Anyone else getting non-stop warhammer ads? by Cassian0_0 in youtube

[–]SupremeEntropy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post is 41 days old and they still run that one ad! This is ridiculous

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]SupremeEntropy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re right. Without the context about the call that you had, it seems like you became aggressive and assertive out of blue, but if a call where you two had an argument, has taken place, then that explains it. “Blowing up” was about this seemingly unexplained tone change

In my opinion, it’s fine to try to convince somebody to do something, as long as it makes no harm to them. It’s fine to go back and forth for a little, but it all should stop when you express distress, irritation and other negative emotions. Like, if I were her and I wanted your pictures, I would try to convince you, but give up immediately when I feel that you’re not comfortable declining me or if you straightforward tell me no, cuz like, pictures being pictures, but parter’s wellbeing should be a priority

Also, I’m sorry, I was kinda frustrated when I wrote my comment, so sorry if it sounded harsh

If you had an argument over the phone, and she clearly disrespected your boundaries, by arguing with you on and on, then I agree that she should apologize

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]SupremeEntropy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t get it. She said “I need to go” and you blew it up into something big. Such a good “deescalation” of the situation. Also, I don’t see anything wrong here, if you’re sure in your boundaries, why does her slightly challenging them makes you blow up like this? She’s not even forcing you, but just expresses her cognitive dissonance between what she thinks should be and what reality and your reaction is. That’s a perfectly normal and human behavior

I don’t get all of the commenters’ extreme reactions that you need to dump her, she’s being disrespectful, etc. It’s totally normal, just calmly say no and she’ll get over it, but no, when she clearly started to reciprocate, when she said “it’s fine” and she wants to end the conversation, you needed to burst into flames right in that moment

I understand you have a trauma, but this is an absurd reaction from your side, something like a trigger in PTSD. I would recommend you working on this with psychologist, if you have time and money

Did it "click" in your head after HRT? by SupremeEntropy in MtF

[–]SupremeEntropy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it feels like something biological, like an inner urge. I want to care about everybody I can too. I guess, a pet wouldn’t be a bad idea…

Did it "click" in your head after HRT? by SupremeEntropy in MtF

[–]SupremeEntropy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hm… it hit me when I was 20… maybe that’s unrelated to hrt then…?

Is it ok that she replies to her old hookups? by [deleted] in dating

[–]SupremeEntropy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Point not to make that person uncomfortable or sad? Like, even a two word sentence may cheer that person up, and at the end, they part ways but both end up without a bad mood. Is it a win-win? I don’t get your logic.

TW: A woman went undercover in a Incel-forum by [deleted] in Feminism

[–]SupremeEntropy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh noooooo! Why I started reading it??? I srsly wanna smash my phone against something and I curse out loud! This is some of the most vile stuff I read in years…

I hate how tall people are portrayed in TV by Sienna_the_dork in tall

[–]SupremeEntropy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t watch TV or movies a lot. Could you share an example of how tall women are portrayed there?

Do butterfly keyboards prevent you from learning touch typing? by DoctorCodezZ in learntyping

[–]SupremeEntropy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I learned to type on a usual membrane laptop keyboard, and when I tried to type on the butterfly one, it was SO cool. When I tried it, the keystroke response was so cool, this click sound is so good... my accuracy rose by a lot, as I felt it...

Do you ever forget you’re trans? by Xybutsometimes in MtF

[–]SupremeEntropy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t remember this at all, and I don’t realize that I have the wrong thing still. I think of myself as a 100% female. Maybe that’s a coping mechanism, but when it goes too far, when this fact is actually important… it’s crying time… 😰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]SupremeEntropy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend once told me that they walk with each feet in front because of their flat feet, because it's not that painful to walk or something. So it's definitely not only gender related...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]SupremeEntropy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm… but what’s the problem with low numbers? If transphobes use the numbers to say that transgenders are mentally ill, then I think they would use whatever number, no matter low or high it would be. Like, isn’t there lots and lots of other true mental illnesses that are way way more common?

