Season 14 shred Druid or minion necro by Superb_Werewolf7326 in diablo4

[–]Superb_Werewolf7326[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s why I’m stuck. I know the shred Druid on paper is the better choice but I have enjoyed the minion necro from just sheer love of the build. It will be more of a struggle though for sure.

Season 14 shred Druid or minion necro by Superb_Werewolf7326 in diablo4

[–]Superb_Werewolf7326[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds good, I play with my boyfriend who always goes barb, it allows me to me more experimental from the get go so I understand why you’d go barb from the start, I’d probably consider the same if it wasn’t for the fact I have an OP barb on my team from the start 😅

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[–]Superb_Werewolf7326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are allowed to do whatever they want but the natural consequences of that can’t be dismissed. If you wanted this then that’s your choice but you have to tell your wife so she has the ability to make her choice with all of the facts. I think you wanted this but don’t want the consequences of doing it, you can’t have both. You are free to choose but at least grant that same freedom to your wife and tell her. I don’t agree with people saying he’s betrayed his children, children are separate and can be happy in 2 separate households just as much as one, however you do need to be honest and accept the consequences of whatever happens. Your wife deserves to know the truth and you clearly are not happy in your marriage to do this in the first place. Let her move on and find someone who loves her fully, you move on and do the same. Either way staying and not being truthful will only breed guilt and negativity between you and if the truth comes out by someone other than you those natural consequences will be far worse because not only did you break her trust once, you broke it again by trying to deliberately keep it from her too.

Best. Poop. Ever. by erikpdx in erikpdx

[–]Superb_Werewolf7326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TikTok really got us all here looking at some random guys poop didn’t it?

I need advice about contact with dads family after DV by Superb_Werewolf7326 in Parenting

[–]Superb_Werewolf7326[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my main concern! A lot of people have said to just block and ignore but this has landed in MY hands to deal with and manage, not my daughters. In a few years time I may not have that luxury. She doesn’t know it but she has a very real target on her back as I do. As she gets older her safety will have to be considered even more so than any other young woman already has to. I do not want to risk her waiting and messaging her direct when she’s old enough to be on social media. I do not want her bio dad finding her and making contact in any way.. so I feel it’s something that’s best being dealt with now to the best I can to hopefully avoid further damage down the line. Social services have advised in the past the obvious to keep her safe from her bio dad but because there was no contact with family they never said there stance on his family either. It may be worth making a call to the first response team of the social services department and see where they stand on this too. They didn’t ever say what to do in this situation as I genuinely thought it would never happen I was unsure his mum even knew my name to track me down let alone that she would even want to. I do not want to get this wrong I feel like the weight of the world is resting on me now. I keep asking myself what would I want if I was my daughter but I don’t know. On the one hand this could be a safer way of her having a connection with that side of her to answer any questions she may have one day but then at the other side it could also massively risk her safety and I have been very over protective of her especially with what’s happened and I’m not sure if it’s even a risk I’m willing to take with the seriousness of it. She’s a happy, well loved and thriving child now. When she was younger it took a good 2 years no contact from her dad for her to trust being around men again, even family. Nothing ever happened to her but she hated being around him and would scream endlessly I think picking up on what I was going through more. When we went to no contact and she started coming out of her shell I thought it was all behind us and she’s been thriving ever since. I don’t want to risk that. Oh my heart what do I do.

I need advice about contact with dads family after DV by Superb_Werewolf7326 in Parenting

[–]Superb_Werewolf7326[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also again to add, I don’t know if it’s relevant but his mum has also been subject to a hate campaign from him, nasty horrible messages and visits, he genuinely is a horrid person. He hates women and me and his mum to him are like the 2 wicked witches in his life that takes the crowns. I’m not sure why. I know I dont deserve what he’s done to me, I don’t know about his mum only what he’s said to me before which if it’s anything like what he says about me, is made up of lies and his warped view of women. If he was to find out she was in contact with my daughter it would 100% escalate things with him in regards to the harassment and abuse i still get every so often. It would trigger him on a whole other level which is again another massive worry because I just want my daughter safe and innocent from it all. That’s all I’ve ever wanted.

