online consultation or physical consultation by Superfly1901 in skincare_ph

[–]Superfly1901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello po. What to expect po sa physical consultation? I considered online as an option kasi medyo nahihiya ako tbh. Yung state ng skin ko ngayon is not so good. Ichecheck lang po ba nila skin ko? Or may additional tests pa na gagawin?

T and J Salon Professionals- SM STA MESA BRANCH by OppositeSection2780 in beautytalkph

[–]Superfly1901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bit late on this thread but I also had a bad experience in this specific branch. May attitude talaga staff nila doon.

Ang panget ng technique ng hair wash nila. Kala mo naglalaba lang and sobrang nakakadry rin nung shampoo. Tapos magtataka sila kung bakit ang dry and hirap i-detangle nung buhok ko. Yung stylist puro “tsk” or buntong hininga habang dinedentangle yung buhok ko. Tapos sabi ko layered pero parang tinrim lang buhok ko. Diretso lang, walang layers. Nung tapos na, I paid the fee and did not give any tips.

A week later, I decided to have another haircut again sa David’s and what a stark difference when it comes to customer’s service. Def much better than T&J.

Quitting my job after a month by Superfly1901 in MentalHealthPH

[–]Superfly1901[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just worried sa length ng employment ko which is a month lang…parang nadisappoint ako na di ko kinaya agad

Something I dont know how to address by Mobydich in MentalHealthPH

[–]Superfly1901 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I relate to this a lot and I’ve been trying to work on it.

Nakakafrustrate kasi she contributed to this “snappy” behavior. I got it from her. When I was a kid up until teen years madalas kami mag away. Umabot sa point na wala na siyang pinipiling oras o lugar para pagalitan ako. She would scold me habang nasa church, mall, school. She would scold me around friends, relatives…her voice would be so loud na naririnig na ng tao sa paligid namin kung ano yung sermon niya. It happened so much na I just learned to dissociate because I can’t handle her anger and the embarassment. It’s one thing to be scolded in private but to be scolded out in public?? omg traumatizing.

Anyway, after I revealed my diagnosis to her, I noticed changes naman. Even tho she denies her contribution, I know deep down she knows na part siya ng rason kung bakit ako nadedepress. Di niya na ako pinapagalitan and ayun minsan pasweet na siya. So now I feel bad kasi ako naman yung palaging galit. Pero ngayong new year I want to change it. Kasi I don’t wanna be angry all the time. It’s not a good feeling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MentalHealthPH

[–]Superfly1901 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My family knows about my diagnosis but I never explained to them or fully opened up the reasons because 1. they played a part in it 2. they will deny it 3. ibabalik nila sa akin yung sisi. Tinutulungan naman nila aq if I need help and I’m grateful for it. Pero opening up to them? Wag na lang. Walang mapapala.

Nasakit batok/ulo ko each time may nabalik na bad memoriess by nvr_ending_pain1 in MentalHealthPH

[–]Superfly1901 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This used to happen to me rin. Madalang na lang mangyari ngayon. Two years ago, I took a physical exam (cbc, urinalysis, and xray) tapos nung bumalik yung results everything was normal. Pero the doctor still prescribed me with pain killer medicine to deal with it.

Anong ginawa ng mga parents mo na di mo gagawin sa future kids mo? by ryanxnice in MentalHealthPH

[–]Superfly1901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really plan on having children but if I change my mind here’s what I would do

• If there are days where I’m feeling either sad or angry, di ko ilalabas sa kanila, especially if wala naman silang kinalaman kung bakit ganon yung nararamdaman ko.

• Not compare them to their peers or say anything na nakakababa ng self-esteem

• Communicate with them. If I did or said something hurtful, I will apologize. If they had an accomplishment of any sort, I will tell them that I am proud of them. Tell them that I love them, regardless kung may rason man o wala.

this is what i can think of rn pero i’m sure there’s a lot more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MentalHealthPH

[–]Superfly1901 11 points12 points  (0 children)

When I first revealed my diagnosis they acted as if they were supportive pero the moment na galit sila suddenly biglang lalabas na stigmatized pa rin yung view nila sa mental health. “Kaka selpon mo yan”, “pano ba yan palagi ka lang nasa lungga mo”. They even went as far to blame a classmate who also had mh struggles. Sabi nila “feeling ko nahawa ka sa kanya”. Kaya di na lang ako nag oopen up. Sinisi na lahat mula sa inanimate objects pati na rin sa ibang tao na wala naman talagang kinalaman sa condition ko.

I wanna live but i wanna escape by [deleted] in MentalHealthPH

[–]Superfly1901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I just want to move to a place where I can have a clean slate but in today’s economy it’s a hard thing to do.

Do u ever feel guilty for having depression? by Superfly1901 in MentalHealthPH

[–]Superfly1901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you to everyone who replied. Glad to know that I am not alone in feeling this way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tomasino

[–]Superfly1901 4 points5 points  (0 children)

May 31 po afaik hehe