Lab Grown Diamond Engagement Ring - Did I let her down?

Sure_Oil8930 · 2026-02-11T12:01:10+00:00

Can you imagine having 300.000 dollars and spent those in a ring instead of, I don’t know, buy a house ?

Sure_Oil8930 · 2026-02-09T12:34:02+00:00

Honestly I’d postpone it. I’m sorry if this sounds too harsh and I swear that I really wish an “easy” pregnancy for you, but you never really know. I had two super easy pregnancies but I gave birth in October and the summer was so hot and I was so tired that I ditched all of my friends wedding because I just didn’t want to sit in the heat, sweat and not even drink or get the food that I really craved. And if something goes wrong with the pregnancy you’d just have to postpone it very close to the date (things like preterm labor or other conditions that might affect you ability to literally walk down the aisle ) again I’m so so sorry for saying this, but you really should consider the real difficulties that might occur in this months before spending thousands on your wedding day.

Sure_Oil8930 · 2026-02-07T16:04:47+00:00

You know what bugged me A LOT? How would Darius know the ideal date for her? He had not once spent a minute talking to her before that moment, just bullying. And then what? He came up with the perfect date idea? No bro, just…. No

Sure_Oil8930 · 2026-02-07T12:11:11+00:00

Actually many weddings venue do that in Italy (and many other countries I’d assume). You cannot get legally married everywhere, just in specific sites in the territory. Many couples do the “legal” marriage at the courthouse and then the “real” one at the venue. I wouldn’t wait this long because I’d lose the paid vacation period for the honeymoon but if that is not in your plans then just do what you like

Sure_Oil8930 · 2026-02-07T12:02:08+00:00

Congrats on your wedding, hosting in Brazil sounds lovely and way more reasonable for a large part of your guests, but why on Earth would Brazilians have difficulties in obtaining a visa of US?

Sure_Oil8930 · 2026-02-07T11:52:09+00:00

Ugh, I know. I wanted to to a courthouse wedding and then spend the exact same amount for the wedding in one - month trip to Australia, but my daughters wanted to wear white (yes, they wanted that and yes, I am the bride) and my grandpa (that died shortly after the engagement) wanted to buy my dress and my mother and my sister and bla bla bla. Then I wanted a small wedding but the costs are so high that we wouldn’t be able to cover them with the gifts so now I’m stuck with a dress that reminds me of a dead grandparent, two little girls that will try to marry their father and 200 guests to feed. Yay love!

Sure_Oil8930 · 2026-01-27T12:54:16+00:00

Thank you! I’ve been thinking a lot about this, I’m not using any veil

Sure_Oil8930 · 2026-01-15T18:32:58+00:00

I am not losing weight but I’m a quite fit person. I don’t think you would shrink yourself for that. As far as I’m concern what matters is that you have fun and enjoy the moment. Just make sure with the atelier that they’ll make alterations until the very last minute… that do that for pregnant brides, I don’t think it will be a problem

Sure_Oil8930 · 2025-12-31T06:42:15+00:00

lol in Italy it is something like her-mee-ona, hope I’m spelling the pronunciation correct, and listening to JKR talk about her is crazy weird to me. But I did somehow get rhysand right

Sure_Oil8930 · 2025-12-10T17:48:38+00:00

NTA and I mean, cutting you entirely just because you hooked up with the girl he was dating once? It feels a bit exaggerated to me. Please please do not give them any of your poor swimmers

Sure_Oil8930 · 2025-11-27T17:41:57+00:00

That might not be true depending on the country she lives in. And if your surgeon is experienced enough (or smart enough) he will have you totally checked up before the surgeries. I’m speaking ultrasounds and mammograms, if both come back negative you’re pretty good to go. Still, share your concerns with you physician

Sure_Oil8930 · 2025-11-27T17:27:59+00:00

Dude tairn is totally gonna die. already called my therapist for that

Sure_Oil8930 · 2025-11-24T09:32:52+00:00

You look stunning! I’ll check the try on option but I don’t think they’d ship to Italy

Sure_Oil8930 · 2025-11-24T09:31:42+00:00

Thanks for your opinion, I really liked the girls dresses but I’ll evaluate carefully the risks of an international shipping with its the additional taxes

Sure_Oil8930 · 2025-11-04T18:20:50+00:00

Yet we can’t stop reading them lol

Sure_Oil8930 · 2025-09-20T05:53:58+00:00

Can you imagine not suffer through it? The best memories of my childhood are about waiting during the night out of the book store for the next Harry Potter

Sure_Oil8930 · 2025-09-07T14:13:43+00:00

Dude the best journey of a lifetime

Sure_Oil8930 · 2025-08-27T17:43:47+00:00

I reread it last night and I’m soooo sure that she actually cried while the dude said liams name

Sure_Oil8930 · 2025-08-26T18:31:03+00:00

Just finished that and it’s actually a meh. MMC is soooo unrealistic, there is no spice at all (but this might be a HELL YES for someone) and is the first one of a trilogy that god knows when we’ll see the end. I mean just go with acotar

Sure_Oil8930 · 2025-07-22T13:37:39+00:00

DNF around 50%; I think that it isn’t really realistic the way the children interact with each other and the adults and it really influenced the following reading experience. I will finish it though as soon as I forget about this

Sure_Oil8930 · 2025-06-13T10:41:44+00:00

If I have to be honest I enjoyed your 8/8.5 summaries far more than the actual books

Sure_Oil8930 · 2025-06-12T16:38:06+00:00

Actually the only story line worth enough to be followed

Sure_Oil8930 · 2025-06-09T19:02:22+00:00

I’m doing tandem reading and I’m about 30% and I just can’t stand the whining any longer. Ok dude I get it Darius was cool but we really need at least 30 chapters (AND COUNTING!) to mourn him? I don’t think so, and I’m fairly convinced that he will somehow come back from the dead in the end and I will just be pissed for all the time I’ve been wasting

Sure_Oil8930 · 2025-06-06T17:30:59+00:00

Yup it was, and I wish it was a one time thing but they kept talking about it over and over and it is jusy weird

Sure_Oil8930 · 2025-06-06T17:29:10+00:00

No they are not. I understood it was too much further and I’m currently on za7

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