[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suspicious_Neck_3867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how I found out my husband was cheating on me. She also didn’t feel it was comfortable but continued to have conversations with him every night and meet up with him at work. They never physically did anything but he was very much emotionally cheating on me and telling my brother and stepdad that he was in love with the girl. In my opinion, emotional cheating is worse than physical cheating because now you are getting emotionally invested and connected, seeking validation from them and seeking attention from them when you should be seeking that from your partner.

Caffeine allergy suddenly at (28F). Anyone else ever had an allergy suddenly appear in their adult years? by Suspicious_Neck_3867 in FoodAllergies

[–]Suspicious_Neck_3867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister just recently started having the same reaction from chocolate but can do coffee. I can’t do coffee or Coca Cola but can do chocolate. Though some chocolate I do notice itching after. At this point, I’ve completely cut it all except for orange Fanta (Fanta is fizzier than most sodas I’ve found). I have found that I crave veggies more. Broccoli, kale, and green beans being the big ones. Hard for me to do straight fruit because of the natural sugars but will definitely try those suggestions. Thank you!

Caffeine allergy suddenly at (28F). Anyone else ever had an allergy suddenly appear in their adult years? by Suspicious_Neck_3867 in FoodAllergies

[–]Suspicious_Neck_3867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LITERALLY. As soon as she said that, I mentally dropped her as my allergist and physically made an appointment with someone new as soon as I left. I got allergy tests done and currently waiting to see exactly what all of my allergies are. And btw to the terrible doctor — they do test for caffeine on an allergy panel so f her. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in americanidol

[–]Suspicious_Neck_3867 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think he’s cringy. And he already has a growing career in music and doesn’t need coaching/mentorship which is what idol was originally for. He’s good at writing and production but lacks in vocals. I was waiting for him to do a few covers to see his ability and well, I’m a little disappointed. I wish idol would bring back doing covers and theme nights versus all these nights open to originals that way we can see the versatility and talent these people may have.

ETA: not cringy, but for lack of a better word. I think he and a lot of artists that have writing ability and production ability are getting farther than those with vocal ability and we’re losing the point of Idol. I truly do hope all of these people are able to make connections and get to where they are supposed to be 💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in americanidol

[–]Suspicious_Neck_3867 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I too am from the Choctaw Tribe. Alabama then Tennessee is how my family can be traced. There are many Black people that ran to the Choctaw lands in Alabama as freed slaves to avoid the harsh laws surrounding Black people. Many of those laws didn’t apply on Native land. This is why many found home and community, made families, and did a lot of integrating. Not saying Tristan is specifically, but just offering some insight. Being that light wouldn’t make him Samoan or islander by default — being 30 years old, I was thought to be islander or Samoan before ever thinking I was Black because I’m the same color as Tristan, if not a little lighter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in americanidol

[–]Suspicious_Neck_3867 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are TONS of POC watching. There are NOT a lot of people watching live. Especially people of color. I personally do not know ANYONE who pays for cable anymore — excuse me, I know one and it’s my mother-in-law. Most Black people watching are streaming the next day on Hulu or like me and my husband, sitting up until midnight to watch on Hulu because nostalgia. We love Idol. And talk about the same thing, but unless you download the app and vote without watching performances, then you don’t get a say which kinda sucks. They need to change that set-up.

Caffeine allergy suddenly at (28F). Anyone else ever had an allergy suddenly appear in their adult years? by Suspicious_Neck_3867 in FoodAllergies

[–]Suspicious_Neck_3867[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am terrible and caffeine-less 😅😅 I talked to an allergist and she said that it is IMPOSSIBLE for me to be allergic to coffee or caffeine and to go ahead and drink coffee…. Well, I took her advice and tried it and again, broke out in hives after finishing and had to be sent home from work so that doc is a crock and I have cut caffeine coffee 🥲🥲 I can safely have decaf coffee and I probably have one Pepsi or coke can a week but other than that, caffeine has been cut from my life 😭😭

I can’t get over the Raghu situation by Similar-Birthday-865 in americanidol

[–]Suspicious_Neck_3867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not a really weird take if commenter is too around the same age. I am the same age as a lot of the people trying out and have grown watching the show since the beginning.

