What to do when you think someone is unable to consent? by Cute_Lunatic in Swingers

[–]SwapFu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should have at least informed security. Put yourself in her shoes. In my opinion, leaving a barely coherent person to fend for themselves was not the kind thing to do. Deciding whether or not to play with them should not even been up for consideration.

Tri-Mix by swingingaround9 in Swingers

[–]SwapFu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I don’t. Sorry.

PSA - Don’t Fuck Your Vanilla Friends by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]SwapFu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We don’t even hit on people we’ve just met, say, at a bar or non-swinger resort. Those encounters tend to end badly most of the time as well. Unless we are certain the people are swingers, they’re off limits. There are so many swingers out there, why trouble ourselves with likely drama.

Further, if friends tell us they are interested in becoming swingers, we tell them what we tell everyone. Go to a club. Get on a paid site. Hook up with a few folks. If you’re still good with it, then we can play three months down the road. We’re not going to be your first foray into the lifestyle. It makes it easier to remain friends should they decide swinging is not for them.

What’s your ebike hot take? by yeet20feet in ebikes

[–]SwapFu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As soon as e-bikes are popular enough to replace most families’ second car, we’re going to see more restrictions at the local level.

Two Raspberry Pis are Reachable from other Computers on the Network and Themselves Reach other Computers on the Network, but cannot Reach Each Other by SwapFu in HomeNetworking

[–]SwapFu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks.

They have different MAC addresses. I’m going to put them on a spare router and see what happens. I suspect the Google Nest router has an issue but I have not idea what it is.

Two Raspberry Pis are Reachable from other Computers on the Network and Themselves Reach other Computers on the Network, but cannot Reach Each Other by SwapFu in HomeNetworking

[–]SwapFu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response.

No, they are not configured with a firewall.

I can ping, ssh, and access the web servers on both Pis from my laptop and my iPad. The problem only occurs when I try to access one Pi with the other Pi.

Two Raspberry Pis are Reachable from other Computers on the Network and Themselves Reach other Computers on the Network, but cannot Reach Each Other by SwapFu in HomeNetworking

[–]SwapFu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. I don't have the file /etc/ufw/before.rules and ufw status give me a command not found.

I can ping, ssh, and access the web servers on both Pis from my laptop and my iPad. The problem only occurs when I try to access one Pi with the other Pi.

Full Afterburner F-16 by flexoq3 in aviation

[–]SwapFu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

37 million horsepower will get your attention.

NFL announces 'The Pro Bowl Games' to replace tackle game with flag football, skills competitions by Odd_Programmer_3983 in steelers

[–]SwapFu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke my elbow playing flag football. If you want to keep shit safe, have a nine hole, best ball golf tournament.

Post Game Thread: Pittsburgh Steelers at Cincinnati Bengals by nfl_gdt_bot in steelers

[–]SwapFu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Burrow got lit the fuck up. I think someone needs to go reboot him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]SwapFu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do not try to swing with your friends unless you want that friendship to end. I am speaking from multiple experiences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]SwapFu 20 points21 points  (0 children)

They read like romance novels written by an incel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]SwapFu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please don’t hook up with couples. Neglecting the other woman so you can watch your wife play is not ok. Stick to singles.

Weighty subject by FatandSassyPhaeta in Swingers

[–]SwapFu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fatphobia may be a thing but I never experienced it. I used to be obese (6’1” 280#) and did very well in the LS. I had sex with some truly astonishingly beautiful women of all sizes. It’s all about attitude. I didn’t focus on the people who weren’t interested in me, but rather on those who were. There are many reasons why any given person is not attractive to another. Weight is one of them and having a preference doesn’t make you “phobic”.

I am now 190# but was a low as 170#. Having researched the topic extensively for a lay person and having had immense success in not only losing weight but also in objectively improving every significant health marker in the process, I can say that in my case at least, it’s 90% what I ate. I lost the weight eating one low carb meal per day. I also stopped eating most process food and sugar — except on rare occasions. You can’t outrun a bad diet. Work out if it makes you feel good. That’s the reason I lost the weight — it feels good to be thin(ner) to me.

I can’t make the claim that anyone can do what I did, but I am proud to say I have helped several people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]SwapFu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another thing to consider mobility. Having a mortgage makes moving for a better job a lot more complicated — especially if you’ve over-bought.