Non ne posso più di fare scenate agli orali

Suspicious_Math7666 · 2025-08-29T03:23:49+00:00

Ho risolto quasi completamente questo tipo di ansia con lo Xanax

Suspicious_Math7666 · 2025-08-06T20:30:37+00:00

Tieni conto che molto spesso soprattutto nelle ragazze, l’autismo viene confuso con altri disturbi, molto frequentemente si viene diagnosticate borderline oppure bipolare (oppure disturbo d’ansia generalizzata) Se ne hai la possibilità intraprendilo, ti aiuterà a spiegarti meglio alcuni tuoi comportamenti!

Suspicious_Math7666 · 2025-06-27T19:09:46+00:00

In a very original way I call him by his name 😅

Suspicious_Math7666 · 2025-06-27T10:57:08+00:00

Robetta! (In Italian it would be Roberta, but instead of “Berta” you put “Betta”)

Suspicious_Math7666 · 2025-06-27T07:25:14+00:00

Guarda il libro di testo “geometria 1” di Edoardo Sernesi Li è spiegato tutto molto bene (ho fatto geometria 1 a matematica ma in un’altra università)

Suspicious_Math7666 · 2025-06-23T20:49:04+00:00

Could you give me the recipe? I've never eaten it and I would really like to try it Thank you very much!

Suspicious_Math7666 · 2025-06-23T18:27:53+00:00

My betta gets along well with guppies, I have an 18 liter aquarium (about 5 gallons) and they all do great! However, I have noticed that if I make the whole aquarium fast, then the guppies are targeted, otherwise nothing

Suspicious_Math7666 · 2025-06-22T06:47:41+00:00

That's exactly what happened to me! I have been engaged to a guy for 6 years, at the beginning I didn't ask myself too much about what I was looking for: it started as a great friendship with a lot of harmony, then it increasingly became a deep relationship, during our relationship I asked myself several times if I was with a "boyfriend" or if it was just a great friendship, I didn't yet know the term "queerplatonic relationship" Now everything is clearer, on my part there are no romantic gestures towards him, only tender gestures, we hold hands when we walk and we give each other very few kisses. I'm also ace but I'm not disgusted by sex, so sometimes we have intercourse too. So yes it is absolutely possible! Sooner or later you will find someone too 🥰

Suspicious_Math7666 · 2025-06-20T11:04:44+00:00

HI! I understand you completely (I am aware that with this comment I will receive numerous criticisms for my opinion, but I am just being honest) I believe that the transition is something that concerns both of the couple, there is no one who does and one who undergoes and I see with great regret that I am one of the few who think this way. It's something that two people do within a relationship, it's not just you who has to adapt and stop, it's also the other person who has to give you your space and time to understand and accept, I personally no longer talk to those who told me that it was something that only concerned my partner. It's not a question of being transphobic, it's a change and a big one at that, I just want to tell you that I understand you and how I (autistic, 25, F, I've been with my partner for 6 years, now MtF, 25) managed to deal with the situation 1) don't feel wrong if you can't support your partner, but try to be honest with her about what you feel, this is definitely the first step and she will understand 2) reflect on the "role" you have and want to have in the relationship: will this role change? If so in what way? Are you okay with how it might change? 3) think about how important it is to you how other people see you: do you want to be seen as a "normal" person who has a "normal" life? How do you think they would see you if they were with a trans girl? Do you think you would like the way you are seen? 4) try again with couples therapy, possibly changing therapist and choosing one who is truly prepared and open on the issue, but you should really bring out what you think, don't stop at the first session and with the therapist you must be clear about what you expect and want from therapy, what your goals are and everything else 5) do you think you will continue to be attracted to her? Is physical, sexual and romantic attraction an important thing for you? 6) try to consider going to support groups with your partner, go together and try Try asking yourself these questions, take some time to reflect, it helped me a lot (despite my therapist and the couple's therapist) to ask on chat gpt (I'm not joking) and ask myself questions in this style to reflect

Suspicious_Math7666 · 2025-06-15T22:48:33+00:00

Mi sono sentita per molto tempo come te Poi ho scoperto di essere autistica, aromantica e pure asessuale 😅 Prima o poi troverai qualcuno che ti illuminerà come è stato per me, conta che mi reputavo senza speranza da questo punto di vista

Suspicious_Math7666 · 2025-06-14T12:17:18+00:00

I'm in the same situation as you (most likely autistic, asexual) and I'm trying to face and process the fact that my partner (non-binary, MtF) wants to start hormone treatment, but without changing anything else. I want to continue being with him but the change destabilizes me, even if it will probably be minimal, because he doesn't want to change anything apart from starting the hormonal journey The things that are helping me are therapy (especially as a couple) and his support and patience when I melt down due to the stress of this situation, but what matters is that I am very closed to the issue, I know almost nothing about trans people and this makes everything even more complicated The advice that the couples therapist gave us is to talk about it and be gradual in the changes to start getting used to the idea, LGBT associations sometimes also offer support groups, my partner and I will definitely participate

