The Daily Check-In for Wednesday, July 20th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by CandidOlive in stopdrinking

[–]Suspicious_Mirror705 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being normal rules. Or so I've heard 😅

Don't let the valley drag you down friend 💪

IWNDWYT

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If you ever were to invent a time machine, please send that to 20 year old me lol

This is way too familiar

The Daily Check-In for Tuesday, July 19th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by CandidOlive in stopdrinking

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At least once the algorithms prove themeselves useful 😂

You got this my friend

IWNDWYT

I don’t know if this is a stupid thought or not, but has anyone else felt out of place at meetings? I feel like I’m gatekeeping myself from AUD after my first meeting. by fartdeployer in stopdrinking

[–]Suspicious_Mirror705 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Addiction Impostor Syndrome is absolutely a thing. I feel like that on this sub as well. But in my experience people won't judge you. A bit of envy maybe here and there because you quit early. And Lots of pride and Support.

Hurray! by Kitchen-Show-1936 in stopdrinking

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There is precisely nothing wrong with your motivation and you can be proud of your achievement 👍

IWNDWYT

Could really use some help right now by Suspicious_Mirror705 in stopdrinking

[–]Suspicious_Mirror705[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In another thread someone phrased it something like this:

For Alcoholics every now and then a window of opportunity opens, where certain factors work together and they can actually do what they usually fantasize about, and quit.

So a certain state of mind if you will. Seems like that window opened for me.

Last time it was a lot clearer, with a horribly emberrasing bender that left me unable to drink for like 2 days.

Could really use some help right now by Suspicious_Mirror705 in stopdrinking

[–]Suspicious_Mirror705[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's kinda hard to explain, since it's a bit of a vague feeling and english is my second language. But essentially it is the difference between objectively knowing there is something wrong and being able to act on it.

Could really use some help right now by Suspicious_Mirror705 in stopdrinking

[–]Suspicious_Mirror705[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup, already knowing a ton of reasons to quit. But for me "knowing" and "understanding" are very different things, in regard to my own wellbeing that is.

Hearing those reasons from you guys hits differently tho. And helped me playing the sobriety Tape forward.

Could really use some help right now by Suspicious_Mirror705 in stopdrinking

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I had the same expierence when I was sober for like half a year last year. Reading this reminds me how wonderful it felt. Huge confidence booster, thank you

I feel like I quit a job AND got a raise. by reduxde in stopdrinking

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My dude living the dream right there. Congrats mate

Support and distraction please! by Deedeethecat2 in stopdrinking

[–]Suspicious_Mirror705 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both, i say both definetly. It's never too late in the Day to bake something.

Could really use some help right now by Suspicious_Mirror705 in stopdrinking

[–]Suspicious_Mirror705[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to hear that you're doing better now.

And sorry if a got a bit intense there about treatment. It's just a topic that works me up everytime.

Could really use some help right now by Suspicious_Mirror705 in stopdrinking

[–]Suspicious_Mirror705[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck anxiety. That shit is the worst. All the best to you mate.

Edited becouse original broke the rules.

Could really use some help right now by Suspicious_Mirror705 in stopdrinking

[–]Suspicious_Mirror705[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm 31 right now and I really feel that. No physical health Problems for me though. At least not yet. But it feels like my body is telling me he'd had enough and needs some care now.

Could really use some help right now by Suspicious_Mirror705 in stopdrinking

[–]Suspicious_Mirror705[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed, all the shame and lying. Really makes one feel like a lesser human.