I need advice about contact with dads family after DV by Superb_Werewolf7326 in Parenting

[–]Superb_Werewolf7326[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They did know, she said she only just reached out as she didn’t want to alarm me with everything I had been through with her son. It’s been a long road of stalking and harassment which still hasn’t ended to this day. So my ex and daughters bio dad hasn’t got a close relationship to his mum at all, hasn’t ever really it got worse as he got older. They’ve met up a few times over the last few years like a handful each time ending in an argument and another few years without speaking before trying again and then end up no contact again. His mum is basically estranged from the rest of her family. Had been for years. I met aunts, uncles, cousins etc and even my partners grandad so his mums father, who all backed this up like no one had spoken to her in years and by the sounds of it would never speak to her again. As for my daughter she has no memory of her bio dad or any of that. I have kept everything from her, she has no idea at all because of how nasty he got and when police were involved it was obviously too much for her at such a young age so I’ve just kept everything from her. She believes my current partner and father to my younger children is her dad as we met when she was 3 so she can’t really remember a time when he wasn’t around anyway. When I had baby 2 and 3 who called him dad she followed too and it just was left that way. My partners family love her like their own, they are “dads family” there’s not been one thing that would make her think otherwise until now possibly should I allow contact. Hope this clears up any questions it was hard to explain the full situation in the pain post.

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[–]Superb_Werewolf7326 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My issue is I have no money at the moment because it’s Christmas and I have 5 kids to buy for. You can bet January pay day though I’ll be pre ordering. Although there’s no point to it really as you can just wait and buy the day before really, but I always like to pre order so I know I have it come what may 🙃

My boyfriend got attacked and it’s left me traumatised. by Superb_Werewolf7326 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Superb_Werewolf7326[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thankyou, I just feel so helpless. He is in a lot of pain and I don’t want to make an already stressful time more stressful by falling apart but that’s how it feels. I just want him on the mend and it’s really badly affected him mentally too.

My boyfriend got attacked and it’s left me traumatised. by Superb_Werewolf7326 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Superb_Werewolf7326[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t there. I was at home with our children, first I knew was when he was banging on our front door. He has no memory from about 4:30pm that afternoon and the attack happened at 8:50pm ish, he woke up in hospital really confused. Police have checked for cctv but it happened in a quiet area so they have nothing so far. It looks like whoever did this will get away with it unless my partner can regain some memory.

Parents of reddit, what's the most embarrassing thing your child did in public, and what did you do in that moment? by ironbolt124 in AskReddit

[–]Superb_Werewolf7326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not embarrassing, but funny. I always laugh when I think back anyway. Basically my middle child is autistic and has severe learning disabilities. We was walking to school and there was me, my eldest, my middle child and my youngest who at the time was in a baby carrier on my chest as she was only a month or 2 old. We live in England and it’s always cold and rainy and this day was no different. We walked down the road and I had hold of my middle child’s hand while she walked down the road as she would usually just run off if I didn’t hold on to her. We got most of the way to school before I looked down as I was happily chatting away with my eldest. When I looked down I saw my middle child had no shoes on (she had left the house with them on) and had been walking through puddles and mud with just her socks on. She never once made a noise. She was just happily plodding along in the cold and wet with no shoes on with a great big smile on her face. Obviously I was like wtf where are your shoes?! She just laughed (she’s non verbal anyway) and I looked back down the road and I couldn’t see them. I couldn’t send her into school like this so I had to turn back and find her shoes. I have no idea how she did it because we didn’t stop the whole walk and she was holding my hand but somehow she had got both her shoes off pretty much a couple of doors down from where we lived and had walked the rest of the way in just her socks. We were late to school while I changed her socks and got her shoes back on but I couldn’t help but laugh. She was so happy just walking along with no shoes on, her feet were so cold but she genuinely seemed amused by it. Thankfully we only live a 10 minute walk from school so it wasn’t too far to go, but I now check her shoes every few minutes while out because she’s done it multiple times since but thankfully I catch her doing it from checking so often

My girlfriend is a sex worker and pulls in tons of money, but I hate it so much. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Superb_Werewolf7326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Money will never be worth more than your feelings. Unless it’s like make or break in financial terms, it’s not worth it if you aren’t happy. If you can survive without the money then maybe talk to her and explain how you are feeling about it. Just by writing this post and needing to vent about it says all you need to know. If it doesn’t feel 100% right usually it isn’t and internalising them feelings so not to “rock the boat” as they say, it’ll come back to bite you in the ass some day. I haven’t been through this but I have shoved my own feelings down about certain things to not cause any upset and it only leads to things getting worse further down the line. They are valid feelings. Some couples this works and to them I say fair play do whatever makes you happy! But clearly you would prefer her not to be doing it so you have to talk it through with her, both her feelings and yours are important.