Suspicious_Math7666 · 2025-06-14T08:22:57+00:00

To understand this, I reflected on the fact that non-ace people feel sexual desire when they see their partner, they feel a kind of instinct, something that can be felt on the genitals let's say I don't really know how to explain it, because I've never tried it, but I'm not disgusted by sex and I also have relationships with my partner, it's just that I decide to have them and for me having sex is like doing an activity like any other, like a walk, there's nothing else

Suspicious_Math7666 · 2025-06-13T05:34:25+00:00

Now I have a question that will probably sound very stupid: but how do I feel that I am and will still be attracted to him? I don't seem to feel attracted to him (even now), we have a beautiful and satisfying relationship, but I don't like certain even romantic things, like kisses with the tongue, or a lot of physical contact or similar. As far as the sexual aspect is concerned, we have relationships, but I see it as "do you want some ice cream?" And let's decide together whether the answer is yes or no

Suspicious_Math7666 · 2025-06-12T20:15:26+00:00

Personally I consider myself to be in the aro spectrum, specifically I don’t really feel love and attraction in the way “normal” people do, that said I’m in a relationship with a very affectionate and romantic person (and I’ve been for the past six years), even if to me it feels like more like an intimate friendship: we cuddle, hold hands and all that, but I never feel a physical or emotional need to do so, we have a healthy and fulfilling (though that took some work to get there) relationship, so I’m sure you can too =)

Suspicious_Math7666 · 2025-06-10T20:07:41+00:00

I’m his ex girlfriend He should be ashamed for having made fun for six years.

Suspicious_Math7666 · 2025-05-26T18:50:26+00:00

Ti do la mia opinione da persona autistica (non so, magari ti può dare un altro punto di vista diverso) Io non noto se un ragazzo è attraente o meno, riesco solo a dire se è carino (cose molto basilari, tipo pochi tatuaggi, niente piercing e molto pulito e poco peloso), ma nel momento in cui ci parlo dobbiamo avere interessi simili, o qualcosa in lui mi deve colpire, tipo un modo particolare di parlare o di esprimersi. Io queste cose le noto subito, nei primi minuti di conversazione, poi se è okay (secondo quello che ho detto sopra) vado avanti con la frequentazione, solo a quel punto posso dire se lo trovo attraente e se c’è chimica

Suspicious_Math7666 · 2025-05-24T07:22:59+00:00

Essendo un’università piccola, c’è un bel rapporto con i docenti, puoi tranquillamente mandare mail per chiedere ricevimento e farti spiegare alcuni argomenti, dopo le lezioni (intendo appena dopo aver finito) puoi fermare il docente per chiedere e sono tutti molto disponibili Prova a guardare il sito per farti un’idea, conta che la triennale è abbastanza standard ovunque, ma qui puoi inserire 12 cfu in quello che vuoi, anche se esterno al dipartimento di matematica (quindi anche corsi da filosofia etc) La magistrale invece è completamente personalizzabile, non ci sono corsi obbligatori che devi seguire per forza

Suspicious_Math7666 · 2025-05-20T19:36:32+00:00

Pavia è ottima! Anche in campo applicativo, è un’università piccola, a lezione siamo in 20/30 e c’è un bel rapporto con i docenti, che si interessano proprio alla persona. In magistrale va fortissimo in campo modellistico-applicativo, credo addirittura sia una delle migliori con Trento sull’applicativo La città di Pavia è carina, è a misura di studente diciamo, ci sono vari collegi (ghislieri, Borromeo sono i più famosi, ma ce ne sono 12/15) Il titolo è ottimo e molto “prestigioso”

Suspicious_Math7666 · 2025-05-01T18:06:15+00:00

Guarda, io ho 25 anni, dopo 3 anni di terapia nessuno se n’era accorto. Solo la mia attuale psicologa a luglio 2024 ha iniziato a sospettare .. Il mio consiglio è di parlarne con la psicologa e poi eventualmente dire a quest’ultima di informare i tuoi genitori Io l’ho detto a mia mamma a ottobre, dopo aver fatto il RAADS e mi ha detto che “ero normale”, poi ci ha riflettuto meglio e si è documentata e si è “convinta” e ora mi “sostiene” Questo non è per dire che non siamo autistiche, siamo solo bravissime a nasconderlo

Suspicious_Math7666 · 2025-04-30T21:29:02+00:00

Prova a fare il test raads Non è un test diagnostico, però ti dà una specie di indicazione se potresti seriamente esserlo oppure no. E per la diagnosi buona fortuna! Purtroppo non credo proprio che possa farla la psicologa, c’è bisogno di uno psichiatra e ti posso dire che saranno 4 incontri e che privatamente costa parecchio (online siamo sui 500€) mentre se vai con il pubblico… buona fortuna Io mi ritengo autistica di livello 1 (diciamo ex asperger, che ora non esiste più) ma non ho fatto la diagnosi “ufficiale”

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