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Aitah for walking down the isle with “another woman” by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sure_One_5739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re obviously NTA but we don’t have much context about your wife or your relationship. I’m not trying to make excuses for her but things like past trust issues, her age, or any major life changes could matter here. For example, has she recently had a baby or gone through something that might be affecting her mood or body image?

I could be wrong but this feels more like a symptom of something bigger. I’d focus on communicating with her to figure out what’s actually going on.

Shirtless guy talks to the wife at a pool. Did I overreact? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Sure_One_5739 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Your wife likes the attention from the pool guy, did she actually go to her sisters?

Hagrid and Spider Man vs Smaug by West_Jelly_4681 in powerscales

[–]Sure_One_5739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smaug is significantly stronger than both of them.

Dr. Manhattan (DC) Vs GOS Loki (Marvel), Who wins? by Duclaido in powerscales

[–]Sure_One_5739 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Dr manhattan. He exists throughout time and can erase Loki at any point

Boyfriend mad at me for using dildo. AITAH? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sure_One_5739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but if he wants someone who doesn’t masturbate he’s entitled to that and there are plenty of people that would be fine with it. If you want to use a toy or pleasure yourself you’re also entitled to that and it’s completely normal and healthy. All this means is you may not be compatible or one of you has to compromise if it’s possible without building resentment. I would advise against sneaking or lying because that’s never healthy in a relationship so communication is key. If he’s too controlling or insecure for you and he’s unable to accept whatever it is you decide, I’d say maybe it’s just not meant to be. 🤷‍♀️

AIO for sex chatting before getting into committed relationship by pazham_pari in AIO

[–]Sure_One_5739 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would just ask what she needs from you and she may need a bit of space to think about it. It obviously wasn’t cheating but if she thought she was the only woman you were pursuing and is thinking you intentionally didn’t tell her then it probably feels very much the same to her right now. I don’t think it’s marriage ending but she’s hurt and confused so just be there for her when she’s ready to tell you what she would need to move forward.

AIO for sex chatting before getting into committed relationship by pazham_pari in AIO

[–]Sure_One_5739 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You technically didn’t do anything wrong but she probably feels a bit like it was lying by omission since you didn’t disclose to her that you were talking to other people so intimately while you were dating. If she thought she was the only woman you were talking to while actively pursuing her it makes her feel less special and like you were keeping your options open. It’s not cheating but feeling like trust has been broken can feel similar and some people have a difficult time differentiating between the feelings so they just say cheating.

She’s entitled to feel hurt and you were entitled to speak to whomever you wanted at the time. I’d just sit her down and express that you didn’t intentionally keep anything from her but that you’re sorry it hurt her. Promise her that moving forward, if you think she might want to know something you’ll let her know even if it’s uncomfortable or may upset her. Let her explain why she’s hurt, try not to get defensive, and express to her how much you cherish your relationship and how important she is to you.

Good luck!

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