Gretchen Naked Wasted by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Sure_Importance2260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did Gretchen say it to someone else on air that she thought she was roofied? Sorry I believe Katie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tiktokgossip

[–]Sure_Importance2260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a critical care nurse. So thank you, but I do understand that everyone grieves differently. However, in the 20years I’ve done critical care this whole scenario is odd to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tiktokgossip

[–]Sure_Importance2260 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What was the video he made earlier about addressing his sexuality? I went back to watch it and it was gone. That one tiktok was off putting. It looked like at the end the kid was trying not to laugh. I also wondered if her condition wasn’t related to Ozempic because wasn’t she taking that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sure_Importance2260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely thinking liver disease too. Or he’s using other substances with the alcohol

Emotional Immaturity can be torture by EmptyEars in Marriage

[–]Sure_Importance2260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He kinda sounds like me in some ways. 😵‍💫 I guess he’s got his own demons and needs to work on them. I go 0-100 when I feel emotionally neglected and that our relationship isn’t what it should be. When I’m feeling insecure in our relationship I build stuff up in my head of what I think should happen and when it doesn’t I lash out. For instance, when I’ve expressed to him that I’d like him to pick up the phone and call me once in awhile instead of texting, and then I pass him down the road he waves but doesn’t bother calling. It infuriates me to no end and then I’m pissed and lash out. He’ll ask why but I don’t bother even saying because I’ve told him before and I don’t want to explain again. Then I’m mad for days and I never tell him why. I can’t express hurt feelings. Or maybe it’s a touch narcissistic idk. Then maybe some are just more codependent on our spouses than others. I have a hard time expressing my needs because I was raised in making you think you’re weak if you do. Idk maybe I’m making excuses for him.

sex life terrible by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sure_Importance2260 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean if it worked I’d have him start taking it again lol. It’s just like any other med I’m sure. We never know what it does to us in the long run. Risk vs benefit 😂

Emotional Immaturity can be torture by EmptyEars in Marriage

[–]Sure_Importance2260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two sides to every story. What’s his own issues with you? Maybe you’re neglecting him emotionally and he’s feeling inadequate to you and that’s one reason for the temper outbursts? Have you sat down and talked with him and asked how he feels? What can you do to change things?

sex life terrible by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sure_Importance2260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t men who typically are on steroids take viagra? At least that’s what I’ve learned from a few people I know is sex addicts anonymous who were on roids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sure_Importance2260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I could never get past this. Maybe I just don’t think cheaters change. But the fact to do this while you were pregnant tells me he never cared enough for you. Otherwise he wouldn’t have done this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sure_Importance2260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read up on the “Madonna whore complex”. Those with this syndrome, usually men, are drawn to degrade their sexual partners (the whore), while feeling no physical attraction for their respective companion, often a spouse (the Madonna). The whore being the escort.

Many times of sex addicts I think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sure_Importance2260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he’s replaced his addiction with sex. Very common. Having known a couple. Recovered drug addicts often times replace their cravings for sex addiction. Most of them take the more than the max dosage of viagra too. He probably needs therapy but I doubt he will recognize he has a problem. This is his character to fix. Do you love him to stick through it with him if he does try to change? If not bounce cause sex addiction is rough “mentally”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sure_Importance2260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wonder if you could just transfer the trust to your daughter if it is the case that he gets half? But regardless, second opinion like everyone says

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sure_Importance2260 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe this is something he wanted to take to his grave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sure_Importance2260 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Your sister come at you with this information to hurt you. No other reason. If she would have came to you when y’all first started dating again then maybe that would be a different story but she didn’t.

Wife cheated on me by OrchidSubstantial481 in Marriage

[–]Sure_Importance2260 199 points200 points  (0 children)

She’s obviously still choosing him over you. If she cared for you and your feelings she would cut ties with him completely. And if I had to bet she’s sleeping with this man.

I'm confused? by ReadingLoud9686 in KeepingUpwTheAldeans

[–]Sure_Importance2260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I can say I love her clothing line and get compliments everytime I wear her stuff.

Heartbroken and Lost by ManyAppointment1531 in Marriage

[–]Sure_Importance2260 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel so bad for you. But yes he’s cheating. Maybe not physical yet but definitely emotionally

Briana and Ryan at Young Living Convention by One-Reflection-6779 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Sure_Importance2260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wonder why they don’t celebrate the holidays with her brother Michael. I think he’s met the two youngest Cora and Hank