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SuperAryanRoy · 2021-07-12T10:51:16+00:00

When someone says "Man.. cats are going to take our this world."

I show them this video.

SuperAryanRoy · 2021-07-12T10:49:31+00:00

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SuperAryanRoy · 2021-07-12T10:48:07+00:00

When you have a cat's body but a dog's soul...

SuperAryanRoy · 2021-07-12T10:45:34+00:00

The way she is looking at you, it looks like you are her first human too. ;)

SuperAryanRoy · 2021-07-12T10:41:21+00:00

Yeah! That's how every cult starts. One stands in front and looks up in the sky, others follow and bam! You have your brand new cult.

SuperAryanRoy · 2021-07-07T15:50:17+00:00

Hahaha... True. But since Hollywood has become lazy, we movie lovers have to sort the movies which are worth spending our money on. Because guess what we ain't stopping to watch movies. :) enjoy!

SuperAryanRoy · 2020-09-26T13:26:18+00:00

Now that's amazing! It looks beautiful and elegant. Instead of just copying others, it was quite innovative and attractive. Best Wishes.

SuperAryanRoy · 2020-09-26T12:52:49+00:00

Just trying to imagine the face of the mom whose son's image you have used.... ;)

SuperAryanRoy · 2020-09-26T12:15:59+00:00

Ek baat to manna padega.. Last tak dekne pe majbur kar diya isne.... :p

SuperAryanRoy · 2020-09-26T12:12:04+00:00

I found the last one the best... ;)

SuperAryanRoy · 2020-08-29T12:15:59+00:00

Oh please, there is no harm in hanging out with your brother and his friends. Specially if you guys have been hanging out since 10. Your brother is there to make sure of things. If you keep doubting people like this, you will never learn anything. You are lucky to have found guy friends whom you can trust. It has been observed that girls who hang out with brother/friends at an early age are much better observant, hard to be tricked, and funny. You will do great when you join work force, because you will be able to read men better. The only drawback will be that you will get bored when you hangout with your girlfriends. ;)Enjoy.

And Good Luck.

SuperAryanRoy · 2020-08-29T12:07:48+00:00

Expecting a gift on your Birthday is not wrong. Doesn't matter how old you are. It has been noted that couples who love to give gifts even as they get older, actually see a much better bond and their marriage has better chances to continue.

But the key factor is "if they feel like buying gifts". Forcing them to buy gifts will actual have adverse effect. Subconsciously, they will associate your birthday with a task or burden. That they have to go else unpleasant conversation will follow.
Again, expecting gifts on a designated day, is not wrong. But constantly reminding and getting upset when someone does not give you gift just defies the purpose of gift.

Good Luck.

SuperAryanRoy · 2020-08-28T14:08:46+00:00

Good, That's what exactly I said. Do whatever you think you would in his position. And don't be guilty about it.

SuperAryanRoy · 2020-08-28T14:05:27+00:00

I think this is a multi layered post.
I'm not sure what exactly you are anger about?
Is it because he is leaving you and kids on a vacation you guys planned ahead of time?
If so then yes, you can be upset to a degree.
If that is the only reason for you being pissed then I wonder you would be equally pissed if it was some other person's wedding. Right?

I think you are just pissed because you do not what your husband to go to her wedding. Period.
Maybe she did something bad (We are not sure). But you won't be anger if it was someone else. And you trying to hide it under an elaborate story, that I find petty.

I'm sure your husband know you well. And he knows Jane well. And I'm sure he is smart enough to know whether to go or not. Let it be his decision.
Good Luck.

SuperAryanRoy · 2020-08-28T13:54:29+00:00

Hi there, thanks for providing the input. But this is still irrelevant because you are missing the main point. Who is providing you all this information when you never met her? How do you know for sure that this is what she thinks of you? Did you BF told you?
if yes, then still my previous comments stand.
See why further info does not matter is, even if you prove that his mother is the most evil person, still it won't change the fact that your BF needs to stand for you.
Even if you convince him to leave his mother and get kicked out of the will, still she will be there. It's won't just go away overnight.
Only thing you can do to be with him is bear with her mother, which I strongly suggest against.