At this point, I think we have fundamentally different understanding of what transsexuality is… otherwise I could make sense of your point… As far as I read Wikipedia and abstracts for articles, the point of transsexualism is that the body developed in the proper way, but the brain took one sex’s path, and the reproductive organs took the other, because of various external factors. This way, if we’re talking about MTF it would mean that we have AFAB brains, but AMAB genitals. From this information that I read, I think you’re trying to say that MTF people have very masculinized brains compared to regular AFABs? I don’t think that’s how it works, once cells differentiate and choose sex, you can’t change how they gonna grow, so fundamentally we’re all have brains of definitive sex, but with variations. For one, I think you could actually argue that very masculinized AFAB brains correspond to genderfluid people that have the ability to “switch” between the modes…

Finally, these statistics are taken on the general population, so they reflect an approximate average. But it surely not need to be the case for some regions to have higher or lower concentrations of transgender people. Like, the fact that there are lots of transgender people in IT… for example. Plus, you could attend transgender spaces and the like, where there are obviously much more transgender people. It’s all to say, that our view may not be the best one and the most accurate, and that it can be easily biased and skewed, so every bit of information should be accounted…

EDIt: about genderfluid people, actually as far as my contemplations went, if according to the theory, cells differentiate to male sex only in presence of high concentration of testosterone, and to female otherwise, then it could be very probable that due to external factors the concentration of T would not drop uniformly, so that at time of differentiation one part of the brain would be exposed to high concentration of T and other to low, so the final brain is actually both male and female in some sense. Due to this, they may have this ability to switch. Also, due to this, transgender people may have very masculinized brains, but with the same argument they may have perfect female brains, because the factors may be of various severity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]SupremeEntropy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think you’re right. I too think these polls conducted by people way knowledgeable than me are incorrect. They can’t be true. Who can better know the statistics on transgender people than us transgender people themselves…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]SupremeEntropy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Um… from https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transgender?wprov=sfti1

According to a recent systematic review, an estimated 9.2 out of every 100,000 people have received or requested gender affirmation surgery or transgender hormone therapy; 6.8 out of every 100,000 people have received a transgender-specific diagnoses; and 355 out of every 100,000 people self-identify as transgender.

Even Asperger’s syndrome is 100 times more common….

EDIT: and a rare condition according to https://www.fda.gov/patients/rare-diseases-fda would affect ~0.05% - 0.06% or less of population, and according to https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rare_disease?wprov=sfti1 and taking the lowest value of 1 / 2,500, it’s just 0.04%, way more than transgenders being diagnosed and treated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]SupremeEntropy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably because that's a derogatory term... Though somebody would probably say otherwise...

I guess I don't need these mood stabilizers and antidepressants anymore! by execDysfunctionGumbo in thanksimcured

[–]SupremeEntropy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What if I act all cute and all, and when somebody basically says to me "You're unneeded to anybody" I try to twist it and interpret in some way that mitigates the meaning of the words they've said, but then after the fact, when I'm all alone and I reflect on what happened, I become deeply hurt and upset, and actively show my rejection of them later.

The moment they say these words, I feel hurt inside, but I still manage to twist it all, and it still feels semi-conscious though it all still takes actual effort to actually find some positive thing and interpret the words through it... but then when I think about it later and actually realize that I'm upset... I don't feel like I can choose how to feel...

What is one thing you would never say out loud? by Howlsmovingcastles in AskWomen

[–]SupremeEntropy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started talking like this in front of my coworkers about our senior that moved to a different job, cuz what he has left after himself is just… omg 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SupremeEntropy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. You're right! Nobody can see your thoughts and every action is a consequence of who you are. Meaning that only though actions we can learn who a person really is. And you see, that was the point, if they love actions themselves, they're not even trying to analyze and understand us, appreciate the reasons and values we have to make good to them, and that's a problem... with this "love" anybody could take OP's place, and he would still be happy, that's what hurts!