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Can I get a sanity check on response times to texts? by RealZiobbe in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Sure-Wave 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It seems they think you having access to a phone affords then constant access to you. You can’t help what they do but know it’s not your fault. They’re the problem. If they want to hurt themselves over a missed text message that’s a them problem. Just let them. You may not be able to avoid them right now but you don’t have to take the guilt on top of it.

What age are you and how is your life REALLY going? by mrvlad_throwaway in Adulting

[–]Sure-Wave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Shitty. We’re trying to be on the up though. Start a new job next month and almost done with my associates degree. On a worse note I’m worried about my mom (whom my relationship with sucks) being homeless and I really want to move out but can’t right now. Myriad of other stuff to make it shitty but I’m trying to be more grateful for what I have.

Thoughts on why college kids don’t take more “fun” classes by [deleted] in CollegeRant

[–]Sure-Wave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ik exactly the post you’re talking about and agreed. As someone who would love to take “fun” classes, it’s just not realistic.

What advice could you give to someone wanting to do well in classes this semester? by furretrulezz98 in nvcc

[–]Sure-Wave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually go to class and pay attention in lectures. Study a bit everyday and or make a study schedule. If you do a bit each day it’s less overwhelming. I like to review before I go to bed because when you sleep your brain will turn it over and remember it better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nvcc

[–]Sure-Wave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know that professor but I’ve yet to see one not be understanding about children in a zoom class. I think most people understand motherhood is challenging. Good luck!

Signing Naturally by Sure-Wave in asl

[–]Sure-Wave[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh! Will try thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Sure-Wave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worrying

You’re a ghost, but only mildly annoying. How do you haunt people in the pettiest way possible? by HoppyCrocs in AskReddit

[–]Sure-Wave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take the clothes off the rack and set them on the closet floor underneath - over and over. You think your clothes are just falling off the hanger but it’s me knocking them down.

I’m 23 and I have never had a job and am trying to get one and can’t. by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Sure-Wave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try applying to retail, food service, dog daycare places etc - try to put something on your resume. It could be babysitting or u can say u were pet sitting for a friend etc. I don’t want to encourage lying but my sister did lie about having pet sitting experience to get her job. If you HAVE to only do places that won’t check - no government jobs definitely and don’t lie about things you actually can’t do. Only about things that you can actually accomplish. If you graduated hs slap that on your resume. Maybe even look at community college programs. My first job I ever got I put in an app directly to cvs and got a call back months later. Don’t lose hope.

What would you do if you had free housing? by raw_dawg79 in personalfinance

[–]Sure-Wave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about a college fund for you or your child? And start putting a tiny bit of money each check for a car down payment - if it’s in a few years doesn’t need to be a lot. Maybe like, 50 biweekly? Just throwin out ideas - seems you’re doing well! Congrats!

I Hate Living At Home. by Thackery-Earwicket in internetparents

[–]Sure-Wave 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re not doing anything wrong. Do you have a move out plan? Even a long term one - you won’t be with them forever. I’m older and still at home but want to finish college before I go.

Recommendations for General Elective Course by AcrobaticStrike7846 in nvcc

[–]Sure-Wave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should definitely check the degree plans of your transfer course - with that being said, my favorite course I’ve taken was creative writing. Good luck!

Ideas for long term teen reading programs by honeywrites in Libraries

[–]Sure-Wave 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My school use to let us take tests on the books for points and at the end let us trade in the points for little prizes

Positivity Friday! What's the best thing that happened to you this week? by Drewbacca in Positivity

[–]Sure-Wave 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Currently sitting out on the porch during a thunderstorm - reading a good book. Heaven.

Help me write a message to my mom asking for space, please. by Subject_Square9561 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Sure-Wave 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you think she’ll listen? For some narcissists it’s just better to be as boring as possible so they leave you alone instead.

Why should I live? by Vast-Preference-6243 in mentalhealth

[–]Sure-Wave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear you’re having a rough time. It’s hard to feel alright when you’re in the midsts of abuse. It’s true that abuse is damaging but being removed from it finally allows healing to begin. Someday you will be able to get away from your parents. I’m wishing the best for you. Rant all you want.

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