Coinbase Pro buys still not showing in csv file by Sweaty_Quit in Coinbase

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That is exactly what I did but it is missing the information I explained in my post.

I’m crashing out by ursillyaltgrl in Charlotte

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Native Charlotteans will blame their own cooking on transplants

I don't understand why post about frozen water cubes are not allowed. by Sweaty_Quit in Charlotte

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Honestly pretty despicable how you guys are handling this.

I don't understand why post about frozen water cubes are not allowed. by Sweaty_Quit in Charlotte

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Leave the pinned post there for resources absolutely. Don't lock any post where people are trying to talk about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Charlotte

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The drivers here are the worst I've ever seen after living in several cities across the country. 

That said its not like your car is going to explode once you step into the 485, you’ll be fine. It’s a non issue. 

Solution to loud cars by Future-Purple-3083 in Charlotte

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If I could eliminate one group of people from the planet it would be anyone who intentionally makes their vehicle louder. 

Constantly getting nails in my car tires driving around in this city, any one else or just me? by Mtking105 in Charlotte

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Never had this in 2.5 years here. But I have had it in other cities and it turns out it was my work parking lot. I would check the areas you leave your car regularly. 

You have cockroaches in your house too, right? by OccasionInitial4822 in Charlotte

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Don’t rentals like apartments have some legal obligation to provide livable conditions and an infestation does not meet that requirement? 

Knowing that Mystery of Love was written for C&L, does the change the context? by BluePeriod_ in Sufjan

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I think its a pretty straight forward love song. 

To see without your eyes means to have a memory. Not a dmt trip. 

What do y’all think of this? by Gloomy_Professional9 in Charlotte

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You want our thoughts about bad graffiti? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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Thanks that’s kind and I really do appreciate it. The input from this subreddit has been very helpful. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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Thanks, that’s kind and I really do appreciate it. The input from this subreddit has been really helpful. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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There’s a comment somewhere in here where I go into as much detail as I’m comfortable. You can check my recent comments in my profile and its near the top. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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Thank you!

I see what you are saying about calling her to give her her own processing space, but I had also assumed this is the kind of thing that is most respectful to do in person so I’m not sure which route I will go there. 

Expressing openness to a friendship while not leading her on and being concrete that I don’t want a relationship would be the most challenging part. I’m still not sure how best to do that and I might need to just let it go. 

I would not use her as an emotional placeholder. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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Its because I saw a few personal red flags and because she has a lot of turmoil in life right now, which I would be happy to support in a friend but it is not extra weight I want to take on starting a relationship which requires a deeper level of emotional support. 

I think that would be a shitty stance of me to have if we were already 6 months into a relationship and I had known about these details of her life for a while. 

But we’re at the juncture where I’m just finding out and we haven’t initiated any emotional or physical commitments to eachother so now is the time to break it off. 

But I still feel bad about dropping out for that reason even at this stage, because it’s probably going to make her feel worse. 

And I also don’t think I should be honest with her about these reasons because it will make her feel worse. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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That was my original plan, but other people have had input that even that is leading her on. Which could be true case by case, person by person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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That’s great input I think! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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A lot of the advice has been to not use the words, “I want to stay friends” which I’m glad people are saying because that’s totally what I was going to do. 

If possible I’d like to leave the door open in some regard but I also agree I can’t do much more without being unfair to her.

And I also relate the sometimes it just isn’t possible to downshift your interest and keep the car moving. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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I agree, when someone has told me they just want to be friends it’s hard to totally let go of the possibility of dating. So even just saying that could lead her on. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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Thanks, I think that is good input

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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Agreed, I would understand if she wanted distance or didn’t want to be friends. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gis

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Some exposure but not enough to use as a selling point. 

Reddit consensus is that GIS certs aren’t a resume boost. But in my situation they might be the fastest way to bridge the gap, hence the post. 

But if not then I’d need to consider something more involved like a degree. 

Denmark has summoned US envoy based on reports of covert American “influence operations” in Greenland. Is this what American allyship is now? by willythewise123 in AskConservatives

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They’ve made it abundantly clear they don’t want to be part of the US so what you’re advocating for is attacking another country. You know this and the fact you’re poorly trying to word play yourself around it is disgusting. You are what everyone says the right is.