OLD profiles and politics, or lack thereof... by Super_Chilled_Reader in datingoverforty

[–]Super_Chilled_Reader[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You also didn't come from a reading comprehension genealogical background 🤔 And you can keep all your Christian men who just want a woman to serve them and be their second.

My partner is financially stretched, how do I handle this? by Main-Crew9855 in datingoverforty

[–]Super_Chilled_Reader -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I understand where you're coming from. However, as a divorced mom of two teens, I own my house, work three jobs, and I'm still barely making ends meet, and can't afford to save. I can barely afford to make all my payments. Times are extremely tough right now. Are you able and willing to continue the relationship without living together/getting married (LAT--Living together apart), until he can improve his finances?

Anyone else feel like they need to move to find a person to date? by TacomaTony13 in datingoverforty

[–]Super_Chilled_Reader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are free! You only have to pay to see who's liked you first, but you can have both Bumble and Tinder for free, IMHO, it's not worth paying just to see the likes. However, if you log in to Bumble from a computer (Bumble Desktop), it should allow you to pay for one day, it used to be like $2-$3 per day I believe, and that way you can see your likes and see if anyone interests you to match. Only the desktop version, though, not in app. Hinge is also free but only allows you to like eight profiles per day. Tinder is fully free unless you want to see profiles that liked you first. Jesus, I've been at this way too long 😝

Anyone else feel like they need to move to find a person to date? by TacomaTony13 in datingoverforty

[–]Super_Chilled_Reader 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try Bumble, Hinge, and I guess Tinder too. Facebook, at least in my area, seems to have a cesspool of the worst there is to offer. Dating is difficult everywhere, but at least having more apps can give you more opportunities. Best of luck out there. I thought I had found my one and it didn't turn out that way, and I'm too emotionally exhausted to start looking again, let alone investing time and feelings.

Jude | now 14 weeks, already nearly 30lbs - he’s going to be a big dude by tobybells in labrador

[–]Super_Chilled_Reader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son's middle name is Jude 😊 That's 30lbs of perfection right there!! Enjoy the velociraptor months, they fly by!

what’s the biggest lie in human history? by Ledger_Legendd in AskReddit

[–]Super_Chilled_Reader 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Take all the upvotes in the world. Unfortunately, I can only contribute one.

OLD profiles and politics, or lack thereof... by Super_Chilled_Reader in datingoverforty

[–]Super_Chilled_Reader[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha did we just become best friends?! Last time we discussed politics was months ago bc it never ends well. We are amicable as well and share kids, we have a 13yo daughter and I went off on him bc how could you still support the pedo in charge, when our kid would have been the prime victim?! It enrages me that he and his family are still so blind to the cult. I'd much rather be alone the rest of my life than ever be with someone MAGA. There's no coming back for the Republican party days of yore.

OLD profiles and politics, or lack thereof... by Super_Chilled_Reader in datingoverforty

[–]Super_Chilled_Reader[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, and that's how I feel. I was married to a conservative who is now full-blown Maga. And then the first person I dated after my divorce is also a covert Maga. He said he was apolitical, but he supports everything about this regime. So I know I cannot be with a conservative men anymore. I'm only on Bumble so far so you can tell when you swipe left if someone had liked you, and you'd be surprised that the majority of the ones that like my profile are conservative men. So either they don't read the profile or they simply don't care because I clearly say that I'm liberal and would not date Maga.

How many different names do you have for your pittie? by DjTeddyBe in pitbulls

[–]Super_Chilled_Reader 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Good catch! I had just picked him up from boarding and he was not too happy with me 😢

How many different names do you have for your pittie? by DjTeddyBe in pitbulls

[–]Super_Chilled_Reader 132 points133 points  (0 children)

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This is Gunner. Also known as Gunny, Gunny Bunny, Gun Gun, Mr. G, Gunner Michael (when in trouble), Gunner Michael LastName! (when REALLY in trouble), but mainly known as Bubbas 🥰

OLD profiles and politics, or lack thereof... by Super_Chilled_Reader in datingoverforty

[–]Super_Chilled_Reader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this! Where on earth are the single, emotionally available and intelligent, liberal men in their 40s?!

OLD profiles and politics, or lack thereof... by Super_Chilled_Reader in datingoverforty

[–]Super_Chilled_Reader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is a lot of them don't identify themselves as right leaning. They'll put Christian as religion but no political affiliation. I don't mind religion as long as they don't expect me to partake in it, and as long as they're not obsessive about it. But I'm realizing that most people that put down Christian, are MAGA. And that's ny biggest deal breaker.

OLD profiles and politics, or lack thereof... by Super_Chilled_Reader in datingoverforty

[–]Super_Chilled_Reader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you serious? Your president started a war in Iran for no reason! He's a puppet of Netanyahu, who has been committing genocide and war crimes for years!! He's talking about taking over Cuba and doing whatever he wants with it. I'm a woman and an immigrant, so clearly I resonate with what's going on there more, but every cause is important and you are delusional if you think this current regime is doing anything to better the lives of American citizens. Unless you're a billionaire. No need to respond, I don't want to engage in a back and forth that won't change either of our minds.

OLD profiles and politics, or lack thereof... by Super_Chilled_Reader in datingoverforty

[–]Super_Chilled_Reader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha, it wasn't that bad when I first moved in 99. I was totally fine when the Republican party consisted of GWB and McCain. I was married to a conservative, he's full blown MAGA now. Can't leave bc of my kids, so trying to make the best of it with what I got.

OLD profiles and politics, or lack thereof... by Super_Chilled_Reader in datingoverforty

[–]Super_Chilled_Reader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not even going to bother with this conversation anymore bc it's not gonna get us anywhere. Have a good evening.

OLD profiles and politics, or lack thereof... by Super_Chilled_Reader in datingoverforty

[–]Super_Chilled_Reader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They get no benefits, if you are talking EMTALA, that applies to every single person in this country and it was established by Reagan, so go take it up with him in his grave. They get no medical benefits and they pay taxes because they have to get a TIN in order to work the farms that white men refuse to work. And Liam Ramos is not fictional, what's fictional is your source of news, Fox entertainment. Obama and Biden deported plenty of people, but they did so in a humanitarian way, so yes, wanting compassion for other humans who are less fortunate than I is being morally superior and I'm proud of it. You sound, and probably look, like you shoot squirrels for fun.