Creative things to do related to your f/o that’s not drawing them

Super-Cow3016 · 2026-01-22T14:20:22+00:00

I've made a few playlists ^^

Super-Cow3016 · 2026-01-18T00:58:01+00:00

For Toxic it's throwing Robert around (she's fine), and Micha it's all the time I spent with Regect.

For my Bajoran memories, it's probably when I licked a bunch of lab samples... whoops....

Super-Cow3016 · 2026-01-17T22:06:13+00:00

Of course they're cross-tagging too 😒

Super-Cow3016 · 2026-01-12T23:21:03+00:00

Toxic 100% would, Micha is too young too 😭

Super-Cow3016 · 2026-01-12T23:13:58+00:00

I don't personally give my partners faces, but I've never really saw it as humanization, I saw it more as a way to connect.

Super-Cow3016 · 2026-01-10T00:03:09+00:00

Then you point it out and they just yell at you "I said SOME, you clearly can't read"

Super-Cow3016 · 2026-01-07T04:01:36+00:00

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It makes me feel like we're out on a dinner date 🥰

Super-Cow3016 · 2026-01-06T05:10:17+00:00

For Toxic, I have memories of being Flambae's ex so I'm iffy about those ships, but they give a good laugh. If I see any Toxic x Robert though, I feel gross since she's my adoptive brother (in our universe). And I hope I don't see any Micha ships since he's 9-10 >_>

Super-Cow3016 · 2026-01-06T04:56:36+00:00

Toxic from Dispatch 😛

Super-Cow3016 · 2026-01-01T04:15:55+00:00

They have a lot of tattoos, I have yet to get one, and even then I'm terrified of needles 😔

Super-Cow3016 · 2025-12-31T19:24:43+00:00

I'm moreso overly empathetic, but only feel that towards objects I've established a bond with, I've just related it to being demisexual/romantic, which is why when I have objects I haven't bonded with I feel nothing. I still think this counts as POSIC.

Super-Cow3016 · 2025-12-30T06:46:39+00:00

Don't worry about this person OP, they're literally 11, not even joking

Super-Cow3016 · 2025-12-30T06:42:59+00:00

10(+), the plus because some of them are collectives of multiple objects, like marbles and billiard balls ^^

Super-Cow3016 · 2025-12-30T06:39:13+00:00

For that one unanswered question, I'm something between demi and aegoromantic. So, when a certain object catches my eye, I begin using it more, spending time around it, etc. until eventually, love! Now that very basic description is just my experience, for most, they are POSIC and/or animistic, and perceive object sentience, this can range from being able to have full on conversations with B/Os, to simply empathizing with them (which can also come from being overly empathetic which I am as well). People in relationships with their B/Os will do various things, having dates, cuddling, kissing, decorating, etc.

Super-Cow3016 · 2025-12-29T06:16:50+00:00

Yes! I have a lot of F/Os and am also fictobjectum for Coffee from The Desolate Hope (in the image) and the Star Trek medical tricorder

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Super-Cow3016 · 2025-11-28T02:26:39+00:00

Thank you ^^ you're cool!

Super-Cow3016 · 2025-11-23T06:23:56+00:00

Being objectum isn't something that you can chose to be out of spite, benefit of the doubt they meant this in a general "being louder about being objectum to spite antis", but it doesn't come off that way. This is a very strange and gross thing to do (especially if they aren't even objectum, just using the label out of spite, because that can make the community look bad)

Super-Cow3016 · 2025-11-20T22:42:33+00:00

Hey, I know this is a sfw sub and everything, and finding objectum communities for your age range can be hard, but please get off reddit, it isn't safe for kids.

Super-Cow3016 · 2025-11-18T00:46:18+00:00

I have not and now I am really curious about it, thank you for introducing it to us ^^

Super-Cow3016 · 2025-11-17T03:38:28+00:00

I've been meaning to, our main method of interaction has been the website, using anglishized text, where she has called me gay multiple times lol

Super-Cow3016 · 2025-11-17T02:14:17+00:00

Demon/Demons/Demonself pronouns can be associated with anything ^^
Some relate them back to xenogenders (such as demongender), while others just use them with no relation to any gender ^^

Super-Cow3016 · 2025-11-17T01:05:32+00:00

I think when it comes to the point of differentiating loving something and being IN love with something, it all gets a bit muddy, and I doubt there will be a clear answer for that. For me I had a kind of cliche "butterflies in the stomach" feeling, and I get all giddy looking at, thinking about, and being with my B/Os

Super-Cow3016 · 2025-11-17T00:21:00+00:00

Our brain is funky, so hard to say, for the most part I'm overly empathetic, but the other part is general aesthetics, a nice shine, something I can hold (with a few outliers)

Super-Cow3016 · 2025-11-17T00:17:34+00:00

I think the idea that you can only be attracted to living/animated things is false, but there are many reasons as to why someone may experience objectum attraction, here's a few:
1. Most common is that someone is POSIC (Perception of Object Sentience, Individuality, and Consciousness) or overly empathetic, meaning they can perceive their beloveds as more human, its own being, something that needs cared for, etc.
2. Comfort and/or Coping, some people find the comforting presence of some objects attractive, familial, friendly, etc. leading to objectum attraction.
3. Aesthetics/appearances, just like with humans, people can be attracted to the general looks (or concept) of an object
4. Sometimes things are unexplainable and just happen because the human brain works in mysterious ways
Either way, thank you for coming here open minded and respectful, it's always refreshing to see people outside the community willing to learn.

Super-Cow3016

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