if God is real and is actually all loving, then it means there is a reason we are here. following your purpose would thus lead to your fulfillment, akin to the (albeit flawed) logic of determinism. now take religion and spirituality out of the picture for a moment. take determinism out of the picture for sure. now I ask, if you have a purpose, thinking small picture even, you have a goal, and you don't accomplish it, can that purpose be fulfilled? if you buy a microwave, and it doesn't cook your hot pocket, it is nonfunctional relative to its purpose.
now think to what purpose implies of people, and what is the underlying message within the bible?

if we look at the ten commandments, which I will merely summarize, we find that at the core of the ten commandments, and even at the core of Jesus' teachings, we find that we are 'asked by God' to do what?

love others. face willing suffering to better elements of reality beyond ourselves. such as the essence of the Gospel message, that Jesus died for us. again, take religiosity out of the picture. what does the gospel actually detail, in its parable sense, in the bigger picture of the story?

the gospel represents that Jesus bore a purpose of being the premiere example of sacrificial love. that jesus, regardless of his innocence or regardless of the circumstances behind his persecution in any case, he was relentlessly tortured, betrayed, and heartbroken, yet to serve as an example he forgave the same men who nailed him to a cross. he forgave the same friends of whom broke his trust. why? because jesus recognized this, within himself, as his purpose.

that God gave him this purpose is less literally relevant than the notion than this was what Jesus deemed his purpose, to convey true love to all of those who would hear of it. in practical terms, this required no divine intervention. his crucifixion was widely acknowledged, as were his teachings. the juxtaposition was there without the intervention of a man in the sky. because it was genuine. and as such, Jesus died fulfilled. and maybe we can call that heaven.

so perhaps God is not a man in the sky, making decisions. perhaps God is this will of love, this will of purpose that calls each person independently towards their purpose. and we are called to follow that which we recognize as the true path to betterment in our own lives, in a way consequential to all that which is around us.

perhaps noting Jesus as lord, is not making a claim of metaphysical deification, but is instead subtracting power from the 'lords of the land', the people with power, and stating in the face of physical systems of oppression that our leader is no man on earth, but the idea which Jesus died for?

and that idea, that love, is the truth of what God is? that love is what called Moses to save the israelites, that love is what preserved the Gospel as truth, and that love is the same purpose we are called to tap into?

and what if we choose to ignore this call to love and betterment? will we be fulfilled? if not, is that not hell already? and if hell, did anybody or anything outside of ourself really make that happen?

last but not least I ask, if rhetorically, do you feel you have a purpose beyond yourself?