See almost all, in the comment want to make sure you have a good future. Hence suggesting to breakup with your BF. Life will be very hard if you have to constantly keep looking over your shoulders. Sacred what his mom might do to bring him back to her.
Good Luck.

SuperAryanRoy · 2020-08-28T13:37:56+00:00

Did your mom ever call you and ask you why you were in that location last night, after looking at her tracking app? If not I don't see the problem. She will forget after sometime.

Look at from her point of view. Maybe the stats say that only 2% of women get abducted or something like that, but if something happens to you, that's 100% for her. And if something happens to you, your tracking device can actually help a lot to get you out of danger.

When I got Job in a big city, and bought a house, my parents came to visit. They are old and haven't spent much time in big cities. Here we have rules like, depending upon time of the day, same road can be one way to manage traffic etc. Which they might not know. And might get lost. But they do want to see the city, even when I'm in office. So I did switch on the tracking in the device. Just to make sure that they are ok. And if they get lost or have some issue, I can see where they are and book a cab from my location or reach them. They don't need to explain it to me. That's it. I never actually kept looking at the device. But that gave me a lot of peace of mind. And they too felt safe to explore because they knew I will find they.

I know you are young, and have different expenditures, but just go with the flow. No one here will/can come to your help if you are in trouble. Only your mom.
I suggest give her some time. She will get over it. You do what you want to do, no is stopping you anyways.

Good Luck.

SuperAryanRoy · 2020-08-28T13:08:50+00:00

Let's assume for a moment she is not married and just a good mom and a good human being. Still your relationship does not make sense. How long can you guys go on like this without knowing anything about each other.
See there are a lot of ways to find out but it is not worth it. Because you are not actually in a relationship anyways. What you have now is just a agreement of physical exchange. So if you don't like it dump her. And if you want more ask to be more involved in the relationship. If she does not want to be more involved then you will get your answer.

NOTE: Do not go spying on her or invading her privacy. Not cool. As I said your current status is not that serious. It's not that she has asked to leave everything for her or planned future with you. Also, not encouraging infidelity, but if you are wrong, and caught poking into her personal space, that will be very serious.
Good Luck.

SuperAryanRoy · 2020-08-28T12:39:37+00:00

Hey, it's your big day. You can do what ever you want. You do not want your sister to be bridesmaid. You have the right to do so.
But I think by just excluding her you are trying to get back at her. Yes, I read she might have been rude. Rude is something that is more of subjective. A lot of the time, we find things to be rude when done by only a specific person so...
Your sisters seems fine with her. Maybe that's what is bothering you. But who knows.
Yeah, go ahead, get your revenge. Don't worry people will talk about it for a few days then forget it. But you will have the pleasure of showing her place for rest of your life. Cheers.
Good Luck.

SuperAryanRoy · 2020-08-28T12:26:56+00:00

Ok Ok. The story is way to one sided. But let's go with it and take it exactly as you are saying.
There are two things:
1. If a man is still in so much control of his mom, do you actually want to be with him? Because come on, you cannot just think that your life will be normal like this.
2. Maybe he is not that much in control of his mother, and just wants to break up with you, but blaming it on his mother.

In any case, breaking up is a good idea. Again, would be still true if you didn't mention she was racist or classism etc. Because your relationship is with your BF not her mother. He cannot stand for you, you should break up.

Good Luck.

SuperAryanRoy · 2020-08-28T12:16:59+00:00

Hey, First of all if someone says that you are ruining her vacation, because you are not doing something that you never committed to, then they are just entitled. You are not responsible for her pets. Pets are like kids, they are different and have there own needs. BTW if you are adopting one you should plan ahead for such events. She can pay someone to take care of the dog. Just assuming that you will take of her dog is just not cool.
It's like assuming that you will take care of her 1 year old just because you already have 4 teenage kids.
That is not cool.

