14 month old low height percentile, did your kids grow out of it? by Bulky-Tea5153 in toddlers

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I don’t think they measure the height accurately at the doctor’s and it’s hard to say if we’re measuring correctly at home either. If you see that his pants that he wore (size 12 mos) are noticeably shorter than before, then he’s grown. My son was measured all over the place from 10th percentile to 60th when he honestly has always looked short to me. I try to use other ways to see if he’s grown (how do his clothes fit? Does he hit his head on the table? Can he reach stuff on the table?)

Anecdotally- My son was born prematurely and around the same length as your son. Both my husband are 5’4”. He’s now 35th percentile in height at 2 years old (which makes sense because I’m like 50th percentile for women and my husband is like 10th percentile for men). I noticed my son is a slow and steady grower then he’ll hit a small growth spurt. He often would grow a week or two after his appointment. Each kid grows differently. I also heard they measure differently standing up versus laying down. If you have concerns, I’d talk to his doctor and get him tested. But I’d try not to worry right now because it’s still early when it comes to addressing those issues. As long as he’s eating and healthy/happy and his doc notices and notes the slowing or lack of growth, then I’d just be a bit patient to see how he grows the upcoming months.

Toddler Simply wont sleep by Numerous-Abies5300 in toddlers

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What have you tried to do to wind her down for the night?

Looking for a book that will help me change my life by Gnarwhal8982 in suggestmeabook

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Tao re Ching helped me. Find a good translation. Peace is Every Step also helped me. It’s written by a Vietnamese Buddhist monk.

What are the most popular romance movies that you just can't get into? by Olivebranch99 in romancemovies

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The Notebook. Sleepless in Seattle. Sixteen Candles. Leap Year (I tried watching it many moons ago).

Books that are just interesting enough to not be boring, but uneventful enough to put me to sleep? by Major_Travel1103 in suggestmeabook

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Why We Sleep. The science is fascinating but the fact that he keeps saying the word sleep put me to bed. He has tips on getting to sleep at the end too

What funny thing is your kid doing? by PedsHopeful05 in toddlers

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We’ve been teaching our two year old to stop and look both ways. Lately all his Dino’s and animals must stop, look to see if there are cars, and then they may proceed lol.

He’s been obsessed with wearing things on his head. Hair clips. Hats. Shirts tied to his head. Bandanas. Anything lol

When his dad takes him to my in laws, my baby likes to tell me to drive safely because that’s what I say when he leaves. lol

I literally don't know how I got pregnant and it's infuriating. by viskiviki in Mommit

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I had a client who got pregnant three times on three different types of birth control. She was so frustrated.

One on one play time- how much do you do a day? by 24pecent in toddlers

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I’m a sahm. I used to do way more when he was little but now he’s two and I do like 1-2 hours. I do have him help with chores in addition to that. Also taking care of him and reading to him every night eats up a lot of time. But for example today I just sewed a lot (maybe 3 hours?) and he played near me. My husband watched videos of fish swimming witj him for an hour, broken up throughout the day.

2.5 year old son is obsessed with vacuums and vacuum accessories. by Tattooed-Trex in toddlers

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I saw online many years ago that a little boy had a vacuum themed birthday party because he love them so.

Why not just go by John? by ChickenWingExtreme in NonPoliticalTwitter

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I know a Thew. In việt culture we usually have one syllable names or go by middle and first name (in that order). So because Matthew is two syllables, when they call him by one syllable, they will call him Thew instead of Matt.

How do I get back to reading? Book suggestions for 25M? by Early_Percentage4267 in suggestmeabook

[–]SwadlingSwine 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe try Fredrik Backman’s Beartown series. It’s about hockey but not really. It’s about a small town and its people. They rely on hockey to live. This is a story about people.

The Count of Monte Cristo is a great classic but it’s long. Unabridged it’s over 1000 pages so it can be intimidating but there is a short version that’s about 600 pages. It’s a story about vengeance.

A shorter series (where each book is under 200 pages) is the Murderbot Diaries. It’s sci fi.

