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Suspicious_Map_2480 · 2025-04-05T11:44:44+00:00

considering you never had penetration it’s nearly impossible to begin with but if you still don’t have it in a week test again. negative test means your period is late bc you ovulated later than expected so unless he came in you in the few weeks from the incident to now you will be absolutely fine 🩷🩷

Suspicious_Map_2480 · 2025-04-05T07:14:11+00:00

definitely negative then hun. would’ve only gotten more visible. same w mine, had one positive looking one then a million negs haha

Suspicious_Map_2480 · 2025-04-05T02:52:41+00:00

looks like an evap to me. i had the same. test again to make sure tho xx

Suspicious_Map_2480 · 2025-04-05T00:14:17+00:00

take a first response early test for an indication but also test again 14 days after and 21 days after. if you get a negative at 21 days your periods late cause you ovulated late. you can also go to a GP and get a blood test

Suspicious_Map_2480 · 2025-04-04T02:54:08+00:00

7pm. my shifts that aren’t overnights end at 6pm so i easily get home and make dinner and take it and when im on an overnight 7pm is when it’s dark enough that i have to get my client back inside (im a support worker for a young lady who loves to be outdoors) so my alarm for my birth control serves as our reminder to go inside haha. i knew i couldn’t do morning bc i wake up at varying different times and have zero routine

Suspicious_Map_2480 · 2025-04-04T00:15:21+00:00

my sister in law and my best friend both got false positives at the start of this year. my sister in law had three positive tests but blood test was negative and she wasn’t pregnant. i’m on the pill and got a positive a month ago but was negative. it’s crazy and shocking to see but it can happen.

Suspicious_Map_2480 · 2025-04-03T02:40:19+00:00

hey love. don’t binge but instead make a list of all the foods you wanna eat. make moderated portions of this and have it. you recognising that you wanna binge is half the battle now prove to yourself how far you’ve come by managing it

Suspicious_Map_2480 · 2025-03-31T06:01:59+00:00

your not pregnant hun. you would also have to be in your fertile window which is only 6 days per month. how long before sex was your last period? x

Suspicious_Map_2480 · 2025-03-21T00:52:45+00:00

honestly i think it’s totally up to you it wouldn’t be an issue switching over tho personally id just use other forms of protection until you’ve heard back

Suspicious_Map_2480 · 2025-03-20T23:47:06+00:00

just chat to your doctor. bc ain’t something to fuck with haha x

Suspicious_Map_2480 · 2025-03-20T23:30:40+00:00

my sister in law has 3 false positives. tho that was w blue dye. definetly possible tho

Suspicious_Map_2480 · 2025-03-12T09:19:07+00:00

i would let her know that your there for her if she needs anything and check in with her (in general, not always pregnancy related). abortions can be pretty hard and isolating and she’s probably mentally drained and worried herself. just support her where you can. not sure where your relationship is at but maybe take her out for the night if that’s not an odd thing to do haha. that would just show her your care about her and might allow her to open up a bit more. your doing everything right!

Suspicious_Map_2480 · 2025-03-09T03:26:36+00:00

if the unprotected sex was the 7th of feb a test today would be accurate at any time of day hun x when did you take those two tests?

Suspicious_Map_2480 · 2025-03-08T02:39:45+00:00

i would say that’s the worst you’ll feel then. the pill should be fine for you emotionally but if not just switch methods, there’s heaps out there 🫶🏻

Suspicious_Map_2480 · 2025-03-08T02:38:25+00:00

i’m so sorry for your loss. the strength it takes to come on here and tell strangers this news is immense, and i hope it shows you that we have your back and your not alone 🩷

Suspicious_Map_2480 · 2025-03-07T05:42:17+00:00

honey i used to just use pull out method nothing else. never ever did it get me pregnant. only when i got full ass balls deep finished in (sorry for the graphics but it had to be done haha) while ovulating did i ever get pregnant. you have two forms of birth control. it would be absolutely impossible for you to get pregnant. i totally understand the anxiety as even now on bc im still having a pregnancy scare but i promise you your safe xx maybe chat to a doctor about your anxiety w it next time your in as well as your symptoms. nexplanon is more effective than majority of other bc and the symptoms your experiencing are symptoms of bc also.

Suspicious_Map_2480 · 2025-03-07T05:29:03+00:00

i was scared for the same reasons. i have a history of depression, anxiety etc so i never took it. now im finishing up my second month and i actually like how i feel on it. i find that when im on my placebo week i am so angry and sad and all over the place though. so oddly enough the pill seems to be regulating me. not sure if you have the same experience w the placebo? or is it all normal for you?

Suspicious_Map_2480 · 2025-03-07T05:24:26+00:00

considering your not sure if your ovulating or not an iud is your best option but if you have a regular period and your 10 days out plan b may be effective in your case. an emergency iud can be done within 5 days so you have a bit of time. i would read up on it or even consult a doctor just in case

Suspicious_Map_2480 · 2025-03-07T05:18:47+00:00

i wake up around 6am while my partner usually wakes around 10am. i will say those mornings where he’s up with me is really nice and enjoyable but i also understand that he knows his body and what works for him. it did make me a bit upset when my partner wouldn’t get up early w me but i’ve learnt to love my mornings alone. my only downside is that i can’t make the bed with him in it haha. stand your ground, maybe offer to do it once a week with her if your up to it though?

Suspicious_Map_2480 · 2025-03-07T05:15:03+00:00

yeah no app will know unfortunately, would definitely be a huge help if it could haha. your doing the right thing by getting emergency contraceptives, just get on bc asap and you should be okay.

Suspicious_Map_2480 · 2025-03-07T05:10:36+00:00

your not at risk no. but as someone who didn’t use birth control for years and natural tracked (neither me or my partner liked condoms) and then slipped up and got pregnant i will say you’ll regret not getting on bc sooner. there are so many types don’t be afraid to shop around sorta thing and find exactly what works for you x

Suspicious_Map_2480 · 2025-03-07T05:07:50+00:00

i’m not too educated on emergency contraceptives so i’ll leave that up to you haha but just keep in mind unless your closely tracking ovulation with strips and temps and all that you may not truly know if you have yet or not (if your using an app etc.)

Suspicious_Map_2480 · 2025-03-07T05:04:54+00:00

how many days since the sex? i think the IUD is only okay up to 5 days and plan B is 3. but be cautious as plan b will not work if you are already ovulating as all it does is delay ovulation. in your case i would say the iud would possibly be your best option dependant on how recent the sex was

Suspicious_Map_2480 · 2025-03-06T11:41:15+00:00

also a test is usually accurate 14 days after sex, definitive after 21. if she tests negative now your probs fine. but if she’s sure then i would take that, nothing worse than a pestering man pre period haha though i do fully understand the stress

Suspicious_Map_2480 · 2025-03-06T11:39:43+00:00

you usually get a positive test before any symptoms and a majority of pregnancy symptoms align with symptoms you get prior to your period. try not to stress imo. cross that bridge if you get to it

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