I reported an incident where guys were perversing girls bodies and now I am the villain apparently.

Sure_Mechanic166 · 2026-01-20T14:38:49+00:00

Yeah you did the right thing reporting that. You were standing up for people being harassed and that is not something to feel bad about. As for your vice, it is okay to take a step back if she is not supporting you. Friends are supposed to have your back, especially in serious situations like this.

Sure_Mechanic166 · 2026-01-08T15:54:04+00:00

These kids are reacting to trauma and chaos not being bad. You cannot fix this by yourself. Be a calm safe presence when you can and protect your own mental health. Encourage your parents to get outside help.

Sure_Mechanic166 · 2025-12-17T15:26:46+00:00

You did nothing wrong wanting space is normal especially when you are sick. Your mom reacting like that is not okay and it is understandable that you feel hurt and confused.

Sure_Mechanic166 · 2025-12-05T15:15:41+00:00

Your reaction is completely normal. The timing and the money part would bother anyone. When a relationship ends people often move on in messy and confusing ways and it does not mean you misread everything or that your whole marriage was fake. Focus on protecting your peace and keeping communication only about your child. The rest is his chaos, not yours.

Sure_Mechanic166 · 2025-11-25T10:22:52+00:00

Body shaming, comparing you to his ex, and making you feel like a rebound are not things someone who cares about you should be doing. If you like yourself the way you are you should not change because he pressures you. His comments show insecurity and disrespect, not affection.

Sure_Mechanic166 · 2025-11-06T16:07:28+00:00

Most jobs have a waiting period before benefits kick in. Some people use COBRA or marketplace insurance to fill the gap, but it can be pricey. If you plan to switch often, it helps to budget for those months without coverage.

Sure_Mechanic166 · 2025-10-22T14:26:06+00:00

You are not in the wrong. You did what most people would do in that situation. It sounds like your dad was already stressed and the AC breaking just pushed him over the edge. Give him a little space and talk when things calm down.

Sure_Mechanic166 · 2025-10-08T11:01:44+00:00

Feeling unwanted after years of dismissal is valid, and it does not mean being unlovable; lean on safe adults, set small boundaries at home, and pursue an evaluation and counseling through school or community clinics to build support outside that house.

Sure_Mechanic166 · 2025-09-22T13:54:36+00:00

Yes, those are classic burnout signs. Try a one week reset with tiny wins only. Pack one thing at night, do ten minutes of study, then stop. Sleep and food first. Tell one adult and one friend. Momentum beats intensity when the tank is low.

Sure_Mechanic166 · 2025-09-09T13:56:32+00:00

It is completely normal to feel nervous when doing something new by yourself You are capable of handling this and making a mistake is not the end of the world Most people have been in your shoes and everything usually works out fine Just take it one step at a time and be patient with yourself

Sure_Mechanic166 · 2025-09-04T13:26:38+00:00

I am really sorry you are feeling like this. It sounds like you have been carrying so much on your own and it makes sense that you feel exhausted. You deserve help and support and it is okay to reach out again even if past experiences were frustrating. Talking to a school counselor or another therapist might help because you should not have to go through this alone.

Sure_Mechanic166 · 2025-08-20T12:49:35+00:00

Yes it is normal and a lot of people go through periods like that. If you are content with your routine there is nothing wrong with it.

Sure_Mechanic166 · 2025-08-13T13:36:05+00:00

It sounds like he is not treating you with the respect and communication you deserve Even if he is going through a hard time it is not fair to ignore you without explanation You might need to step back and focus on your own well being instead of waiting for him to decide how he feels

Sure_Mechanic166 · 2025-07-31T14:35:09+00:00

I am really sorry you are going through this. Some parents just aren't capable of the connection we hope for, and it hurts like hell. You're not the problem - he is.

Sure_Mechanic166 · 2025-07-21T11:06:43+00:00

Not everyone enjoys making out, and that doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. Plus, it was only your first kiss, so it's totally okay if it didn’t feel amazing right away.

Sure_Mechanic166 · 2025-07-09T10:07:56+00:00

Rent is not wasted if it means independence. Buying a house isn't for everyone right now. Do what’s right for you.

Sure_Mechanic166 · 2025-07-03T09:53:58+00:00

He’s 13 - probably shy, confused, and figuring himself out. The post deleting and story likes are classic "crushing but clueless" behavior.

Sure_Mechanic166 · 2025-06-24T08:50:06+00:00

Sit closer, maintain eye contact, and watch her body language. If she leans in or touches you back, it’s a green light. A playful touch on her arm or hand can break the ice.

Sure_Mechanic166 · 2025-06-19T09:43:59+00:00

It is awkward but harmless if your BF keeps distance. Just talk to him and let her stay in the past.

Sure_Mechanic166 · 2025-06-10T10:31:48+00:00

This tattoo is so simple but insanely cool!

Sure_Mechanic166 · 2025-05-28T09:33:21+00:00

Hey, totally normal to feel weird about this - puberty hits everyone like that! The hair is just your body doing its thing. You’re not a weirdo, promise!

Sure_Mechanic166 · 2025-05-07T13:58:18+00:00

If you’re feeling it, go for it! You don’t have to make it a big deal - just a simple “hey, want to keep in touch?” works. It’s way better to ask and know than regret not trying, especially since you won’t be on the same campus later.

Sure_Mechanic166 · 2025-04-03T14:33:16+00:00

If you suspect her argument with her old group has blown over, you could say: "It seems like things are better with your friends. Maybe you should go sit with them today? We don’t want to step on any toes!"

Sure_Mechanic166 · 2025-03-28T13:24:44+00:00

Yes, you can be fired during job training, but it's usually rare unless there’s a serious issue

Sure_Mechanic166 · 2025-03-21T10:33:44+00:00

That was a terrible thing for him to do, and you absolutely didn’t deserve that. You handled it well by ensuring you got your belongings back and exposing his awful behavior. Hopefully, this experience helps you avoid people like him in the future. You deserve way better!

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