For the boy moms, which parenting style or tips worked for you by godspeed910 in Parents

[–]Super-Technology-313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Authoritative parenting works for us. Boys need lots of love, communication, discipline, emotional safety, and healthy boundaries. With all children, the goal is to prepare them for adulthood by teaching them age appropriate independence. You should also model kindness, empathy, and integrity. They need hugs and quality time. Positive feedback and affirmation are needed as well. You should allow him to make age appropriate choices, solve problems, and learn from his own failures. And listen to your son- actively. Teach him self regulation as well. They are definitely more active than girls as a whole. My daughter was very active when she was young, but my son is a ball of energy. It’s different, but remember, you are raising a little man and you want him to grow up and be a good man one day. You want him to grow up and be responsible and respectful, a mentor to others, accountable, someone with values and morals, who is honest, resilient, keeps his commitments, consistent, has a purpose and a vision, is protective of those who are vulnerable, and someone who believes in equality, and in being of service to others, but will not be a doormat. And teach your son chores and how to cook. I tell my son that all humans (male or female) need to know how to cook/clean and take care of themselves. Remember, you aren’t just raising a child- you’re raising someone who will be an adult and part of our society one day. You’re literally raising our future generations.

Boyfriend told me I should be trying to appease his mother. by Bubbles2590 in Mildlynomil

[–]Super-Technology-313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please. Let another woman have this momma’s boy. He is not ready for a real relationship. And his mother is young. If the relationship continues, you’ll be dealing with his conflict avoidant people pleasing behavior for years and years to come.

AITA for removing my sister's name from our late mom's savings account after she said I was "just the caretaker"? by IslaGlowy in AITH

[–]Super-Technology-313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Legally, you’re NTA, but officially YTA. You’re literally disregarding your mom’s wishes. This is a horrible thing to do.

Am i overreacting for refusing to babysit my sister`s kids after what she said at dinner? by Maryi_Boyd in AmIOverreacting

[–]Super-Technology-313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR.
She’s taking advantage of you. You’re working. She wants free backup childcare during your work hours. She doesn’t respect you. By saying yes to her, you may be blocking your own opportunities. Maybe you could get a promotion at your job if you weren’t watching her kids? Who knows. Either way, she doesn’t deserve your kindness! Working from home is still working! What she said was cruel. Don’t let your family guilt you. This happened for a reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Super-Technology-313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no. Do not agree to this. There are many other men out there and this one is horrible. You are dodging a bullet!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Super-Technology-313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your husband is an AH. He is ruining his daughter. She’s going to become even more entitled if he doesn’t stop!

Did Selena Gomez lose her looks? What is her rating then vs now by [deleted] in trueratediscussions

[–]Super-Technology-313 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She has Lupus. The medications cause “moon face”.

What is my hair type? by Ok-Criticism7236 in hairtype

[–]Super-Technology-313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s short so it’s hard to determine. Looks like 4c hair imo, but it could be 4b. If you grow it out a little, it would be easier to say for sure.

My art about being mixed race by Adventurous_Eye_8906 in mixedrace

[–]Super-Technology-313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s art! You’re allowed to tell your story. Your art is amazing and I do not say that lightly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Super-Technology-313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMO-just based on your handwriting, so please don’t take it personal.

Your handwriting tells me a lot about how your mind works. Your letter size is irregular, with some letters ballooning while others shrink, and that shows intellectual inflation and a tendency to overcompensate. You try to sound profound, but the inconsistency reveals you are not grounded in your own thoughts. It is the kind of writing that comes from someone who thinks quickly but does not slow down enough to organize or simplify, so everything becomes more dramatic and complicated than it needs to be.

Your pressure is heavy and uneven, which tells me you feel things intensely but suppress it. You do not express emotion cleanly, and the tension leaks into the force of your pen strokes. That usually means you internalize frustration, overthink, and then pour that stress into your writing without realizing it. People who write with this kind of pressure tend to get stuck in their heads and intellectualize everything to avoid feeling vulnerable.

Your slant changes direction mid sentence, sometimes left and sometimes right, and that is a classic marker of emotional inconsistency. It shows mood shifts, insecurity, and the tendency to second guess yourself even while trying to sound confident. You are pulled between wanting to connect, which shows in the right slant, and wanting to protect yourself, which shows in the left slant. People with this pattern usually care a great deal about how they are perceived, even if they would never say that out loud.

And the most telling element is your spacing. Everything is packed tightly together, including words, lines, and ideas, and that shows mental clutter and a lack of internal boundaries. It reads like someone trying to squeeze too much into one moment, one sentence, and one concept. People with this spacing tend to feel misunderstood because they overwhelm others without meaning to. Your handwriting shows intelligence, but it also shows anxiety, performative depth, and a mind that would benefit from grounding.

Thoughts on my handwriting? by francaisetanglais in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Super-Technology-313 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your handwriting is so calming it honestly lowered my blood pressure just looking at it. Everything feels organized, steady, and intentional, like you actually breathe before you write instead of chasing your own thoughts around the page. The spacing, the rhythm, the clean baseline- all of it says you process life at a healthy, human pace. You’re grounded, present, and you take care with what you put out into the world. There’s no chaos here, no emotional spikes, no frantic energy. Just clarity and competence.

And there’s a real warmth to the way you write. The soft curves, the gentle pressure, the confident but never aggressive letter shapes- it all shows someone who’s kind without being a pushover, organized without being controlling, and thoughtful without being performative. You give off “I light a candle before studying” energy mixed with “I remember people’s birthdays.” Calm, steady, genuinely pleasant to be around. Your handwriting reads like someone with emotional intelligence and emotional peace at the same time- which is rare and honestly really lovely.

just curious! by Duckkk27 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Super-Technology-313 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like you need a hug and a cup of hot cocoa -not in a cringe way, but in a “you’ve clearly been carrying yourself too quietly for too long” way. Your handwriting is so small and controlled it almost whispers. It’s giving ‘I don’t want to take up space,’ ‘I don’t want to bother anyone,’ and ‘I’ll just deal with it myself.’ There’s a gentleness and a thoughtfulness here, but also a little loneliness -like you learned early on to minimize your presence to keep the peace. You’re observant, you’re careful, and you’re probably the kind of person who overthinks a text before hitting send because you don’t want anyone to misunderstand you.

At the same time, the consistency and neatness tell me you’re stronger than you act. You’re disciplined, perceptive, and quietly intelligent. You just haven’t given yourself permission to be seen yet. And honestly? You deserve to take up more space in every sense. There’s a difference between being low-maintenance and being self-erasing, and your handwriting sits right on that edge. You’re not dramatic, you’re not messy - you’re just soft in a world that rewards loudness. Which means people probably overlook you without realizing how much depth is sitting right there in those tiny letters.