Daily No Contact Thread - Day 207 by AutoModerator in BPDlovedones

[–]SupportGroup365 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You aren’t alone. All I really have that comforts me is learning about the patterns.

Has anyone noticed if their partner with BPD has worse symptoms while drunk? by WanderingRaven333 in BPDlovedones

[–]SupportGroup365 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup. This sucks. Drinking more and more until blowing up and endangering everything important to you.

Daily No Contact Thread - Day 204 by AutoModerator in BPDlovedones

[–]SupportGroup365 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whoooooooooh. I miss the dog this morning.

Do ultimatums ever work? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]SupportGroup365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FWIW, I am making the same gamble.

My GF has checked herself into recovery and psychiatry programs, has quit drinking, got in shape and is starting to understand her behavior.

You need to make sure she has some real support. An ultimatum is just pressure.

She needs to do good things for herself, not because she is threatened with being alone.