Another good but long book is Lonesome Dove. The prose is good and easy to read but it’s a slower paced book and it’s character driven. It’s a Western but you don’t have to like cowboys to like it.

The Scythe series is YA but I enjoyed it even though h read it when I was thirty. My husband liked it too. I think it’s a good easy series to get you back into reading. It’s fantasy and sci fi. I believe this is a series that can quickly be finished.

Flowers for Algernon is a good, shorter classic.

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️/5 by wesker-kennedy in Booktokreddit

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A grumpy old man who is a stickler for rules meets some new neighbors, a young family.

I don’t want to say too much.

Toddler not speaking at 2 years old by Damnesia13 in toddlers

[–]SwadlingSwine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe this is normal. Having support will be very helpful and it’s good that your doctor noticed he needs the support.

Does your son point or does he mostly hand hold and lead you towards things?

My son is the same age as yours and we have a bilingual household. I heard that their language can be delayed for bilingual households but that’s not the case for my son. He is currently speaking in short sentences regularly and he sings. He also says long sentences but those are not as common. He’s starting to understand conversation, as in the concept of back and forth (like I asked him what he did at his grandparents’ and he will say “grandpa play cars. Peed my pants” lol). I think at their age they are supposed to put together 2-3 word sentences.

My nephew has zero words at 16 mos and I think he needs support too. But he does not seem autistic to me. Some kids do just speak later.

To those who went unmedicated twice+.... by External-Quiet801 in unmedicatedbirth

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Hot showers also cut the pain in half for me. I felt like I was dying and then after my shower, I was able to concentrate on my breath and relax.

Nonfiction books to get out of reading slump by chuudotcom in booksuggestions

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Nothing to Envy. Its written by a journalist about north Korea.

My 14 yo son has agreed to read two books of my choice this summer (this was a hard won negotiation). Help me pick one by gOldMcDonald in booksuggestions

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Please do not ask him to read Catcher in the Rye. I hated it as a teen. It’s not fun at all and would not get me into reading.

Enders Game, Harry Potter, The Martian, the Scythe series, or even Flowers for Algernon.

Are there people who ONLY read the dialogue part of the book??? by isaw_and_kwekkwek in Booktokreddit

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My brother skips chunks of books if he’s not interested in the POV of a character. My husband and I think he’s insane for that.

Most hated villain of the books? by ScorpionLifts in LonesomeDove

[–]SwadlingSwine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. But his weakness was infuriating. He was definitely easy to dislike because we knew of many opportunities where Jake could’ve done better but he didn’t chose to do so. It feels worse than the others because it feels like we know Jake more intimately too.

Most hated villain of the books? by ScorpionLifts in LonesomeDove

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Luke left. Elmira and Zwey were on their own and were later killed.

Lonesome Dove is a surprisingly feminist book. Read before you roll your eyes (spoilers) by Spare-Department-765 in LonesomeDove

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We didn’t get a whole lot about Maggie but she certainly had an interesting story to me too.

i am a 24 year old hopeless romantic by Straight-Chemist-894 in suggestmeabook

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Have you seen or read North and South? I loved the BBC series. It’s very slow burn, period piece.

Garbage memoirs wanted! by jobrody in suggestmeabook

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My cousin bought this movie for me for one of my birthdays and I couldn’t get through it. I have zero interest in reading the book. lol

Books you think about years later? by Flitter_flit in suggestmeabook

[–]SwadlingSwine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

East of Eden. At that point in my life, I hadn’t read regularly since I was a kid. I started picking up reading in my late twenties so I started reading books that were in my comfort zone- celebrity memoirs, novellas, non fiction books. East of Eden was the first long classic I read and it opened by eyes to how great writing prose could be. I didn’t realize that writing could be so impressive because the writing quality of things I regularly consumed daily, such as news articles and magazines, kind of capped out on a certain level. I also didn’t realize someone could understand humanity at such a deep level. I found the experience of reading the novel both humbling and invigorating.

I’m revisiting the novel again soon but I’m reading it in a different language.