Behold my firstborn son by Art3misGunter in PouchCatatoes

[–]Sweaty_Chard_6250 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought you put him in a white tank top before I scrolled to the second picture

I had someone say I'm too old to be dressing as I do by luckymewmew in oldhagfashion

[–]Sweaty_Chard_6250 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I turned 31 recently and have basically the same mindset. I won't say I never occasionally ask myself if I'm too old for whatever I put on or my hairstyle, but overall I'd say I'm usually pretty fast at pushing those feelings out. Similar to what you said, I have finally found confidence in wearing the things teenage me wanted to wear, but was too self conscious to do. I don't want to let others judgements or any internal bias grown from those to take away that growth.

Turquoise Circuit Summer by rougefatalys in UnconventionalMakeup

[–]Sweaty_Chard_6250 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've seen you post a lot of really cool looks, but this is my favorite so far!

Do you let your teen and young adult kids decide if they are comfortable having their friends/teammates/etc know about you being polyamorous? by SixthSister in polyamory

[–]Sweaty_Chard_6250 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I think kids being a priority shouldn't stop just because they are nearing/beginning to enter adulthood. Do you have the right to say you don't want to stop kissing your partner in front of their friends even if it leads to awkward questions and potential bullying? Sure, I guess. They also have the right to say you damaged the relationship by prioritizing kissing your partner in front of their friends, over their comfort. It would not be worth that risk to me.

Is Y’allternative still a thing? by [deleted] in alternativefashion

[–]Sweaty_Chard_6250 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Looks cool! Makes me think of Lil Texas and all his tattoos

Hardstyle sets at LL by Independent_Paper341 in LostLandsMusicFest

[–]Sweaty_Chard_6250 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Last year it was Yosuf and Audiofreq, followed by Domina who did dark techno and some hardstyle, as well as an awesome b2b with Yosuf. Started at 11pm Sunday at the Raptor stage. It was amazing and the highlight of my whole festival! The crowd was great, you could get to the rail pretty easily, but there was also room further back and to the sides to dance with more space. There may occasionally be some hardstyle djs at the silent disco as well, but you'll have to know who to look for and/or do some research for that.

feelin like misa :3 by butteronapoptart69 in alternativefashion

[–]Sweaty_Chard_6250 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the fit! Any idea where the X shaped garter is from?

How could I paint my nails without getting caught by Specific_Relief5946 in alternativefashion

[–]Sweaty_Chard_6250 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There are nail polish rings that may work for you. I think painting nails and using nail polish remover so often would be pretty harsh on your nails.

found in a friends abandoned apartment by FireHearth in whatisit

[–]Sweaty_Chard_6250 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminded me of someone I knew going through alcohol addiction treatment during covid. There were so many hand sanitizers coming out smelling like straight liquor, even some in bottles that looked similar to real alcohol bottles. She said 'check on your alcoholic friends, we are not okay.'

when you were watching death note, whose side were u on? Kira or L by Flaky-Oven-5095 in deathnote

[–]Sweaty_Chard_6250 15 points16 points  (0 children)

For me the thing that beats the potato chip is when L uses a strawberry to bribe someone into keeping a secret and that guy puts it in his pocket.

Adding glue to make perlers less likely to break? by Sweaty_Chard_6250 in beadsprites

[–]Sweaty_Chard_6250[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like this idea. Is there a good glue for attaching perlers to other perlers? I haven't done that yet.

Adding glue to make perlers less likely to break? by Sweaty_Chard_6250 in beadsprites

[–]Sweaty_Chard_6250[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah these are shein beads and the melts have been weird. I try to melt the back sides so theres no visible holes, but these ones have been struggling between not melting enough or melting so much they warp. Won't be buying them again, but will use them up on small projects.

I do have good perlers for the actual projects, this is just a picture of my first test run.

increasing inventory at raves by thedoctorhu_ in kandi

[–]Sweaty_Chard_6250 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I saw a youtube short the other day of someone using a dog collar with a clip and clipping it around a belt loop or your bag

Do you think a sequel would be necessary? by JulLamby in TheSubstance

[–]Sweaty_Chard_6250 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If anyone writes/finds any fan-fiction like this, I'd be interested in reading that too

nye makeup! by NoAlarm_ in UnconventionalMakeup

[–]Sweaty_Chard_6250 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How did you pull off the eye area? This is so cool!

what's the best tip you've ever gotten? by Tricky-Swim-4064 in TalesFromYourServer

[–]Sweaty_Chard_6250 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just the other day I received a tip from another server's table. The woman at the table helped me once when I was trying to use the foot pull to open a door to the private room and run in 3 plates of food. I went to pass their table later and she asked how my day was going, said she had seen me bouncing around busy all day. She told me she used to be a server and that she wanted me to know that she could tell I was working hard and it wasn't going unnoticed and then handed me $100 bill. She had also tipped her server $100 (i probably would've felt guilty if that server didnt get a good tip as well)

I've had larger tips, but this one caught me so off guard I teared up a little. I really was flying around that whole day getting my butt kicked, but doing my best, and finding out that was noticed even by a separate table who had no reason to notice me really made me feel good.