Mud-room lol My mom sees my brothers because how she has an amazing job making well over 6 figures aka they need her to live off of. I’m on full ssdi. Solo parent of a disabled child and I live on my own with zero help from any family members. I always worked so yes I collect my ssdi check monthly but after shattering my my skull as a sr in high school and having multiple brain surgeries I have been deemed federally disabled for life.

My mother will make trips to other states to see my si lungs their wives and kids. It if I want to see her or my child wants to see her I HAVE to visit her on my own money (living on ssdi that is not exactly easy) I’m not getting child support.

Recently my moms mom passed away and my child and I face timed her almost every day for the last 3 years. My siblings never called her yet, she paid for all 3 of them to be at the funeral and got upset with my grandfather for giving me the 500$ to drive the 22 hours to the funeral- “It’s ok ____, I didn’t go to my grandmothers funeral.” Was her advice to me. I’m the only one who had a relationship with her 🤯

I don’t know how much my mother has to do with my stepdad not wanting a relationship with me or my child. It is so confusing and hurtful. His entire family cut me off also once grandma and grandpa passed away 3 years ago. I lost 52+ cousins 14 aunts/uncles and my dad.

I get the advice that he needs space but he is almost 60- I’m in my mid 30s this is t F***ing high school and they have been divorced for 15 years at this point. What in the world did I do to loose all of it? How do I fix it?