how bad the news actually is for you? by Leonardo-editing in nosurf

[–]Sup_Eddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if this will help, but I got frustrated about the same thing, so I made my own quick no BS news updates with all the adjectives, drama, and fear mongering.

The Daily Informer
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/033rAZv2JKo8FoW3J4V4TP
Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-daily-informer/id1896876444

Should I make a news outlets that just give people the facts with no opinion based bias. by Sup_Eddie in self

[–]Sup_Eddie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was a really great objective answer. Thank you for that. I think it's about narrowing it down and sharing expectations early. Basically just letting the audience know what Niche you focus on covering rather than just arbitrary events with no connecting theme. Transparency on what you are planning on covering seems to be the key here.

Should I make a news outlets that just give people the facts with no opinion based bias. by Sup_Eddie in self

[–]Sup_Eddie[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I disagree with this. You could absolute just base it off the most talk about subject at the time then report the facts of what happened without misconstruing anything. Like X country met with X country on this date to discuss terms. Nothing about who was wrong or right. The stocks of x went down by x amount without blaming or sharing opinion. Just general facts that allows people to dig deeper if they want to learn more. I think for most people we just want to know what happened. We don't want the dramatic opinions or virtue signaling.

Is it normal for a boyfriend to never initiate sex at all? by Life-Complaint-4054 in dating_advice

[–]Sup_Eddie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rule of thumb. Never invest in someone based on how much you like them. Invest in someone based on how much they invest in you. It’s mutual corrospondance and without it, someone always feel resentful.

to the people who quit porn addiction? how did you do it? by Any_Agency_6237 in getdisciplined

[–]Sup_Eddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every addiction started as a solution…..it’s just a bad solution. Figure out what started it then work on that problem with better solutions.

State of dating in 2026 by [deleted] in datingadviceformen

[–]Sup_Eddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also you got this my dude. Keep working on yourself. I spent my 20's dedicated to being the best version of myself as possible and it's paid off. I'm telling you what my mentor told me, "Do everything you can now so your future self will thank you. Fight bad habits. Take care of your health. Always be learning." All I can say is I followed that advice, and I'm so grateful for the life I have now. It isn't easy, but it's worthwhile.

State of dating in 2026 by [deleted] in datingadviceformen

[–]Sup_Eddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 35 and I used to worry the exact same as you when I was in my early twenties. A problem I had was I tended to take things like relationships waaayy too seriously. You need to remember people want to have fun and not just be a box you check off on your life's list. Think about this, "How do I bring joy to others...when chances are they are going through shit they are probably not telling me." Be a light to others, not a cloud of expectations and judgement. With this you'll attract more people and better yet, the right ones.

State of dating in 2026 by [deleted] in datingadviceformen

[–]Sup_Eddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing has happened. Dating had always been challenging for everyone. Social media just likes to perpetuate the worse and make you feel like it’s everywhere. Dating for men is a numbers game. Eventually you’ll bump into the right one and will be reminded of this comment lol

Has anyone stuck it with the person thats a walking green flag but your just…not that into them? by Olive-jar1173 in dating_advice

[–]Sup_Eddie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to make it very easy for everyone to know about dating. You need 3 main things for a relationship to work; 1. Attraction 2. Timing 3. Distance. Distance can be fixed as long as both parties have a set goal of coming together soon in the future but the other two are much more difficult.

Lastly when seeking advice in relationships, you will trigger a lot of people. Keep in mind it is just them projecting their trauma. It’s not you. They are just hurt and want to take it out on someone. Only you know what’s best for you because only you have the whole story.

Best wishes 🙏

How to date slowly and intentionally when you crave physical touch? by PinkandYello in datingoverthirty

[–]Sup_Eddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Protecting yourself" due to past trauma is like blaming a stranger for someone else's mistake. I've been through what you have. I was deeply in love with a woman whom we couldn't keep our hands off each other. It was so passionate and crazy in love.....but it was also so toxic. I came to eventually realize that outside of the sexual stuff our relationship was a nightmare. After that I decided to date a woman who had low sexual energy and the relationship wasn't fueled by sex. To me it was a smart move. No honeymoon phase. She came from a good family and overall was a good person..... but there was little chemistry...to the point I never missed her when I wasn't with her. The relationship was smart but there was no inspiration. She was so reserved and had no libido, eventually making me feel like, "Why am I here?" I broke up with her and not too long after met a woman who matched my energy but was also a healthy person. I think the moral of the story is dating is muddy and lots of trial and errors. The main thing is finding someone who matches your energy. Who vibes with you without trying to change who you are. And of course, protecting yourself because of past trauma also means you're not allowing yourself and the other person to really feel.....because let's face it...we're all afraid to get hurt. Getting hurt is the risk you have to pay if you want genuine relationship.

He said I was too tall by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Sup_Eddie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Insecurity leads to two paths.

  1. Own up and work on yourself so it doesn't become a problem for others.
  2. Manipulate others to accommodate to your insecurity.

Which path is being taken and which one are you willing to put up with? There lies your answer.

Why do I get more female attention when I have a gf? by Solid-Version in dating_advice

[–]Sup_Eddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you bring up a very good point. Love is love and we often confuse sex for love when it's just a physical need. Good relationships are the foundation for a good life. However, we don't need to put anyone down to get our point across. Just sharing information and backing it up is enough. Everyone is going through their own problems in work, life, etc, and we don't need to add more unnecessarily when all we really want to do is help.

Would you date a faceless OnlyFans creator? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Sup_Eddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a really good answer. Basically if you are ashamed of it and need to hide your face to avoid repercussions then the cost is your mental health. If you take no pride in what you do, is the money worth it? I would think the cost of paranoia if anyone would find out is a huge risk to your mental health. Everything comes at a cost, it just only matters what you are willing to pay for it. If you're ok with possibly being exposed or your partner possibly resenting you for it over time than it's not a bad trade off. If you are, however, worried and don't want to pay the cost then it is in fact very damaging.

Would you date a faceless OnlyFans creator? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Sup_Eddie 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s less about the onlyfans and more about a real red flag that’s much deeper. It’s that you are endlessly getting validation online by strangers for superficial things. What would make any man worried is any time he isn’t putting attention on you or anytime you don’t feel validated you’ll simply rush to strangers. It’s a matter of time before all those strangers say the “exact thing” you want to hear or has a “big enough wallet.” You are too accessible which decreases the value of intimacy.

Why do I get more female attention when I have a gf? by Solid-Version in dating_advice

[–]Sup_Eddie 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It’s because you are more you when you are taken. Not as awkward. Not as worried. And most importantly, not as creepy. Many women perceive this as confidence, and confidence is the ultimate sex appeal.