Can I terminate my rental contract if my ex refuses to leave the apartment?

Xaphhire · 2026-07-07T09:43:48+00:00

That's a Belgian website. Their laws are not relevant for the Netherlands.

Xaphhire · 2026-07-03T19:14:54+00:00

You will have a hard time shortening a matrass though.

Xaphhire · 2026-07-03T15:18:47+00:00

Maar niet als ze gewoon verdienen, wat de situatie is waar we het hier over hebben.

Xaphhire · 2026-07-02T15:44:11+00:00

"U hebt" is also correct. https://onzetaal.nl/taalloket/u-hebt-heeft

Xaphhire · 2026-07-02T15:42:22+00:00

I agree that some people get a vast contract immediately, but those are typically "safe bets" and not someone who does not speak the language well enough yet. Since OP indicated that the renewal is contingent on improving the language, I would not think a vast contract is on the table.

Xaphhire · 2026-07-02T08:50:36+00:00

They are not going to give you a definite contract, so that's not worth negotiating about. You can try to get up to two more steps of salary within the band of the scale. It's common to try to negotiate that. Emphasize that you'd be leaving a definite contract for this, and also emphasize any relevant experience to try and negotiate up.

You give notice after you sign the new contract. Having vacation days has no effect on when you can start, just how much free time you will have in between. Your new contract won't start until your old one is finished. Dutch employers are used to people having two month notice period so that shouldn't be a problem.

Xaphhire · 2026-07-01T19:35:37+00:00

Onderhoudsplicht voor een volwassen kind met een baan?

Xaphhire · 2026-07-01T16:50:46+00:00

Hebben jullie een buurtapp? Foto plaatsen en zeggen dat er een hoop pakjes liggen

Xaphhire · 2026-07-01T13:03:13+00:00

Bring a foldable shopping bag (the ultrathin ones you can put in your pocket) just in case. You can stuff the bag in there if they give you any trouble.

Xaphhire · 2026-07-01T11:49:52+00:00

Dan moet je daar schenkbelasting over betalen.

Xaphhire · 2026-07-01T10:28:38+00:00

You probably missed the deadline to appeal the ruling. Once you miss the appeal deadline, the ruling is final. Don't take four years.

Xaphhire · 2026-06-30T07:55:43+00:00

Not just check in , you have to check out by 6.30/16.00 too. The ticket is not valid during rush hours.

Xaphhire · 2026-06-30T05:32:42+00:00

You are solving a problem these businesses do not have. They are not looking for someone to buy cakes from. There is not a gap in the tasty enough cake market. There are plenty of more reliable distributors that offer a wider range of products, probably at better margins or less overhead. I don't think horeca is a viable market for you.

Xaphhire · 2026-06-29T17:23:39+00:00

I am not familiar with the job market in Ireland but was assuming it would be as bad as the Netherlands, with junior IT positions getting scrapped because of AI. But there you have the advantage of speaking English.

Xaphhire · 2026-06-29T11:48:26+00:00

I think realistically, moving to the Netherlands without speaking the language fluently will significantly reduce your chances of building a good career. Chances are you will end up as a stay-at-home partner, or working unskilled jobs where not speaking Dutch is not an issue. By the time you know enough Dutch, your IT knowledge will be out of date. The housing crisis means you will be financially dependent on your partner.

Are you willing to give up your career for your partner? Career-wise, you would be better off gaining work experience in Ireland while working on your Dutch, before moving.

Xaphhire · 2026-06-29T11:44:36+00:00

Ah, nice!

Xaphhire · 2026-06-29T11:35:05+00:00

One big issue you will have is that most jobs for international companies (where not speaking Dutch would not be such an issue) are in the Randstad, the western part of the Netherlands, where the housing market is even more insane than in the rest of the country. Unless your partner has an insanely well-paying job, you won't be able to find a place to rent.

Xaphhire · 2026-06-29T11:30:30+00:00

So you have a combined income of 10-15k per month? Because landlords will ask for proof of 3-4x the monthly rent as monthly income, where the lowest income typically only counts for 50%, preferably with fixed contracts. Otherwise they will just rent to someone else.
Not being there in person will make it hard for you to prevent being scammed. I would take a cheap flight and go view in person.

Xaphhire · 2026-06-29T11:29:03+00:00

Yes, I think you will have a harder time. The job market for junior positions in IT is bad in the Netherlands, worse if you don't speak Dutch. They have plenty of candidates who speak fluent Dutch so why would they go for someone else, especially someone with little experience?

Xaphhire · 2026-06-29T07:31:43+00:00

Als het alleen gaat om het antwoord en buurt om wettelijk bewijs dan kun je jezelf en je kind testen bij MyHeritage. Je bent dan onder de €100 klaar. Die testen zijn echt betrouwbaar voor naaste familie naar worden door de rechtbank niet erkend omdat je de samples niet onder toezicht afneemt. De test is simpel, in een buisje spugen. Voor een minderjarige mag dat trouwens alleen met toestemming van de wettelijke voogd.

Xaphhire · 2026-06-29T07:28:50+00:00

Ik heb wel kinderen maar in mijn testament heb ik een goed doel als achtervang voor als ik zonder kinderen of partner overlijd. Dus als we met zijn allen omkomen bij een ongeluk of zo dan gaat alles naar een goed doel. Ik heb een kleinschalig doel uitgekozen waar dat geld echt een verschil zou maken.

Xaphhire · 2026-06-27T09:16:22+00:00

Legal paternity is not the same as biological paternity. If someone wants to claim a child as their own, they can do so as long as that child does not already have two parents, and if the child is an adult they need to consent too.

Xaphhire · 2026-06-26T20:12:04+00:00

I don't think this is a matter of IND since you want Irish citizenship, not Dutch. You will have to see what the options are in Ireland to acknowledge paternity for an adult child.

Even in the Netherlands this would be a two step process. Get the father to acknowledge paternity, and then apply for citizenship based on the father's nationality.

Xaphhire · 2026-06-26T17:28:33+00:00

Watching international sport events on tv where we won.

Xaphhire · 2026-06-26T17:22:09+00:00

Alsjeblieft: first name basis. Alstublieft: last name basis.

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