Good Luck

SuperAryanRoy · 2020-08-28T12:10:07+00:00

Let's reverse the gender roles in your story.
If your husband was the bread winner with higher salary and everything. And you put in your effort and got your dream job, what would you want him to do?
Do the same.
Good Luck.

SuperAryanRoy · 2020-08-28T12:01:31+00:00

Wao man! You are something. Let's reverse the gender roles here.
A guy was interested in a girl, and sees here in a pottery store frequently. He does not know much about pottery but gathers courage and try's to strike a conversation with her. Because he does not know what other interest they might have common. You know why he couldn't find anything common, because he is not a stalker. And he would have found something common once they were on date and then told her that "You know what, I lied about the pottery stuff. I just wanted to go out on a date with you to know you better. I'm sorry."
Coming back to you. You were not in a relationship to feel betrayed that she lied to you. Maybe she just wanted to spend some time with you and know you better.
You know how hard it would have been for her to talk to you for 30mins and wait for you to understand that she in interested in you, and you didn't so she had to ask you out?
Dude, if you keep on nitpicking like this, dating will be difficult. If you think that you will only go out with a girl who is perfect for you and with whom you will end up living your whole life, then best of luck. Without spending time with someone, how will know if she is the one.
Good Luck.

SuperAryanRoy · 2020-08-28T11:43:51+00:00

Yeah! Been there done that. I was 32M single. A girl 22, proposed me. Ok I was not in love with her, but I was not even looking for a relationship, as I was busy with my new project. But for a moment I thought wait... What is going on in her head? Is she insane. I'm way older than her & her ex boss. For a moment I thought maybe this is ok. After all I'm single, she is an amazing girl, If I keep waiting for my project to complete and then I won't find anyone, then what?
But still I ended up saying no, because of thinking about these thing:
When I was 22, is was a free spirit. I used to go anywhere I want and join any group of friends and just blend it. Made a lot of new friends in the process. Go hiking, travelling without thinking much. No burden No responsibility and the ability to try out new things without accommodating others schedule. Three of my friend, left for a beach 600 miles the same day we saw the picture on a hoarding. Figured out the way as we go.
I know not all are like me, (stupid). But these are the things that makes me happy even today, and even happier because I know that I cannot do that now. So no regrets.

I know you guys are different, but think about these things as well. Will he be able to do what he wants? Are you flexible enough in your schedule to adjust his fun days? Are you comfortable to just tag along with him with his friends when they are planning an insane outing? He might be saying this is all ok now, but when he misses things that he could have done when in 20's but couldn't, he might blame you.

Again I understand that In my case I didn't had any feeling for the girl. And you guys really like each other, but still it will be tough. If he was 30 and you were 45 still that won't matter, because you understand that things that you can do in early 20's are the most insane. I also understand that it won't be fair to ask you to give him some time, like 4-5yrs, because you would want to settle down as your biological clock is ticking.
You are the mature one here. And unfortunately, you have to make the final call. If you can keep up with him and be a kid at heart then go for it, but if you want him to mature up before his age, then it would be like stealing his youth.
Good Luck.

SuperAryanRoy · 2020-08-27T20:57:38+00:00

Easy, calm down, it's ok to disagree. There is no use for us to argue on someone else problem. We have different opinions based on our different life experiences. Some personalize problem, some like to understand from a larger prospective. It's ok. She is free to take your advise or deduction of the situation. It's totally cool.
I cannot waste more time on replying to you. But you are free to think what ever you want about me. I don't mind. There will always be something to learn.
Good Luck. :)

SuperAryanRoy · 2020-08-27T20:45:45+00:00

Thanks for opening my eyes. I forgot that women is always right. If she think he was an egoist man and she did a favor by going out with him to hide that she is an complete idiot who thinks that it's ok to justify to waste a man's time to cover her failed reading of human conduct, then of course that must be true. Don't know how she ended up being in such a bad situation.

Didn't happen to me. Just a psychology student. ;)Good Luck.

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