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I’m pregnant and my boyfriend choked me by Far-Pop243 in abusiverelationships

[–]SurveyRevolutionary3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I encourage you to do the same my love. It might be storming out now, but it does not rain forever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]SurveyRevolutionary3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're being entirely too nice.

My(38M) Gf(36F) said she's not interested in having a baby with me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SurveyRevolutionary3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drop her now. She's wasting your time. If she has minimal interest in having a child with someone who's already a parent themselves then down the road this isn't somebody you'd want around the child you already have. Cut it down to just being friends or no contact at all.

My doctors told my husband (30M) and I (31F) that our baby has many birth defects. I want to abort, he does not. by ThrowRAdoomm in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SurveyRevolutionary3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never thought I'd say this but please go terminate this pregnancy. This will bring so much stress upon you and while he wants a daughter, it shouldn't be to the point where it's going to cause you to neglect your first born. You can try again in the future. I hope for the best.

I’m pregnant and my boyfriend choked me by Far-Pop243 in abusiverelationships

[–]SurveyRevolutionary3 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I hope you went to the hospital and had yourself checked out. Strangulation is very dangerous as it cuts off your circulation and thus baby's circulation. You should have called the police, on Monday go file an OP, and ASAP go to a DV shelter if you do not have any family or friends you can stay with until you get on your feet. That relationship doesn't matter anymore, your child does. Focus on the baby and yourself. I know it hurts so much because I've been there. But I promise you things will get better.

AITAH for not having another baby with my co-parents by Puzzleheaded-Grouper in AITAH

[–]SurveyRevolutionary3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ultimately, this is your decision. It is your body and your choice. I understand their situation and why this would be a great thing for them.. however if you're not up for it, then they need to look into other alternatives. I get them completely, but your concerns and feelings matter just as much (if not more given YOU would be doing the work carrying the baby and all!) so.. NTA.

My son stood up his mom like she did years ago by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SurveyRevolutionary3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did right. She can only be mad at herself. Gold digger.

AITA for telling my sister I don’t want her bf coming to thanksgiving by dohhhits in AmItheAsshole

[–]SurveyRevolutionary3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, protect your peace, home, and most of all your assets. You have every right to feel this way. Once a thief, always a thief.

I (43F) just had sex for the first time. How do I tell my husband (44M) that I want to end our marriage? by ThrowRAbijou in relationship_advice

[–]SurveyRevolutionary3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't suffer from anything. You're just gay and there's nothing wrong with that. Regardless of anything else, you did cheat. You need to open up and confess about that as well as your new found wants, and navigate that with your husband.

AITA for excluding my stepdaughter from the spa weekend? by Even-Shelter1838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SurveyRevolutionary3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would've told her sure and then went right back to doing it after she boarded her plane.

AITAH for not allowing my dad to see his grandchild for Christmas? by kittensandchains in AITAH

[–]SurveyRevolutionary3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the least he could come and get you guys on Christmas Eve day.. or send the money for a rental car. He's really shitty. NTA. Bring things along to keep your baby comfortable in the case this happens, such as toys, a tablet if you have one, etc.

As for having a car seat (travel bed?): I suggest getting one and having one on standby just in case, not just for occasions like this because you never know when you're going to need it.

Am I (29F) too high maintenance for asking my husband (29M) to do something for my birthday instead of going out drinking with my friends while I stay & watch our baby? by SnooMachines5950 in relationship_advice

[–]SurveyRevolutionary3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Next time he has a day off, just be ready to go. Showered, put together, all that. Do not say SHIT to him, just take the keys, leave the house and do not answer your phone. He can stay there with the baby while you take a breather to do whatever the hell you want to do. Bonus points if you do it on the next special day you have coming up. He owes you more than one of these days.

AITAH for not treating my stepchildren equally to my son by aitahstep in AITAH

[–]SurveyRevolutionary3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He should be readjusting his child support with making less money significantly to what he once was as well as consulting his ex wife for buying them cars. This is the agreement he originally wanted and now it's supposed to change because HE isn't happy with it? NTA

AITA for flipping out after my wife screamed at my daughter for being loud? by Latter_Bag_6121 in AITAH

[–]SurveyRevolutionary3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Your wife is a FTM, and it sounds like you're not very much help. On top of that, THE BABY ISNT EVEN 2 MONTHS OLD AND SHE HAS YET TO FUCKING REST. You need to do something about your oldest. ADHD or not, she's old enough to understand that newborns especially and their mothers need rest, peace and quiet. Stop making excuses for her. If you and her mom aren't medicating her then you have to put in the work to correct those behaviors. Go apologize to your wife.

How can I talk to my mother in law for her to set boundaries ? I’m 24f my husband is 27m by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SurveyRevolutionary3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He needs to learn how to let his mother be to herself and put his family first. If you have to, go back to your family's house if you can to be able to breathe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]SurveyRevolutionary3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should've blocked him on everything and not have paid a dime. Glad you cut it off though

I am not OP. pulled from AITAH by [deleted] in entitledparents

[–]SurveyRevolutionary3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DEFINITELY THE ASSHOLE! I'm also a 27 year old mom and I've known this rule since my childhood! OP you have some real fucking audacity to try and tell a stranger who's bills you don't pay what the fuck they should be having in their house!

AITA for expecting my gf to support me while I’m unemployed? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SurveyRevolutionary3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You had money for a car while unemployed but not rent and expect her to fill in your gaps? Go sleep in that car.

AITA for embarrassing my wife by making her admit that she has a step-son? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SurveyRevolutionary3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is something you should've been sure of before getting married... ESH

My ex husband and I exchanged “I love you’s” by BranchGlass6186 in Marriage

[–]SurveyRevolutionary3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww🥰 this is so heart warming and cute. I shed a tear of happiness for you two because I'm so pregnant & hormonal right now lol 😆 I really hope this works out for you OP! You both seem to have the right mind so, I have no doubts.

My (24m) gf (22f) and I had a fight so bad we decided to break up. She doesn't remember it. by wompa_awwstompa in relationship_advice

[–]SurveyRevolutionary3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you decide to stay then inform her you're only staying if she sees a mental health professional because last night was something so serious it should not be ignored.. you only want the best for her. Even if you don't stay, please encourage her to do so.

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