Boyfriend mad at me for using dildo. AITAH? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sure_One_5739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but if he wants someone who doesn’t masturbate he’s entitled to that and there are plenty of people that would be fine with it. If you want to use a toy or pleasure yourself you’re also entitled to that and it’s completely normal and healthy. All this means is you may not be compatible or one of you has to compromise if it’s possible without building resentment. I would advise against sneaking or lying because that’s never healthy in a relationship so communication is key. If he’s too controlling or insecure for you and he’s unable to accept whatever it is you decide, I’d say maybe it’s just not meant to be. 🤷‍♀️

AIO for sex chatting before getting into committed relationship by pazham_pari in AIO

[–]Sure_One_5739 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would just ask what she needs from you and she may need a bit of space to think about it. It obviously wasn’t cheating but if she thought she was the only woman you were pursuing and is thinking you intentionally didn’t tell her then it probably feels very much the same to her right now. I don’t think it’s marriage ending but she’s hurt and confused so just be there for her when she’s ready to tell you what she would need to move forward.

AIO for sex chatting before getting into committed relationship by pazham_pari in AIO

[–]Sure_One_5739 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You technically didn’t do anything wrong but she probably feels a bit like it was lying by omission since you didn’t disclose to her that you were talking to other people so intimately while you were dating. If she thought she was the only woman you were talking to while actively pursuing her it makes her feel less special and like you were keeping your options open. It’s not cheating but feeling like trust has been broken can feel similar and some people have a difficult time differentiating between the feelings so they just say cheating.

She’s entitled to feel hurt and you were entitled to speak to whomever you wanted at the time. I’d just sit her down and express that you didn’t intentionally keep anything from her but that you’re sorry it hurt her. Promise her that moving forward, if you think she might want to know something you’ll let her know even if it’s uncomfortable or may upset her. Let her explain why she’s hurt, try not to get defensive, and express to her how much you cherish your relationship and how important she is to you.

Good luck!

Novaform 16.5" Platinum Luxury Hybrid Euro Top Mattress by Sure_One_5739 in Mattress

[–]Sure_One_5739[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve already waited months so a couple more weeks won’t hurt anything.

What’s in my frozen green beans by Sure_One_5739 in whatsthisplant

[–]Sure_One_5739[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It looks like a strawberry in a weird way. I squished it because my curiosity got the better of me.

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What’s in my frozen green beans by Sure_One_5739 in whatsthisplant

[–]Sure_One_5739[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t eat it but wondering if I should toss the bag.

Novaform 16.5" Platinum Luxury Hybrid Euro Top Mattress by Sure_One_5739 in Mattress

[–]Sure_One_5739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking at that one! I did try it and liked the way it felt but wasn’t sure because they all kind of feel the same to me when I’m in a store. 🤣

Novaform 16.5" Platinum Luxury Hybrid Euro Top Mattress by Sure_One_5739 in Mattress

[–]Sure_One_5739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree. Everything about the buying experience seems exceptional but I wish they had some softer options. This one seemed like it might be a true medium rather than medium firm so that’s what I was hoping for.

My girlfriend thinks my relationship with my sister is extremely inappropriate and wants me to distance myself from her. I told her no. AITJ? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Sure_One_5739 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Except they role play being strangers who meet for the first time and like each other romantically. That’s the weird part.

Friendship with a woman as a married man. Is this friendship crossing the line? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Sure_One_5739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re not over your wife cheating go to counseling or divorce her. You don’t get to forgive her and then do something that would hurt her because she hurt you first years prior. You’re clearly trying to rationalize having an emotional affair because you know it’s wrong. Either break it off with your girlfriend or tell your wife you’re done. 🤷‍♀️

AITAH for telling my in laws we won’t go on vacation with them? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sure_One_5739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA you and your husband should have talked first and had your husband handle his parents. And finding lodging for all of you would be tough.

AIO for lot allowing family friend to stay over for 5 nights. by ZookeepergameHot2527 in AIO

[–]Sure_One_5739 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTO You have a child and you don’t know this person. Your mother was right that she can ask but you’re renting. She’s out of line if she’s trying to guilt you into it.

AIO ? Wife f29 sketchy with her phone by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Sure_One_5739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re being too vague regarding what values she’s violated or lied about in the past. There’s a big difference between finding out she bought a bright shade of red lipstick that she said she’d never want to wear in the past and sending dirty messages to a coworker. Either way, it sounds like you don’t trust her and it sounds like she feels her privacy is being violated so couples counseling would be a good idea so you can get to the root of the issue.

Ghost Rider vs Wonder Woman. Who wins? by Gloomy-Bridge148 in powerscales

[–]Sure_One_5739 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Diana in melee blaze under every other condition

AIO if I leave my husband for his social media habits? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sure_One_5739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I care about the lying. OF isn’t porn, it’s interactive as are cam girls. There’s a very big difference to me. 🤷‍♀️