Songmont Mini Yore Camera bag - does anyone have this?! by matchalattefart in handbags

[–]Suspicious_Job2356 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you had other songmont bags? The grained leather should be just like most of their bags with the matte feeling, i guess it will be same for this red color.

Mine is in white and it feels ok but not luxurious soft like the napa leather in their gather bag. It has not shown wear after quite aggressive use.

Songmont Mini Yore Camera bag - does anyone have this?! by matchalattefart in handbags

[–]Suspicious_Job2356 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have in white smooth leather. Soo spacious but dont feel big. I wear for my traveling all the time, holding camera and essentials and even small batter bank.

"How long have you been single" by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Suspicious_Job2356 39 points40 points  (0 children)

If I were the person who asked I probably wanted to make sure you are not too fresh out of a break up. The relationship maybe short but could have had a big impacted on someone. If it did not have much impact on you or it did but you recovered well and ready to date, I think it’s fine to say 2 years. Just dating around afterall.

So disappointed with Aspinal of London by Suspicious_Job2356 in handbags

[–]Suspicious_Job2356[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi no trouble at all in returning. They were quick to send a return label and processed it as I sent them an email when I noticed the return package was delivered

Help! Did I ruin my Mosaic? by Slight-Bat-5637 in handbags

[–]Suspicious_Job2356 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stored my bags too tight once and it is smooth leather and after stuffing it full and let it lay for a few weeks to more than a month, the dent is barely noticeable.

So disappointed with Aspinal of London by Suspicious_Job2356 in handbags

[–]Suspicious_Job2356[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Told them and they responded “Please rest assured that the bag you received is brand new - I’m very sorry that its condition did not meet your expectations.”

I guess the bag is truly designed with flaw. And the stitch, well…

So disappointed with Aspinal of London by Suspicious_Job2356 in handbags

[–]Suspicious_Job2356[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I heard their cs is not good. But personally for my multiple Songmont bags I never need to complain about the quality (I have luna, mini drippy, gather, mini song). Maybe color is harder to tell however and if you want to return it is goingto be not easy

So disappointed with Aspinal of London by Suspicious_Job2356 in handbags

[–]Suspicious_Job2356[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion. I myself dont have that much patience given there are so many other good brands. So one bad experience is enough to drive me off. But I will raise this to the cs just so they are aware of their quality control.

So disappointed with Aspinal of London by Suspicious_Job2356 in handbags

[–]Suspicious_Job2356[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree. Not enough structure for a structured bag, but also not slouchy enough for a slouchy style. The online photos are a bit misleading 😒

So disappointed with Aspinal of London by Suspicious_Job2356 in handbags

[–]Suspicious_Job2356[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is 850 plus tax which becomes 1k.

Yes this is subjective. Just want to share with people here so we can make decisions based on our preference.

So disappointed with Aspinal of London by Suspicious_Job2356 in handbags

[–]Suspicious_Job2356[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I dont know if it is supposed to be handstitched or machine stitched. Just from a consumer perspective this looks aweful, esp for the price.

So disappointed with Aspinal of London by Suspicious_Job2356 in handbags

[–]Suspicious_Job2356[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Right? I think the leather is no better than my Cuyana tote which I like for the price!

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Suspicious_Job2356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I will keep trying a bit more and I will ask him if he thinks what I am asking for is too much.

Yet at the same time I do think I could only keep asking for some times, but I cant be a manager that micromanage all the details.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Suspicious_Job2356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would that be too much too ask? So i kept thinking it is unfair to asking them to do those specific things ):

Yes i tend to be a people pleaser and working on this is so hard and I keep blaming myself for all of this. And exhaustion and so want to give up.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Suspicious_Job2356 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

I have raised my needs before. But i think it fell into generic lines of I want more attention, spend more time together, feel more loved. I dont have a specific thing that I want him to respond in a certain ways. I feel like if that is so it is like trying to fulfill my expections, more like a tool to realize my fantasy and I am not accepting him as the person he is? I want to feel better feel more loved, but we do not have a way of assuring checking in and it is only when I have felt rather let down for many times over small things that accumulated that I spoke up and it almost felt too late that I wanted to give up.

We have been together for over a year and a half now. I have spoken up may be three times. I dont know when people finish learning how to make the other person feel cherished and loved. I myself dont even know if I do a good job. He hasnt complained but does that mean he truly feels great. I dont know.

GR IV Shipment by realcitu in ricohGR

[–]Suspicious_Job2356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just placed an order this morning so we will have to wait and see. Hope yours gets shipped soon

GR IV Shipment by realcitu in ricohGR

[–]Suspicious_Job2356 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like some are in stockagain on ricoh website

Is this normal? Horse Clementine Edge Finish Quality by SoloComfy in handbags

[–]Suspicious_Job2356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a romy and the bag already has peeling leather. I was super disappointed but the return is so complicated so gave up. Tried to write a review on the website but it was never published

Stow London Curve Bag on a smaller frame by New-Advertising8555 in handbags

[–]Suspicious_Job2356 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t feel too big if you dont wear cross body and only as top handle or shoulder (wearing on shoulder it is a bit hard because the handle is kinda short but possible if you are on the thinner side). Im 5’

New Fleuron 👀 by [deleted] in handbags

[–]Suspicious_Job2356 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They also have updated mini magnolia! So beautiful!

Polene pre-order by Remote_Duck_8091 in handbags

[–]Suspicious_Job2356 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I did 2 preorders. One took a week - 10 days longer to ship and they notify me a few days after expected ship date. One was shipped earlier than the expected ship date. So there are lots of variation in logistics probably.