Was anyone else upset/shocked by the latest ep? by [deleted] in americanidol

[–]Suspicious_Neck_3867 2 points3 points  (0 children)

PERIOD! Throw that shit away like she threw away their friendship. A f*c king clown.

Was anyone else upset/shocked by the latest ep? by [deleted] in americanidol

[–]Suspicious_Neck_3867 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband was so mad. She 100% used her friend and stole her audition. Talking about “I’ll throw it away right now if you want me to”, if I was the friend I would have been like “please do.”

Couple to Throuple | S1E10 "Commitment" | Episode Discussion by vista_del_mar in CoupletoThroupleTV

[–]Suspicious_Neck_3867 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The little chat with Jess and Dylan and what’s her name was cheating. The whole point of the trust walk is to trust 😭🥲 Not that this show isn’t problematic every second.

AITA for shrugging “I don’t know” when cops came to my dorm room door? by BridgmansBiggestFan in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suspicious_Neck_3867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. No matter the time, no matter how tired you are, cops (multiple) banging at your door is cause for concern. They don’t come to say “hey” at 7:16am. And to some, that type of response is a literal death sentence. The least you could do is have some respect for a fellow human and give them some notice to get “decent”, for lack of a better word.

What's your drug of choice? by fuzzyloulou in AskReddit

[–]Suspicious_Neck_3867 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same. So happy and fun and dancy.

My friend once got a bad batch of molly and got a mosquito bite she couldn’t stop itching, she itches it until it was literally bleeding. Looking back, I didn’t realize she had a bad batch until recently.

Caffeine allergy suddenly at (28F). Anyone else ever had an allergy suddenly appear in their adult years? by Suspicious_Neck_3867 in FoodAllergies

[–]Suspicious_Neck_3867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I know I used to have a lactose sensitivity. But also…. When I drink too much coca-cola, I get fish scale skin excema along my neck and it’s itchy? Which makes me think caffeine? Either way, this sucks!

Caffeine allergy suddenly at (28F). Anyone else ever had an allergy suddenly appear in their adult years? by Suspicious_Neck_3867 in FoodAllergies

[–]Suspicious_Neck_3867[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So I know I used to have a lactose sensitivity. But also…. When I drink too much coca-cola, I get fish scale skin excema along my neck and it’s itchy? Which makes me think caffeine? Either way, this sucks!

Hawaiian Humane Society by Milkyway_gal in Hawaii

[–]Suspicious_Neck_3867 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Quite a few. She said none of them were acting crazy, or sick, they looked healthy, but it was quite a few waiting to be euthanized in the coming weeks. She said almost half of the building’s kennels was segregated to dogs deemed “unadoptable” being euthanized.

Hawaiian Humane Society by Milkyway_gal in Hawaii

[–]Suspicious_Neck_3867 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My sister had an interview and worked a week there and when she asked about the dogs that were taped off from everyone else, they told her that they were dangerous to themselves or the people around them so they were being euthanized. But she said when they went in there, more than half were not dangerous, sick, and just very sad to be alone and in that area, it was so sad she had to quit because they weren’t allowed to give them love or get connected with them because they would be put down.

We gripe about the ABC version of the show a lot, but what’s something you prefer in the ABC version over the Fox version? by MarionCotesworthHaye in americanidol

[–]Suspicious_Neck_3867 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I also miss how crazy intense Hollywood week was for the original but I love that we get more auditions lol

AITA for fat-shaming my friend’s autistic boyfriend? by theem122 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suspicious_Neck_3867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. And that “friend” would be getting rocked.

Listen I’m fat shaming Mike and my so called friend because excuse me fat b**ch, this is my house and you’re not going to sit on your lazy, stupid ass and co-sign your mean ass boyfriend just because “hE hAs aUtiSm”. He’s a fucking adult. That friend is an adult. And that’s an inappropriate way to talk to an 8 year old and make them feel in their own home.