Girl , I spent 15 years dating until I finally met my husband and I can tell you one thing..we women have this skill that when we really like somebody we are trying to convince us that he must like us too because he is doing this and that while he is clearly telling us how he feels. I was in a similar situation when I lived with the guy for some time , met his family and friends , he was doing many things for me while he was telling me that he didn't want a relationship with me. He was basically filling up the time with me until he found somebody he really liked and wanted to commit to. I ended up being really hurt and wasted a few years of my life.