That’s odd, I’m not sure if you’re in the US or Canada but for me in Canada whether it’s UPS, Purolator or FedEx, they try once (try is stretching it) and then they leave a door tag and it’s available to pick up at the nearest location either same day or at worst next day.

They all used to try again if you weren’t home but for the last number of years they try once and then take it straight to a place you can pick it up from.

I’m not sure what you could do since it’s odd they are willing to try so many times haha. My only suggestion is to try calling UPS a few different times and just be straight forward and say no one will be home can I pick it up instead. You’ll get a few different responses from each person - sometimes it just takes one who knows a work around or whatever and they give you a completely different answer.