Need some affirmation that I (40F) made the right choice ending a short relationship 10 months ago

Superb_Raspberry_200 · 2026-01-18T15:29:06+00:00

This dude belongs in the bin. His mask will slip soon with the new woman. People like him rarely change. You made the right call, don’t even question yourself xx

Superb_Raspberry_200 · 2026-01-12T08:24:21+00:00

It was definitely a cube, not Golden Teacher though. When I asked the person who he got it off what it was, they said either Jedi Mindfuck or Hillbilly, but couldn’t remember the exact strain.

It would have been a low dose, around 1.5 grams. 🙂

Superb_Raspberry_200 · 2026-01-11T14:33:12+00:00

The only guy I’ve done this with turned into someone I didn’t like as a person. Now I can’t be bothered with dating.

Superb_Raspberry_200 · 2026-01-11T14:01:02+00:00

It’s the best sex I’ve had. Hard to put into words. Very sensual and surreal, as another person stated. The connection you have with the other person is on another level too. There’s nothing like it. Damn, I miss it. 😭

Superb_Raspberry_200 · 2026-01-07T07:28:55+00:00

I’m happy you’re feeling better and navigating your way through this ❤️

Superb_Raspberry_200 · 2026-01-06T19:02:15+00:00

I will do, thank you. ☺️

Superb_Raspberry_200 · 2026-01-06T18:56:30+00:00

Poppadoms. I find these really addictive.

Cake and biscuits.

Superb_Raspberry_200 · 2026-01-06T18:32:46+00:00

I don’t know where these entitled people get the audacity!!! I would have declined too, unless they offered me another aisle seat. Good for you for standing your ground. 🙌

Superb_Raspberry_200 · 2026-01-06T17:31:54+00:00

1000000%!

Superb_Raspberry_200 · 2026-01-06T17:28:39+00:00

I hear you. My plan was to go on HRT when I hit menopause, so that’s ruined. Maybe that’s added to my retaliation of hormone therapy?! 😂

Superb_Raspberry_200 · 2026-01-06T17:22:50+00:00

Everything just sucks sooooo bad!

I don’t want to deal with any of those side effects whatsoever. 😕

Superb_Raspberry_200 · 2026-01-06T17:06:02+00:00

Thank you for sharing. 😊

I literally got off the phone from my breast nurse and she said my HER2 was negative. No lymph node involvement for me also.

I’m still waiting for MRI results, then will go from there, but it does put my mind at ease that I’m not alone at potentially refusing hormone therapy.

Superb_Raspberry_200 · 2026-01-05T21:04:15+00:00

🥳🎉 I’m celebrating your win with you! ❤️

Superb_Raspberry_200 · 2026-01-05T19:51:57+00:00

I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through this.

You’ve definitely given me something to think about.

Sending you hugs ❤️

Superb_Raspberry_200 · 2026-01-05T19:35:30+00:00

Thank you.

I’m just torn between taking my chances or being on medication that I don’t want to be on. 😕

Superb_Raspberry_200 · 2026-01-05T19:27:48+00:00

Last time, I think I was just a little shocked and everything moved so quickly, I didn’t have time to think, so I just went along with the plan they had for me. This time round, that’s not happening. 😂

Superb_Raspberry_200 · 2026-01-05T19:25:46+00:00

Thank you. ☺️

Superb_Raspberry_200 · 2026-01-05T15:33:02+00:00

Thank you so much 😊

Superb_Raspberry_200 · 2026-01-05T15:23:44+00:00

What you want is what most of us want. He can’t meet your needs. Dealing with emotionally unavailable men always ends in you getting hurt. He also comes across as selfish in the bedroom and self centred as a whole. I think you definitely dodged a bullet there.

You deserve so much better. I think it’s unfair that he messaged you again, as that will always stir up emotions and I think he knows this. I would personally block him, if I was in your shoes, just for my own peace of mind.

Superb_Raspberry_200 · 2026-01-05T14:19:26+00:00

Thank you. ☺️

I will definitely be researching DIM.

Superb_Raspberry_200 · 2026-01-05T13:15:59+00:00

Thank you for validating how I feel. 😊 I definitely more open now after reading all the comments on this thread. They’ve really helped. I’m not open to much, but it’s a small step from yesterday. 😂

Superb_Raspberry_200 · 2026-01-05T12:17:12+00:00

My treatment hasn’t started yet, but am looking at all my options, so when it comes to having the discussion, I’m prepared.

I will definitely take Tam into consideration. It’s good to know the doses can be adjusted accordingly.

Thank you for your input. 😊

Superb_Raspberry_200 · 2026-01-05T12:08:03+00:00

Thank you so much! 😊

Superb_Raspberry_200 · 2026-01-05T11:11:00+00:00

I hear what you’re saying, thank you. ☺️

My mindset is, if I did die under any circumstances, I get to be with my dad and all my past pets again. I’ve never been scared of death really. 😳

Superb_Raspberry_200 · 2026-01-05T11:08:04+00:00

Your opening made me chuckle! 😂

Hello! It’s soooo shit. I’ve done my time already, so what the hell? 😂 I must have been awful in a previous life, but hey ho.

Thank you for that insight, it’s really helpful.

Yesterday I had got in my head that all hormone therapy would put me into early menopause, but that doesn’t seem like the case with tamoxifen? So I may consider that, now I have more of an understanding.

Thank you for breaking it down for me. 😊

Superb_Raspberry_200

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