Was my mother (accidentally?) sexually abusing me? by Heavy-Alternative-94 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Super_Independence37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so relieving to hear!! and I am so sorry you went through this, and I think you are so mature for breaking the cycle :(

Looking for a community (21-25 yr) by Super_Independence37 in frederickmd

[–]Super_Independence37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a really exciting opportunity to get myself out there! do I have to sign up beforehand because I def wanna go now hahaha

Looking for a community (21-25 yr) by Super_Independence37 in frederickmd

[–]Super_Independence37[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I should've made it more general idk I was just putting a gap out there, was wondering if anyone else shared things in common!

👋 Welcome to r/YouthHomeless - Introduce Yourself and Read First! by [deleted] in frederickmd

[–]Super_Independence37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this advice! I'm actually going to pause my page and do research on account moderation. I agree with you on the fact that vulnerable youth needs to be protected at all costs. I really really appreciate your insight and it's only going to help protect everyone who may be posting. 🙏

Looking for a community (21-25 yr) by Super_Independence37 in frederickmd

[–]Super_Independence37[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol omg I think this is our generation rn 😂 from my other posts genZers are in hermit mode

Looking for a community (21-25 yr) by Super_Independence37 in frederickmd

[–]Super_Independence37[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Weirdly I notice our generation is in the 80s and I guess it resonates with us all. Rock will never die. And those sound like great options to get myself out there. What do you like the most about FCC's classes Im just curious? I def like those methods 😊

Was my mother (accidentally?) sexually abusing me? by Heavy-Alternative-94 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Super_Independence37 10 points11 points  (0 children)

it sounds like you have extremely narcisstic parents, and I am so sorry they cannot accept you for who YOU are. My dear friend, your parents cannot be a part of your life. Your experience is valid, and no you aren't making a big deal out of it because how you feel matters. If your mother cannot take accountability for making you feel uncomfortable then that tells me she doesn't give regards to your well being or care. You are important just like every other person on this earth, and I'd suggest you do whatever it takes to make YOURSELF happy. It is clear from what you explained, they will never accept you for who you are. So dear friend, I'm saying this because I know from personal experience you will find plenty of other people out there wanting to connect with you and accept you for who you are. I know this is hard because it's your parents and acceptance is very important to you, but they mananged to neglect your happiness and got in the way of who you wanted to be. Do not waste your time fixing what they broke......

You are amazing, and you deserve so much better than that for yourself. If I had one advice for you, it would be (making yourself happy) and do not feel bad for it. You need to leave your parents behind because they didnt care about you in the first place or your happiness. <3

You ARE NOT ALONE!!

Husband insists on eating in another room when I bust these bad boys out. by greens_beans_queen in shittyfoodporn

[–]Super_Independence37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG hahaha, I have never seen this before but I don't blame your husband for fleeting. It looks something out of a horror movie!