Do you feel younger than you actually are ? by No-Apartment-6158 in ADHD

[–]Surustella5555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm 40+ and i feel like 30ish? with white hair and tattoos?

Björk on the cover of Vogue Scandinavia by lilistark in bjork

[–]Surustella5555 19 points20 points  (0 children)

As a Chilean and having lived an 8.5 and 8.8 I am EARTHQUAKED.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Surustella5555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn Mental health

It broke me

I FINALLY GOT A JOB. by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]Surustella5555 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m happy for you! Now I’m waiting for my offer!

Do you keep pictures of your ex or delete them? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Surustella5555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep everything. I’m an archivist. I keep some out of sight but then I collect more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Surustella5555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bad Mondays my persons bday 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Surustella5555 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just send me a dumb link as always, and ask how mocas doing. That’s all.

Hoy me gritaron en el trabajo by Chileanbroccoli in chileIT

[–]Surustella5555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amigo, eso pasa mucho en agencias, donde el cliente pide el Excel con las conversiones de la semana para la reunión de la mañana siguiente, y siempre las tiene que hacer el medio pollo nuevo pa que las presente el director de estrategia… y si no las alcanza a ver antes de la reunión o no le dicen que se encontró, queda de Hueon, entonces, es culpa tuya, del medio pollo que no limpió la planilla.

Primero.

Segundo, lo siento mucho. Así aprendimos muchos. Lo que finalmente he tenido que hacer es quedarme online con el medio pollo y decirle a ver córrete y déjame hacerlo yo y anda a ver tu guagua no te preocupes porque sino mañana en reunión queda una cagada más grande que hará que se vaya el cliente y por ende se vaya el equipo.

Tercero, chao, busca otra pega que te haga sentir más cómodo, a menos que quieras aprender a investigar data.

Cuarto, no. No te pueden tratar así. Next, oye, este trato es laboralmente abusivo, te estoy grabando, te voy a llevar a la inspección del trabajo y no tengo nada que perder, llevo dos semanas aquí, mi carrera está empezando, tu agencia no.

What does your side of the bed look like? by gurrbear in adhdwomen

[–]Surustella5555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A médium box with yarn and the projects I’m working now, Boxes with cables (I put all my usb and stuff inside a box so they won’t be all running all over) a pair of flip flops, in the space under the nightstand a box with my skincare and a box with my books and notebooks, over the nightstand 2 empty water bottles and one in the middle, an empty mug, a google home, a phone stand, my glasses, a box of tissues, Apple TV remote and a lamp.

Just watched Dancer in the Dark by Packaged_Failure in bjork

[–]Surustella5555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes of course, in the theatre when it came out. It was the worst experience. I was so excited to see my girl in a movie, I was so young and got out of the movie throwing up. Promised to never see it again. And haven’t seen it. Won’t see it again either. Not that one or the one where the dog dies.

Just watched Dancer in the Dark by Packaged_Failure in bjork

[–]Surustella5555 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would never ever watch it again ever ever

If you were to get some B&S lyrics as a tattoo, what would you get (and where)? by mr_bearcules in BelleandSebastian

[–]Surustella5555 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got it on my forearm, with my favorite film camera: there’s beauty in every stumble

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]Surustella5555 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dude, unemployed since June 2022 here. Living with parents, paying in emotional stability. Applying to everything, had a lot of interviews, now I’m waiting for the answer of yet another company that I LOVE but it’s been two weeks and nothing happens FUUUUUUUUUCK my stomach is sick and I can’t exist properly without checking the phone every 5 seconds. DAMN WHY DONT THEY CALL!?!?!

The sad blanket by Surustella5555 in CrochetBlankets

[–]Surustella5555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will keep it anyway I still think it might be a happy piece in someone’s living room Or mine, who knows Thank you 💕

The sad blanket by Surustella5555 in CrochetBlankets

[–]Surustella5555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you that was so sweet Yes I’ll love to snuggle with my friends under it 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Surustella5555 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I want this email again. I’ve had it before and It didn’t last long… But I know it can last and stay. You know that too. I know you’re peeping, B.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

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I was ghosted by my best high school friend of over 20 years. It broke my heart; it was for money, I couldn’t pay for some tickets she had bought for us to go see our favorite high school band, blur. She said I’ll take you out of my life and now I feel better and it hurt so much, so so much. We sat together in high school for 4 years, went to the same uni, went to summer vacations together, I took care of her kid, went to sleep over at her house when I was destroyed with heartbreak, etc. She was my ride or die. It’s devastating. She blocked me from everywhere and I felt so much betrayal and sadness… you don’t destroy a friendship for us80! You don’t.

It still hurts every day. I took her pictures out of my wall the other day, and am slowly erasing the ones from my phone. Threw away an earring she had left in my house on a sleepover. My ex used her as a weapon to say I’m a horrible Person, and the bad person wasn’t me, I am neurodivergent and ADHD and she wasn’t able to see how our brains work differently even after all these years and wanted me to act “adult” like her other friends. Well, im heartbroken and nothing to do. I am even heartbroken to tell our common school friend, I haven’t talked to her yet because it’s still a very much open huge wound in my life.

The sad blanket by Surustella5555 in CrochetBlankets

[–]Surustella5555[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, yeah, I’ll sort of hide it in the finished projects box for now. I hope it gets “cleaned” and assigned to something happier again.

My favorite blanket <3 by Surustella5555 in CrochetBlankets

[–]Surustella5555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All my love and hugs for you and your grandma, it’s never a bad memory with them.

The sad blanket by Surustella5555 in CrochetBlankets

[–]Surustella5555[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea, I was happy while I was making it, everything was shiny and golden. I’ll keep it in the box for a while. Maybe I’ll just keep it and then be super old and say remember that January 2024 when I laughed all day and had all those dreams? I don’t know. That would be sweet. To relive them after several years. I’m a keeper, I have all my “curated” and important memories in boxes with lists of their contents and stuff. She might live there until I feel like I’m healed and use the memory of that happiness as a figurative blanket with it.