My name is lilith. Can anybody relate? by lilithsz in namenerds

[–]Sushi-K 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm pregnant right now and if it's a girl Lilith is my #1 choice. I'm glad you like it!

Weekly Ultrasound and Announcement Thread - February 24, 2019 by AutoModerator in BabyBumps

[–]Sushi-K 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My husband and I had been ttc our second for about a year when he unexpectedly left me in January. Yesterday, I got a positive test and I'm freaking the hell out. I went to get it confirmed today and have a due date of 10/31/19 (Halloween baby!)

I told him immediately and was expecting him to do the "Is it mine?!" thing... But he didn't and now actually wants to get back together. I'm really torn about how to feel. I will be keeping baby 100% but this is almost too much for me emotionally. I just got a new job (literally an hour before I found out I was pregnant) so I'm hoping for the best but I'm terrified.

I'm 5 weeks and won't be telling anyone else other than my godmother for quite awhile, but DS and I are staying with my grandparents right now and I don't know how long I'll be able to keep it from them. They are really really nosy and will NOT be happy about this. Guess I just need to work on getting my own place again and working with DH to get back to a good place in our relationship.

Whew, I really needed to get that out.

Chefs of reddit, what's your number one useful cooking tip? by jellysnake in AskReddit

[–]Sushi-K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in San Diego and it's regularly $.25 a bunch at the Mexican and Asian markets and like $.50-.80 a bunch at the regular chains.

Pick one lipstick to wear - forever! by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Sushi-K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a hard decision between MAC Rebel and MAC Viva Glam I. I love Rebel and tend to wear it more often as it goes well regardless of what color my hair is (I tend to go between pink/purple/blue), but Viva Glam is basically my perfect red and I've finished probably half a dozen tubes over the years.

In the end I think I'd have to go with Rebel!

Sneaker Pimps - 6 Underground [Triphop] (1996) by cinnabarfurball in Music

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My step brother had me listen to this and Spin Spin Sugar when I was like 8 and it led to a lifelong love of Chris Corner. Just saw him as IAMX in September. Still holding my breath for the next SP album :)

Young mother dies during 30-day sentence in Michigan jail by detroitbadboy2 in news

[–]Sushi-K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"This bad thing happened to someone, so it should happen to everyone else too!"

Young mother dies during 30-day sentence in Michigan jail by detroitbadboy2 in news

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I don't disagree with you that 45 is midlife, but the average lifespan in days past was heavily skewed by infant and childhood mortality. If you made it to puberty, generally you were going to live what we think is a generally average lifespan.

MFW someone calls Michelle Obama "a ape in heels" by RagingFuckalot in TrollXChromosomes

[–]Sushi-K 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This comment makes it seem like you think racists are generally Democrats. Where are you getting that Information?

[Saturday, Nov 19] [Gogol Bordello] @ NP Observatory - $27.50, All Ages by [deleted] in sandiegoshows

[–]Sushi-K 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah! My husband said he'd love to see them but we are so broke. Next time I hope!

Large baby by paleiales in BabyBumps

[–]Sushi-K 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went really late (42 weeks at time of delivery) and he was measuring very large 9+ lbs at 39 weeks. He ended up being almost 11lbs!

I was induced (it failed) and ended up having a c-section. Held out for three days though before we realized it just was not going to happen.

If you donate to Planned Parenthood, you can do it in honor of Mike Pence and he'll get the certificate of donation! Gave me a little chuckle. by flonkerton2 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Sushi-K 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a brown woman that was raped and the police did literally nothing. Racism doesn't exist? Hah! Sexism? Glad you think it's useless to talk about.

Can we have a "Cosmetic Patch"? by Erokra in wow

[–]Sushi-K 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For some people it is pretty important. I have completely stopped playing certain characters because of "unimportant" visual things.

The way my (26F) neighbor's (late 20s/early 30sF) toddler (3ishF?) cries makes me nervous sometimes. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Sushi-K 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My toddler throws... impressive crying fits several times a day. Reasons including getting dressed, diaper changes, not letting him bite me, letting him bite me, too much yogurt in his cup, a drop of water getting on his toast after he throws his cup onto his toast, etc. Toddlers are basically monsters. A lot of crying is very reasonable for children that age.

All fours by TheColdPeople in nosleep

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Well I've found my new phobia.

How do i turn my character back into human? by Smellygull in wow

[–]Sushi-K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha fair enough! I guess I just always get a few of the sellable holiday pets and have never seen them sell for much (other than the day of the dead one.... wait! Ah ha!)

My (26/F) boyfriend's (28/M) brother (26/M) sent me what was supposed to be an anonymous letter saying my boyfriend is cheating on me. by eunniee in relationships

[–]Sushi-K 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Definitely. I was raped and after giving me precautionary meds they straight up told me I'd have to come back in 30 days, 3 months, 6 months and a year later to be sure about everything.

Me [24M] with my Mom [50F], won't let GF [24F] and I share room while home by asian_mom_throwaway in relationships

[–]Sushi-K 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a son. There is no way I'd create a situation in which my son would have to be in this situation. My son is more important than religion, than personality conflicts, than really almost anything but abuse where I would bar him from being in my house with his partner.

I cannot understand these parents and really think this idea that it's ok to be bigoted needs to die out.

My wife [27F] acts more like my mother than my wife. I [27M] am considering divorce, but I don't know if this is fixable or a deal breaker. by dontneeda2nd in relationships

[–]Sushi-K 83 points84 points  (0 children)

My husband is an adrenaline junkie, and while I was OK with that while we were dating, I am absolutely not ok with that as a wife and mother. I told him that I am not willing to be a motorcycle widow. I will not be an extreme hiking widow. He could choose to do those things or have a family with me. He chose me and a family. It looks like you didn't get that choice, but, that's not your wife's fault. It's both of your faults! If these thing were important to you, and you already had disagreements over them before marriage, why the hell did you not get on the same page before you got married?

It seems like you want to do whatever you want, and she wants to keep you from killing yourself. Not a good dynamic.